The document discusses stress management and provides tips for reducing stress. It defines stress and discusses the fight-or-flight response. It also explains that a moderate level of stress can increase performance, but too much stress decreases it. The document then lists physical and psychological signs that someone is overstressed and provides cognitive, situational, and physical strategies for managing stress, including challenging irrational beliefs, asserting boundaries, pacing oneself, and engaging in self-care activities like exercise.

1. Stress Management Phil Jorn University Counseling Services 785-4014

2. Definition of Stress Stress is the “wear and tear” our body and mind experience as we adjust to our environment. When we perceive a threat, our nervous system releases hormones which increase heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension. This is known as the fight-or-flight response. Examples- getting into an argument with your roommate, forgetting an assignment is due, giving a speech, etc.

3. Good and Bad Stress What the heck is good stress? As stress increases so does performance and efficiency, but only to a point. Beyond that point performance and efficiency decreases. Example-going out on a date It’s important to be aware of your stress level

4. How do you know you’re over stressed? There are four areas where Stress affects you: Feelings Thoughts Behaviors Physiological response

5. Feelings Anxious Irritated Fear Depressed Angry Embarrassment

6. Thoughts Negative self-talk Difficulty concentrating Forgetfulness Dwelling on possible negative outcomes

7. Behaviors Acting impulsively Difficulty speaking Increased smoking or alcohol use Change in appetite Nervous laughter Performance reduction

8. Physical Headaches Sleeping problems Tight muscles and/or stomach Fatigue Racing heart Sweaty, cold hands Neck and back pain

9. So what can I do to be psychologically healthy? Address the three primary factors that affect your stress: Mind Situation Body

10. Cognitive steps that lead to Anxiety Anxiety is the result of future-oriented cognitions. (most common focus is on failure and/or rejection) There are three cognitive steps to anxiety: Something bad might happen. (produces healthy stress) It must not happen. (produces unhealthy stress) It would be awful if it did. (produces unhealthy stress)

11. MIND Beliefs that create unhealthy negative emotions Dogmatic demands Awfulizing Low frustration tolerance Self/other rating Beliefs that create healthy emotions Non-dogmatic preferences Evaluating badness High frustration tolerance Not globally rating self or others “ People are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of them.” Epictetus, 1st century A.D.

12. Irrational vs. Rational Beliefs “ I must succeed!!!!!” “ If I fail this test then I’m a failure” “ If I don’t succeed they won’t love me” “ If I fail I won’t be able to stand it” “ I always get nervous, I can’t help it.” “ I want to succeed but I don’t have to.” If I fail a test that doesn’t make me a failure.” “ I don’t need others approval.” “ I don’t want to fail but if I do I can stand it.” “ If I work hard I can challenge and reduce my anxiety.” Spend time increasing awareness of your irrational beliefs. Then work at challenging and replacing them with more flexible, rational beliefs.

13. SITUATION Assert yourself-Don’t be afraid to say “NO.” Plan how to avoid, reduce or correct a problem in the future. “I haven’t failed, I’ve found 10,000 ways that don’t work.” (Ben Franklin) Pace yourself and schedule time to relax. If appropriate remove or escape from the problem.

14. BODY Remind yourself to breath. Give yourself “timeouts” to relax. Refuel through sleep & good nutrition. Exercise regularly. Avoid caffeine, nicotine and other stress-packed chemicals.

15. Ways to Cope Change your behavior Change your thinking Change your lifestyle

16. The Importance of Time Management Factors Associated with College Success and Satisfaction (According to Dr. Richard Light, Director of the Harvard Seminar on Assessment) Getting to know faculty and staff Studying in groups Getting Involved Taking some major classes early Managing time well

17. Steps to Better Time Management Identify and focus on your priorities Assess your current use of time Work on being assertive and saying “No!” Ground your goals in reality. Make a “To Do” list everyday. Don’t waste time agonizing. Include important tasks such as sleep, eating right, exercising and relaxing.

18. University Counseling Services Free and confidential counseling to Truman students 5 Full-time professional therapists Offer individual, couples and group counseling Open 8-5 M-F Plus on call 7 days a week, 24 hours a day Willing to do presentations to any group over a wide variety of topics Referral assistance

19. University Counseling Services (660) 785-4014 202 Patterson (located west of Grim Hall) http://ucs.truman.edu [email_address] THANK YOU!! ANY QUESTIONS? Remember: RELAX, BREATH, BE FLEXIBLE

22. Managing your stress The ABC strategy A=awareness What causes you stress and how do you react? B=balance Where’s your line between positive and negative stress? C=control What can you change?

23. Change your behavior Become more assertive Get organized Ventilation Humor Step away from the stressor

24. Assertiveness Traits of Assertive people Respect themselves and others Take responsibility for actions and choices Ask openly for what they want Not reliant on the approval of others Allows themselves to say “no.”

25. Organizing your life Poor organization is a primary cause of stress for most people. Prioritize activities in your life. Set achievable goals Don’t waste time making excuses

26. Ventilation Develop a support group of friends you trust. Writing a diary or notes can help relieve stress

27. Humor Great way to reduce stress Relieves muscular tension Improve breathing Pumps endorphins into the bloodstream

28. Take a break Reduces stress Doesn’t solve the problem Increases your ability to think logically

29. Change your Lifestyle Diet Smoking and drug use Exercise Sleep Leisure Relaxation