This document provides worksheets to develop emotional intelligence. It discusses the five domains of emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. For each domain, it explains the concept and provides questions for self-reflection. It also provides tactics for becoming more emotionally literate and developing social and personal tactics to improve emotional intelligence.
motional intelligence (EI) is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goal
Dear All,
Do you get angry often in your life that makes you loose focus on what is right and wrong? Is there been a time that you failed to see reason because you were very angry at something or someone? Do you scream at your spouse / children / friends / subordinates when you are angry? Welcome to the party - you are one among millions who are victims of this much devastating emotional volatility which is as good as a human bomb ready to explode any time!
Let me share with you this PPT on " How to stop getting angry ". Please do let me have your comments on the same.
With best regards
Shamim
motional intelligence (EI) is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goal
Dear All,
Do you get angry often in your life that makes you loose focus on what is right and wrong? Is there been a time that you failed to see reason because you were very angry at something or someone? Do you scream at your spouse / children / friends / subordinates when you are angry? Welcome to the party - you are one among millions who are victims of this much devastating emotional volatility which is as good as a human bomb ready to explode any time!
Let me share with you this PPT on " How to stop getting angry ". Please do let me have your comments on the same.
With best regards
Shamim
The Four Agreements - Your Key to Personal FreedomMSCSA
Don Miguel Ruiz, author of the 4 agreements, describes this book as your key to personal freedom. In this workshop we will explore the 4 Agreements and reflect on how it works within your lives currently, and what you can be doing going forward to eliminate dark energy and build a more positive view of yourself and others. With these agreements integrated into your daily routine, you could completely transform your life and the lives of others around you.
In the current competitive environment we get hit by pressures from all quarters. Controlling on our anger helps us to build the positive attitude to handle all pressures.
Anger often considered as a bad emotion is a healthy, human emotion. It helps in reducing stress while balancing your physical and emotional distress but losing control of your actions after getting angry is the stage where things slip out of your hands. Anger management can refer to a psycho-therapeutic program that can help you in anger prevention and control. These slides cover the introduction or definition of anger, causes of anger, anger cycle, the ways to understand your anger, relaxation technique to manage anger, etc. to give you a better understanding of it...
WANTED, COMMUNITY LEADERS FOR THE PROMOTION OF EMPATHY: The New Revolution of the Heart
How do you think society might be affected if empathy was taught in schools?
Imagine a world in which everyone, children and adults, knew how to care about how others feel and what they need, want, and think.
The author believes while each individual has a unique capacity for empathy, some more than others, empathy can be assisted and encouraged for those who are either very motivated or who possess even a small degree of empathic aptitude.
For example, empathic development may require an awareness of one's own emotions in order to begin to feel connected with the emotions of others.
Now for the first time, we have a set of tools to actually learn empathy so that it becomes part of one's way of relating to others. The author describes ten practical exercises to enable the development of empathy and thereby aid the transformation of the self, the community, and human society.
The Four Agreements - Your Key to Personal FreedomMSCSA
Don Miguel Ruiz, author of the 4 agreements, describes this book as your key to personal freedom. In this workshop we will explore the 4 Agreements and reflect on how it works within your lives currently, and what you can be doing going forward to eliminate dark energy and build a more positive view of yourself and others. With these agreements integrated into your daily routine, you could completely transform your life and the lives of others around you.
In the current competitive environment we get hit by pressures from all quarters. Controlling on our anger helps us to build the positive attitude to handle all pressures.
Anger often considered as a bad emotion is a healthy, human emotion. It helps in reducing stress while balancing your physical and emotional distress but losing control of your actions after getting angry is the stage where things slip out of your hands. Anger management can refer to a psycho-therapeutic program that can help you in anger prevention and control. These slides cover the introduction or definition of anger, causes of anger, anger cycle, the ways to understand your anger, relaxation technique to manage anger, etc. to give you a better understanding of it...
WANTED, COMMUNITY LEADERS FOR THE PROMOTION OF EMPATHY: The New Revolution of the Heart
How do you think society might be affected if empathy was taught in schools?
Imagine a world in which everyone, children and adults, knew how to care about how others feel and what they need, want, and think.
The author believes while each individual has a unique capacity for empathy, some more than others, empathy can be assisted and encouraged for those who are either very motivated or who possess even a small degree of empathic aptitude.
For example, empathic development may require an awareness of one's own emotions in order to begin to feel connected with the emotions of others.
Now for the first time, we have a set of tools to actually learn empathy so that it becomes part of one's way of relating to others. The author describes ten practical exercises to enable the development of empathy and thereby aid the transformation of the self, the community, and human society.
