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Workplace Civility
1. WORKPLACE CIVILITY -
RESPECTFUL HABITS THAT
ENHANCE PRODUCTIVITY
Katrina Plourde, SPHR, MLHR
Human Resources Manager
Westerville Public Library
kplourde@westervillelibrary.org
2. “Be civil to all, sociable to many,
familiar with a few, friend to one,
enemy to none.”
- Benjamin Franklin
3. OBJECTIVES
Today we will look at:
1. DEFINITION of what civility and
incivility looks like
2. The IMPACT of incivility on
workplaces and individuals
3. Ways to BUILD civility into your
organizations
4. EXAMPLES of civility programs
5. DEFINITION
Civility encompasses more than just
good manners and etiquette.
It includes the behavior that helps to
preserve the norms for mutual respect
at work.
6. DEFINITION
Civility usually is demonstrated through
manners, courtesy, politeness, and a
general awareness of the rights, wishes,
concerns, and feelings of others.
7. DEFINITION
Civility demands that one speaks in ways
that are respectful, responsible,
restrained and principled…
…and avoid that which is offensive, rude,
demeaning, and threatening.
8. DEFINITION
So now we see that incivility is the
opposite of respect.
Yet some may see some of these
behaviors as just “being real” in today’s
terminology.
9. DEFINITION
If civility is based on norms of behavior,
it is not surprising that we have a crisis
of civility brewing in America.
We don’t want to be told what to do or
that there is a common behavior we
need to mold to.
10. “Are we a nation of boors – or just
trying to keep things real?”
- Marco R. della Cava
11. DEFINITION
It's an age of total disclosure and total
expression and there is often very little
concern for the feelings of others.
12. DEFINITION
According to Urban Dictionary:
“Entitlementia” = Behaving any way in
which one chooses with total disregard
for public decorum.
We all know examples of this…right?
14. DEFINITION
Production
Deviance
Leaving early
Taking excessive breaks
Intentionally working
slow
Wasting resources
Property Deviance
Sabotaging equipment
Accepting kickbacks
Lying about hours
worked
Stealing from the
company
Political Deviance
Showing favoritism
Gossiping about co-
workers
Blaming co-workers
Competeing non-
beneficially
Personal
Aggression
Sexual harassment
Verbal abuse
Stealing from co-
workers
Endangering co-
workers
SeriousMinor
Interpersonal
Organizational
Typology of
Deviant
Workplace
Behavior
15. DEFINITION
Examples in the workplace.
Civility Incivility
Going out of your way to help someone Failing to return phone calls, voice mails,
emails
Acknowledging your mistakes and
making appropriate amends
“Humorous” put-downs, eye rolling,
heavy sarcasm, derogatory remarks
Saying “please” and “thank you” Not keeping appointments
Using a positive tone of voice Interrupting conversations or meetings
Filling the copier with paper after using
the last piece
Yelling, phone slamming, fist pounding,
spitting, throwing objects
Apologizing when you do something
that offends someone
Chipping away at someone’s self-esteem
through constant slights
Refusing to participate in gossip Ignoring others and their opinions
Showing respect for other people’s
feelings and opinions
Addressing people in an unprofessional
manner
16. “Without civility…we run the risk of
acting as though we have ‘no fellow
passengers’ on the journey of life...”
- Deborah Eicher-Catt
17. IMPACT
The costs of incivility are significant
–decreased creativity,
–decreased morale,
–customer disdain—customers do not like
overhearing coworkers mistreat each
other—and
–time spent mending damages to
relationships
18. IMPACT
These costs aren’t merely interpersonal,
however.
Every human cost has a financial cost
(including a cost to both direct and
indirect compensation), as well.
19. IMPACT
Individual reactions vary, but Porath and
Pearson found that those who experience
incivility have:
– 48% - intentionally decreased their work effort
– 47% - intentionally decreased the time spent at work
– 38% - intentionally decreased the quality of their work
– 80% - lost work time worrying about the incident
– 63% - lost work time avoiding the offender
– 66% - said their performance declined
– 78% - said their commitment to the organization declined
– 12% - said they left their job because of the uncivil
treatment
– 25% - admitted to taking their frustration out on
customers
20. IMPACT
How do you perceive the incivility?
