2. Why we listen
⢠To obtain information
⢠To understand
⢠To learn
⢠For enjoyment
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3. Active listening, different from
âhearingâ
⢠Making a conscious effort to hear the whole
message being sent
⢠Paying close attention to the person speaking
⢠Signalling that you are paying attention
⢠A form of two way communication
⢠Greatly increases retention of information and clear
communication
⢠Essential in team work as you need to ensure you
are communicating clearly
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4. Active listening skills
1) Pay attention
Give your full attention to the speaker and their
message. Non-verbal communication also âspeaksâ
loudly.
⢠Look at the speaker directly
⢠Put aside distracting thoughts
⢠Avoid being distracted by things going on around
you
⢠âListenâ to the speakers body language
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5. Active listening skills
2) Show that youâre listening
Be aware of how your body language and gestures
can convey your attention and affect the speaker.
⢠Use small gestures like nodding
⢠Keep a pleasant facial expression
⢠Keep your body language open and inviting
⢠Encourage the speaker to continue with non-verbal
prompts e.g. uh huh, mhhmm
⢠Take short notes of the conversation if appropriate
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6. Active listening skills
3) Provide feedback
Personal views can distort what we hear. Providing
feedback and asking questions can help clarify what
has been said.
⢠Reflect what has been said back to the speaker
âWhat Iâm hearing isâŚâ
⢠Ask questions to clarify points.
âWhat do you mean when you sayâŚâ
⢠Summarise the speakers comments
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7. Active listening skills
4) Defer judgment
Interrupting is a waste of time. It can frustrate the
speaker and limit your understanding of the message.
⢠Allow the speaker to finish each point before
asking questions
⢠Donât interrupt with counter arguments
⢠Donât mentally prepare a rebuttal
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8. Active listening skills
5) Respond appropriately
It is important to be respectful, you gain nothing from
attacking or offending a speaker, even unintentionally.
⢠Be open and honest in your response
⢠Assert your opinions respectfully
⢠Treat the other person in a way that you think he or
she would want to be treated
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9. A simple way to try and
understand⌠SCORE
⢠S â Simplify and Specify
⢠Be clear and specific
⢠C â Clarify and Confirm
⢠If youâre not sure, ask!
⢠O â Organise and Outline
⢠Think carefully about how youâre presenting information
⢠R â Rephrase and Reframe
⢠Is there a different way to explain what youâre saying?
⢠E â Explain with Examples
⢠Examples help people understand what is happening
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