A Power Point Presentation of a few Moral Stories for the young. Can also be used as motivational English Lessons. For animation effects please download.
emotionalintelligence-160806062005 from slideshare Emotional Intelligence.pptxMichelleBenning2
EQ is the skill to recognize different emotions in yourself and the world around you and to interpret and use these emotions to enhance your quality of life.
EQ is a set of abilities that helps you manage your emotions and relate to others.
EQ is the ability to recognize your emotions, understand what they're telling you and realize how your emotions affect people around you.
EQ is the ability to understand and manage both your own emotions and those of the people around you.
Mastery and Development of the five Emotional Intelligence (EQ) competencies - self awareness, self regulation, self motivation, empathy and social skills
Emotional intelligence, definition models importance
Emotional Intelligence involves a combination of competencies which allow a person to a aware of, to understand, and to be in control of their own emotions, to recognize and understand the emotions of others, and to use this knowledge to foster their success and the success of others.
What is Emotional Intelligence?
Why EI is important?
Daniel Goleman
five key elements under two different categories
Self-Awareness
Self-Regulation or Management
Motivation
Empathy
Social or Interpersonal Skills
Benefits of Higher Emotional Intelligence
Some Key Points
Emotional Intelligence involves our ability to recognize, understand, and utilize our emotions in a constructive manner. How much impact does this have in the workplace: a lot! Research shows it is the strongest predictor of performance and the foundation for critical leadership skills. This full-day program provides participants with a framework of the personal and social dimensions of emotional intelligence, and provides concrete strategies for applying these skills in the workplace.
Emotional intelligence @ work place- by Shritheja KShri Theja
It is very important factor to know and control emotions at work place, as an aid to success. High EQ will make a person easily to climb corporate ladder and reach great hights.
J C Thomas, Jr. gives an encouraging talk to students and the church audience who graduated from the Leadership Academy under the tutelage of Minister Kristopher K. Dardar, Sr.
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1. Worksheet # 1 - Mad, Sad, Glad
• 1. Identify a personal experience around each of the
following strong emotions:
• Mad – Anger, frustration, rage, hostility.
• Sad – Sense of loss, depression, helplessness,
unhappiness, or disappointment.
• Glad – Pride in an achievement, giddy excitement, joy,
supreme satisfaction.
• 2. Reflect on how feeling each of these strong
emotions affected you, either positively or negatively.
2. With our emotions, we are striving to be able to:
1.
2.
3.
Defining Emotional Intelligence:
4. Worksheet # 4 –
The Five Domains of Emotional Intelligence
• Domain #1 - Self-awareness
• (Self-awareness is knowing what you are feeling when you are feeling it):
• Developing self-awareness requires tuning in to your true feelings. If you can recognize and evaluate
• your emotions, you can manage them. The ability to recognize an emotion as it happens is the key.
• The major elements of self-awareness are:
Emotional awareness.
Your ability to recognize your own emotions and their effects.
Self-confidence.
Sureness about your self-worth and capabilities.
• The science of emotional intelligence tells us we must begin with our own self-awareness before we
• can tap into other’s emotions.
• Question: What emotions and their affects would you like to be more aware of as they are
• happening?
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
5. Worksheet #4
Self-Regulation
• Domain #2 - Self-regulation.
• Self-regulations is using your emotions to serve you and not get in your
• way. Self-regulation is also the ability to recover well from emotional stress):
• From self-awareness flows self-regulation. Self-regulation is handling your feelings to respond
• appropriately to an emotional situation. Without knowing what you’re feeling, you can’t manage
• those feelings.
• Regulation is less of a concern when dealing with positive emotions. But negative emotions such as
• anxiety, frustration, anger, rage, sadness, or panic, require more regulation. Self-regulation involves:
• Self-control.
• Managing disruptive impulses.
• Maintaining standards of honesty and integrity.
• Conscientiousness.
• Taking responsibility for your own emotions.
• Question: What emotions do you experience that feel most disruptive to you and your life that
• you would like to regulate?
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
6. Worksheet #4
Motivation
• Worksheet # 4 – The Five Domains of Emotional Intelligence
• Domain #3 – Motivation
• (Delaying gratification to pursue important goals and persevering when
• faced with setbacks or frustrations):
• Personal motivation requires clear goals and a positive attitude. We must ready ourselves in order
to
• act on opportunities. Regardless of whether you have a predisposition to a positive or a negative
• attitude, you can, with effort and practice, think more positively. Remember:
• People with greater emotional intelligence experience hope and optimism more often than those
• with less emotional intelligence.