Your appraisal of the behavior
determines whether this breaks the
norms of your workplace and becomes
uncivil.
22. IMPACT
Coping Strategies:
1. Conflict avoidance: Try to avoid/stay away
from the person, Just put up with it, Try not to
make the person angry, Try not to hurt the
person’s feelings.
2. Minimization: Tell yourself it wasn’t
important, Just try to forget it, Just ignore it,
Assume the person meant no harm/meant well.
3. Assertion: Confront the person, Ask the person
to leave you alone, Let the person know you
didn’t like what was happening.
23. IMPACT
Coping Strategies:
4. Informal social support seeking: Talk with
friend/someone for advice/support, Talk about
it with someone you trusted Talk with family for
understanding/support.
5. Informal organizational support seeking:
Talk with a supervisor/someone in
management, Report the situation informally.
6. Formal organizational support seeking:
Make a formal complaint.
24. BUILD
Note that incivility must be appraised as
fairly aversive and continue for some
time—and perhaps even escalate to
bullying—before employees report it to
management.
25. BUILD
Therefore, management should not
await formal grievances to take action
because most incivility targets employ a
variety of coping responses other than
organizational support seeking.
26. BUILD
In order to address incivility
organizationally, we need to be aware of
some of the triggers in our culture that
make this behavior more evident.
27. “Many people seem to think because
they are so busy and stressed, they are
allowed to be unpleasant to their
colleagues, or show up late to things
without apologizing.”
- Joyce E.A. Russel
30. BUILD
The organization’s responsibility is to
develop a system where incivility is
prevented to the extent possible, uncivil
conduct is taken seriously despite its
“minor” appearance, and employee-
targets are assisted in their attempts to
cope.
31. BUILD
One way to affect any culture change is
to assess the current climate.
Using an assessment will help target
workgroups that could benefit from
interventions (training) to enhance
civility and reduce liability.
32. BUILD
You could add questions to your current
employee survey that identify civility
issues.
Or…use a tool already built for that use.
33. BUILD
The Civility Norms Questionnaire-Brief (CNQ-
B) has four questions:
1. Rude behavior is not accepted by your co-
workers.
2. Angry outburts are not tolerated by anyone in
your unit/workgroup.
3. Respectful treatment is the norm in your
unit/workgroup.
4. Your co-workers make sure everyone in your
unit/workgroup is treated with respect.
34. BUILD
Tips for enhancing civility include:
1. Have good role models for good manners. If the
boss is abrasive, then everyone else has an
excuse for also being abrasive. If the boss is
polite and encouraging, everyone else will likely
follow in the boss’ footsteps.
2. Teach civility to everyone in the workplace. Offer
training on good manners and ways to show
respect to colleagues. Have the leaders at the
firm kick off the training to illustrate their
commitment to it.
35. BUILD
Tips for enhancing civility include:
3. Have zero-tolerance expectations for abrasive
behaviors in the workplace. Make sure you take
action otherwise you are condoning it.
4. Teach employees how to self-monitor their own
behavior. Employees need to know what their
triggers are and how to control their impulses
and responses.
36. BUILD
Tips for enhancing civility include:
5. A certain level of conflict is important in
companies, and yet employees and managers
often don’t know how to express conflict in a
healthy way. Make sure to examine the conflict
management styles of employees and managers
and teach the value of openly discussing issues.
6. Provide anger or stress management training in
the company. Even offering tips every week can
be useful for employees.
37. BUILD
Tips for enhancing civility include:
7. Encourage employees to consider the impact of
their words and actions on others before they
act. Too often, e-mails or text messages are sent
out in rapid fire, which only serve to escalate a
situation.
8. Encourage a business casual or professional
dress code. Some have argued that a more
casual or sloppy dress code is related to
colleagues treating each other in an overly
familiar and less professional manner.
38. BUILD
Tips for enhancing civility include:
9. Be on time. If you are late to meetings or to
getting work done, at least apologize. This is not
a sign of weakness, but a sign of good manners.
