4. PERCEPTION
– Perception is a phenomenon which is made by
others. Generally once perception is formed, it is
difficult to improve upon it whether it is good or bad.
– Generally there is parallax between perception made
by others and that made by oneself.
– It is my observation that perception hits hard in the
mind of an individual.
– Total Perception (TP) = Individual Perception (IP) +
Environmental Perception (EP)
5. PERFORMANCE
– This is the most important aspect of the
professional life of anyone.
– Performance is not limited to the disposal of
assigned work but also other attributes like
leadership, decision making, relationship with
peer group, problem resolving attitude etc.
– It is clear and simple that one has to
perform, and perception and relationship
supports it.
6. RELATIONSHIP
– There are three types of relationships
– Barter Relationship: Relationship is sustained as
long as the barter between two individuals continues.
There is no emotion involved in this case.
– Fixed Deposit Relationship: You maintain it just to
take support in case of need. It is like an insurance
which is offered to someone without payment of
premium.
– Emotional Relationship: The type of relationship is
of a pure form. It is based on emotions.. In this, one
likes to use himself for the welfare of the other to the
fullest extent.
7. LUCK
– If some event is going to take place, it would take place
as it is destined to. Fate or destiny is the conspiracy of
forces to make the thing happen.
– So, if one is destined to be successful then
perception, performance and relationship is going to be
favourable.
– This does not mean that we should depend only on
perception, performance or relationships for success.
– Requisite effort has to be put in for optimal gain from
these factors.
9. Phase - I: From 23 to 35 years
– First three years are very important for any individual
after joining a job as he is new to corporate life.
– This is the point when Perception about him is being
formed by others or his environment.
– It this is the stage where perception is formed along
with professional capabilities.
– Conclusively,
Perception : Formation stage
Performance : Formation stage
Relationship : not very important
10. Phase-II: 35 to 45 years
– This is the phase, when perception formation has
reached a plateau and very little improvement is
perceived by others.
– Its the time when the relationship with internal as well
as external environment is blossoming.
– Selection of the right person with whom the
relationship is to be maintained, requires dexterity.
– Conclusively:
Perception : Almost frozen
Performance : Still Continuing
Relationship : Formation stage
11. Phase-III: 45 to 55 years
– The environment is able to understand about the individual
and the process of perception is almost frozen.
– By this time one has developed enough maturity, become
professionally sound as well have achieved financial
comfort.
– Relationships become important and run parallel to
perception and professional capabilities.
– From this point onwards, relationship with your
superiors, peers even with sub-ordinates counts.
– Conclusively:
Perception : Frozen
Performance : Already Established
Relationship : Needs development
12. Phase-IV: 55 years and above
– Only minimal improvement can be made as by this
time the mental conditioning has matured. Very little
improvement is expected as most individuals reach a
mental plateau condition by this stage.
– However, relationships start giving dividend as we
grow older.
– Relationships matter because competency levels of
all the competitors are almost the same, so selection
is to be done based on strength of relationships.
– Conclusively:
Perception : Frozen
Performance : Already Established
Relationship : Keeps on developing
15. Do’s
Habit of working is good, habit of working with time
is better but habit of completing the work within
time is best.
Leadership is to understand everyone working with
you and definitely you must assert on the issues
which you want to carry forward.
Selection of people should be done properly. It is the
key to success in any project.
While going for good works also, check for its fallout
Habit of reading books is good for individual as it
enhances the data base and while talking or
16. Do’s
Technique of appreciation enhances productivity
and motivates persons. One is required to neglect
the weakness of others. It may be
employee, contractor, family member or any one.
It helps a lot.
Some one must see ahead so that proper actions
can be taken for risks, if they are visible.
There has to a system to sense early
warning signals. Develop early warning
system.
There has to a system for communicating
with employees. Develop a better
communication system.
There will be gaps between goal and outcome.
17. Give your 100%
Do’s
Break the problem into pieces to solve it.
In order to get work from the employee or
contractor, be empathetic to them.
Read the documents before sending to management
as a cross check.
Maintain Silence as far as possible.
Interact frequently with concerned persons
18. Do’s
Essential quality of bosses / leaders is to develop
fighting spirit after failure. Develop fighting spirit
in your subordinates.
Structuring Arguments / Presentation and
preparation before meeting.
Every time you must have one thing in mind -
How am I making difference in
organization, society, home etc.
19. Do’s
You can get work from anyone provided you want.
Don't condemn any one. Any organization runs on
A, B, C and D Type of employees. Always try to
upgrade them through counseling or training. Give
additional support to the employee, who is not able
to perform well.
Must understand psychic of dealing official.
Daily diary of activities and recording of lessons
learnt
20. Dont’s
Don't be complacent
Don't sign on any paper without
understanding, particularly those going to higher
ups.
Bosses don't want any problem to them and if
possible they should not be forced to take
decisions.
You should not water a banyan tree as it does not
need. Better water plants which give flowers.
21. Dont’s
Leaders should not give up in any circumstances;
they always should fight back with the
circumstances. Never give up.
It is not necessary to react immediately.
Understand the situation first and better keep
mum till then as far is possible.
Better to stand on your own feet than depending on
others. Better try to get that mark which you
achieve on your own.
22. Other Tips
It is difficult to get the things done as per your
views. Sometimes you have to exert your position.
Knowing persons who are not
worthy, becomes liability to boss.
Everyone likes a good person. Maintaining
good qualities is difficult and requires lot of
effort.
People wait for leaders but they expect leader
be truthful and detached from results.
23. Other Tips
Bosses should be like therapist, who should
understand problem of the sub-ordinates and try to
give suitable solutions and in case of canorous
disease he should not hesitate to operate it.
Team should walk together when moving outside. It
is a better way to display cohesion, rather leader
ahead and others behind.
Assertivetdue (Assesrtive + Service attitude)
leadership is required in day to day functioning.
Nursing leadership is anticipated from a leader now
a days.
24. Other Tips
People don't take decision from the fear of
unknown.
Long presentations should be like journey from one
end to other. The flow should be smooth and not a
bumpy one.
We often fail in obvious things
Persuasion is the best tool to get the work done.
Scolding of boss may be for your improvement. The
stress which you experience is to improve you i.e.