• Motivated people have less emotional stress.
• Optimism protects people from apathy and depression. It can also keep people from blaming
• failure on a personal trait that cannot be changed.
• If you catch negative thoughts as they occur, you can reframe them in more positive terms, which
can
• help you achieve your goals.
• Question: What emotion motivates you to be your best?
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
7. Worksheet #4
The Five Domains of Emotional Intelligence
• Worksheet # 4 – The Five Domains of Emotional Intelligence
• Domain #4 – Empathy (Empathy is sensing what others are feeling and seeking other
perspectives):
• Empathy is the ability to recognize another’s emotional state. The more skillful you are at
discerning
• the feelings behind others’ signals, the better you can control the signals you send. Empathy
involves
• listening carefully, picking up on what people are truly saying, and responding accordingly. Stephen
• Covey describes empathy as listening for emotion, which in turn makes people feel understood. To
be more effective when being empathetic, try these techniques:
• 1. Recognize your own bias: People who are angry or in a bad mood notice another person’s bad
• mood more readily than another person’s good mood.
• 2. Put aside your own feelings: When you have your own “emotional agenda,” it interferes with
• your ability to empathize with other people’s feelings.
• 3. Be attentive to cues: Tell people what you notice, and ask for confirmation of what you’re
• sensing.
• Question: To what degree are you able to recognize someone else’s emotional state?
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
8. Worksheet #4
Five Domains of Emotional Intelligence
• Domain #5 - Social skills
• (Social skills is the ability to interact with others comfortably and cooperate
• during those interactions):
• Of all the domains, social skills is the easiest to recognize. Social skills allows us to connect with other
people. Social awareness builds on the domain of self-regulation in that it allows us to access and express
emotions in appropriate ways.
• Among the most useful social skills are:
• Influence - Wielding effective persuasion tactics.
• Communication - Sending clear messages.
• Change - Initiating or managing change.
• Conflict management - Understanding, negotiating and resolving disagreements.
• Building bonds - Nurturing instrumental relationships.
• Collaboration and cooperation - Working with others toward shared goals.
• Question: What emotions support you socially, and which of your emotions get in the way for
• you socially?
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
• ______________________________________________________________________
9. Read through and highlight which of these tactics could be of most benefit in
developing your emotional intelligence going forward.
1. Become emotionally literate.
Label your feelings, rather than labeling people or situations.
Use three word sentences beginning with "I feel."
"I feel impatient." vs. "This is ridiculous."
“I feel hurt and bitter." vs. "You are an insensitive jerk."
"I feel afraid." vs. "You are driving like an idiot."
2. Distinguish between thoughts and feelings.
Thoughts: I feel like...& I feel as if....
Feelings: I feel (followed by the feeling word)
3. Take more responsibility for your feelings.
"I feel jealous." vs. "You are making me jealous."
Analyze your own feelings rather than the action or motives of other people.
Let your feelings help you identify your unmet emotional needs.
Worksheet #5
Personal Tactics
10. Worksheet #5
Personal Tactics
• 4. Use your feelings to help make decisions.
• "How will I feel if I do this?" Or, "How will I feel if I don't?"
• "How do I feel right now about this?"
• “What would help me feel better?"
• Ask others: "How do you feel?" and "What would help you feel
better?"
• 5. Feel energized, not angry or frustrated.
• Use the emotions of “anger” or “frustration” to feel energized
and take productive action.
• For example, when you feel frustrated or angry, explore your
options. You can say, “I feel
• frustrated right now, how can I do this differently?”
• Why?
11. Worksheet # 6 – Social Tactics
Read through and highlight which of these tactics could be of most benefit in
developing your emotional intelligence going forward.
• 1. Use feelings to set and achieve goals.
• Set “feeling goals.” Think about how you want to feel or how you want others to feel. (Your
• family, friends, co-workers, acquaintances, etc.).
• Get feedback and track progress towards your “feeling goals” by periodically measuring your
• feelings and other’s feelings on a scale from 0-10
• 2. Validate other people's feelings.
• Show empathy, understanding, and acceptance of other people's feelings.
• 3. Use feelings to show respect for others.
• How will you feel if I do this? How will you feel if I don't?
• Then listen and take their feelings into consideration.
• 4. Don't advise, command, control, criticize, judge or lecture others.
• 5. Instead, just listen with empathy and non-judgment.
• 6. Avoid people who invalidate you.
• 7. While this is not always possible, at least try to spend less time with them, or try not to let them
• have psychological power over you.
• Why?