Effectiveness with our self and with other is
based upon how individual Character and not
on quick fix formula’s or manipulative
How we can cope up with our day to day
challenges and how we can overcome and
rise above our present circumstances.
Implementing 7 habit of highly effective
people and help to create happier and more
rewarding home and work life with rich and
The essential purpose of the 7 habit of highly
effective people is to learn how to lead your
life in truly effective and successful way.
What it is not
Not quick fix
Program of the month
It is the process of personal and
interpersonal growth and development that
will require not only your continuing best
effort but also your patience u see u must
pay the price over an extended period of
time to fully reap the benefits of this habits
by applying this effort you can expect to
increase your capacity to achieve your
personal and professional goal and to
develop better working relationship with
your associates and all of your loved one’s.
For our purposes we will define the habit in
three intersection of Knowledge, Skill and
What to do?
Why to do?
How to do?
The Want to do?
It is a Simple common sense
Remember what is commonsense is not
always common practice.
So I encourage you to put forth the time and
effort as well as focus on the kind of changes
you can make consistently overtime to
develop these habits.
Wanted to learn the success idea.in 1976
150 yrs Success fulite
Fidelity-Faithfulness and Loyalty
Responsibility-Person or thing for which one
Service-Doing of Work for Another.
Agri to industry
Way from Character to Personality
Now Industry to information
Pronounced new shift from once again to
Principle those are central to character
It focuses like a technique
Personality Ethic-: Tip of ice burg
Character Ethic-: Mass is below the water
This material focuses Inside Outside
Dependence- you take care of me?
Independent-I can do it…
Interdependence-We can do it
Basic insight-:until you and I are independent
we cannot be Interdependence.
Begin with the end in mind.
Put first things first.
First seek to understand and then to be
Sharpen the saw
Result we seek and the asset that produce
High level of Effectiveness not mediocre
Eg. The story of Goose
P (production of desired result)-
P-Golden Egg, PC-Health of Goose
Imp-How to sustain the relationship of all the
Eg. Exercise(How many of us Know about it?)
Eg. Marriage relationship
Ultimate universal Mission Statement is to
increase economic well being and quality of
life of all stake holders.
How you can become more productive?
Violating of Promise
Not fulfilling my commitment to you
To understand person from within their
frame of reference.
Making and keeping up the Promises.(Early
Simple Kindness-Thank you, Please – What’s
your opinion? Can I help you?
In relation Little things are big things.
Loyalty in absence
Giving and Receiving Feedback
Ability to Apologize
To Forgive and Forget (Snake, A glass)
SOW A Thought And Reap A Action
Sow A Action And Reap A Habit
Sow A Habit And Reap A Character
Sow A Character And Reap A Destiny
Taking Individual responsibility for life and
Life is a product of your values not your
feeling . Life is the product of your decision
Be proactive means You take initiative to do
whatever necessary to make good things
happen. In other word you are the creative
force of your own life. (Programmer)
Life is the function of feeling, moods,
impulses and your anger.
You feel victimized
I am what my past has made it to me.
I am what other have made to me.
Freedom of choosing the option available.
It is easy to say I am not responsible then to
say I am irresponsible.
Circle of Influence those are things you can
do something about.
Circle of Concern those
Eg. President dynamic and intelligent.
Eg. A man.
can control or
• Other people
• The weather
• Things you did wrong in
• How other people treat
Things you CAN
• Your attitude
• Your mood
• Your reaction to good
and bad things that
• How I treat other people
"Begin with the End in Mind" is based on the
principle that all things are created twice.
There's a mental or first creation, and a
physical or second creation to all things
Take the construction of a home, for
Example-: Most Businesses are failures.
EX-: Trip, Garden, Speech and Clothes
It's a principle that all things are created
twice, but not all first creations are by
In our personal lives, if we do not develop
our own self-awareness and become
responsible for first creations, we empower
other people and circumstances outside our
Circle or Influence to shape much of our lives
Warren Bennis, "Management is doing things
right; leadership is doing the right things."
Management is efficiency in climbing the
ladder of success; leadership determines
whether the ladder is leaning against the
Effectiveness -- leadership first and
Efficient management without effective
leadership is, as one individual phrased it,
"like straightening deck chairs on the
Titanic." No management success can
compensate for failure in leadership.
Character- What you want to do?
Contribution and Achievement-
Seek and merit divine help.
Never compromise with honesty.
Remember the people involved.
Hear both sides before judging.
Obtain counsel of others.
Defend those who are absent.
Be sincere yet decisive.
Develop one new proficiency a year.
Plan tomorrow's work today.
Hustle while you wait.
Maintain a positive attitude.
Keep a sense of humor.
Be orderly in person and in work.
Do not fear mistakes -- fear only the absence
of creative, constructive, and corrective
responses to those mistakes.
Facilitate the success of subordinates.
Listen twice as much as you speak.
Concentrate all abilities and efforts on the
task at hand, not worrying about the next
job or promotion.
1. It should timeless.
2. It should be with END and MEANS both.
3. To LIVE, LOVE, Be LOVE, Keep Growing and
to live legacy.
To Help Individual to set right Priorities in Life