10. Help employees accept responsibility for their
actions and the consequences of those actions.
11. Ask for feedback to learn how you are coming
across to others. Listen to that feedback, and
take action to improve.
39. BUILD
As leaders your role should be to See and
Believe
• Workplace aggression does not occur in a
vacuum, and it doesn’t occur without leaving
evidence.
• If you begin to receive multiple complaints about
a manager, listen. If one department has higher
levels of absenteeism, medical leaves, and
turnover than all the rest, investigate.
• Don’t assume that everyone has benign motives.
They don’t.
40. BUILD
As individuals we have two choices
according to Deborah King:
“When incivility comes your way you can be a
thermometer and react, or you can be a thermostat
and change the temperature.”
41. EXAMPLES
• Civility, Respect, and Engagement in the
Workplace (CREW) initiative at the U.S.
Department of Veterans Affairs
42. EXAMPLES
• Civility is an essential behavior of all employees
in all organizations. These are the interpersonal
“rules of engagement” for how we relate to each
other…the fundamentals of courtesy, politeness,
and consideration…
• Respect connects us at a personal level. It
reflects an attitude developed from deep listening
and understanding…
• Engagement is the result of respectful
relationships within an atmosphere of trust…
43. EXAMPLES
Southwest Airlines – workplace norms
foster civility.
• “We’ve talked to our employees from day one
about being one big family. If you stop and think
about it for even 20 seconds, the things we do are
things that you would do with your own families.
We try to acknowledge and react to any
significant event in our brothers’ or sisters’ lives,
whether it’s work related or personal…
44. EXAMPLES
Southwest Airlines – workplace norms
foster civility.
• …We do that traditional things, like sending
birthday cards and cards on the anniversary of
their date of hire. But if employees have a child
who’s sick or a death in the family, we do our best
to acknowledge it. We celebrate with out
employees wen good things happen, and we
grieve with them when they experience
something devastating.” – former CEO Colleen
Barrett
46. RESOURCES
• Johnson, Lisa C.; Cultivating Workplace Civility, UMES 5th
Annual Administrative Assistant Retreat (2012).
• Payscale, Incivility & Other Types of Workplace Aggression,
What It Is, What It Costs, and How to Stop It (2014).
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the workplace, Journal of Occupational Health Psychology
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initiative at the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs,
retrieved from http://www.va.gov/ncod/crew.asp (2015).
47. RESOURCES
• Richman, Barbara. Ten Tips for Creating Respect and Civility
in Your Workplace, HR Mpact, retrieved from
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career-coach-how-to-cultivate-civility-in-the-
workplace/2012/06/15/gJQA6YIjjV_story.html (2015).
• Johns Hopkins University and the Jacob France Institute of
the University of Baltimore. Workplace Misdeeds Top
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48. RESOURCES
• Della Cava, Marco R. What Happened to Civility? USA
TODAY, updated 9/15/2009. Retrieved from
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Study, Academy Of Management Journal; April 1, 1995.
• King, Deborah. Civility In The Workplace,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vhzf8G1uy_Y.
49. RESOURCES
• Walsh, Benjamin M., Magley, Vicki J., Reeves, David W.,
Davies-Schrils, Kimberly A., Marmet, Matthew D., and
Gallus, Jessica A. Assessing Workgroup Norms for Civility:
The Development of the Civility Norms Questionnaire-Brief,
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Volume 27, Issue 4, pp 407-420.
• University of Tennessee Knoxville, UT’s Civility Message,
https://youtu.be/K7uwiLK_FR0.
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https://youtu.be/V-_KtNTmy64.
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Civility: Preserving the Ineffable for the Good of the
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Editor's Notes
What are the norms we have in our workplaces?
There should be an ‘esprit de corps’ – feelings of goodwill, loyalty, enthusiasm and devotion to a group.
In a practical sense it is making sure the door doesn’t slam shut behind me, pausing to say thank you when someone holds the door for you, showing restraint in conversation (if you don’t have anything nice to say…).
But we say, ‘we are American, I have the right to do and say anything I want’.
Yes, but should you?
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