This document provides 19 personality development tips, including tips about analyzing your character traits honestly, listening politely to others, developing independence, having a positive attitude, and improving social skills. It also discusses ways to tackle people without offending them, analyze and overcome worry, face criticism, and make people like and agree with you. The overall message is that developing strengths in areas like physical and mental health, soft skills, emotional intelligence, knowledge and wisdom can help inspire others and promote positive change in society.

1. Jc Lohith Shetty
PGDPM, MSW, MBA, NET
Asst Professor
St Aloysius College (Autonomous)
Trainer – Junior Chamber International
JCI Mangalore

2. Personality of an individual is marked by
 Physical – including Grooming
 Psychological
 Social
 Emotional
 Soft Skills
 Mentor ability
 Knowledge & Wisdom
Conclusion:
Sound body with a wise mind & mastered soft skills,
inspiring others with an emotional balance to excel
with the society, promoting positive changes with the
society.

3. 19 Personality Development Tips For Being Your
Best You
1. If you want to progress in life then honestly
analyze the traits & your character.
2. Do not laugh at people when they are in difficulty
or trouble, you will loose your personality in a
moment.
3. The great way to develop your personality is by
listening to everyone politely, even if their ideas
are baseless or not of your interest.
4. During conversation do not keep talking about
yourself too much.

4. 19 Personality Development Tips For Being
Your Best You Contd…
5. When ever somebody brings any gift for you, don’t
forget to praise it. It does not matter even if you were
expecting something else.
6. Make others feel that you care for & like them.
7. Keep your moral high in case of defeat and be more
polite on being victorious.
8. Solve your problems in a creative way. Try your best,
not to let these spoil your relations with your friends.
9. Enlist your bad habits and try to get rid of them.

5. 19 Personality Development Tips For Being
Your Best You Contd…
10. We should not uplift our standard of living only,
but also help others to do so. Try to remove the
feeling of inferiority in others by respecting them
and by keeping good behavior towards them.
11. Be careful of what you say about others, because
others will say the same thing about us at different
times and at different places to form a public
opinion about us.
12. Some people often have a favorite sentence which
they repeat frequently. We should try and get rid of
such a habit.

6. 19 Personality Development Tips For Being
Your Best You Contd…
13. Independence increases our good qualities and
slavery increase the bad qualities.
14. Independent thinking and freedom to work is the
only source of progress and welfare.
15. Smile does magic in this world.
16. Positive attitude is of great importance in our
personality. No body like people who have narrowed
out look. Only that person is considered well
behaved, who has positive and healthy blend of
mind.

7. 19 Personality Development Tips For Being
Your Best You Contd…
17. The real beauty of man lies not in his physical
appearance, but in his work and good qualities.
That is why it is important that we improve social
outlook to develop our personality.
18. Every individual should develop the ability to
adjust with others, basically man is a social animal
& no one can survive alone.
19. Some people keep repeating a particular
statement (Slang) and it becomes a part of their
nature. At the most you may repeat a statement
twice but if you do it more than that it leaves a bad
impact.

8. Ask some Questions to yourself:
1. Do you treat others in the way you want to be
treated by others?
2. Would you like to joke even in such a situation,
when it would hurt the sentiments of others?
3. Do you take care to confirm that no one is hurt by
you?
4. Do you care for the feelings of those who are
younger than you?

9. The Four-Way Test By Rotary Club
The guide to confirm the selection of right
decision, program, issue, cause or action
1. Is it the TRUTH?
2. Is it FAIR to all concerned?
3. Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER
FRIENDSHIPS?
4. Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?

10. Nine ways to make people Like
You!
1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
2. Give honest & sincere appreciation.
3. Create an impression of worthiness
in the other person.
4. Become genuinely & socially interested
in other people.
5. Smile.

11. Nine ways to make people Like
You! Contd…
6. Remember that a man’s name is to
him the sweetest and most important
sound in any language.
7. Be a good listener, encourage others to
talk about themselves.
8. Talk in terms of the other mans
interest.
9. Make the other person feel important
and do it sincerely.

12. Twelve ways to make people
think in your way
1. Show respect for the others persons opinions.
Never tell a man that he is wrong.
2. The only way to get the best of an argument is
to avoid it.
3. If you are wrong admit it quickly and
emphatically.
4. Begin in a friendly way.
5. Get the other person saying Yes, yes
immediately.
6. Let the other person do a great deal of the
talking.

13. Twelve ways to make people
think in your way
7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his.
8. Try honestly to see things from the other
person’s point of view.
9. Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas
and desires.
10. Appeal to nobler motives.
11. Dramatize your ideas.
12. Throw down a challenge.

14. Nine ways of tackling with people
without making them offensive
1. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
2. Call attention to peoples
mistakes indirectly.
3. Talk about your own mistakes before
criticizing the other person.
4. Ask questions instead of giving direct
orders.

15. Nine ways of tackling with people
without making them offensive Contd…
5. Praise the slightest improvement and
praise every improvement.
6. Let the other man save his face.
7. Give the other person a fine reputation to
live up to.
8. Use encouragement. Make the fault
seem easy to correct.
9. Make the other person happy about doing
the thing you suggest.

16. Four ways to Analyze worry
1. Get all the facts.
2. Weigh all the fats-then come to a decision.
3. Once a decision is reached, act.
4. Write the answers of the following
questions.
a)What is the problem? b)What are the
causes for that problem? c)What
are the possible solutions?

17. Four ways to Overcome worry
1. Live in day-tight compartments.
2. Face the trouble the following ways.
a) Ask yourself what is the worst that can
possibly happen?
b) Prepare mentally to accept the worst.
c) Try to improve on the worst.
3. Remind yourself of the exorbitant price
you can pay for worry in terms of your
health.
4. Apply the law of averages in your favour

18. Six ways to face criticism and grow
strong
1. Remember that unjust criticism is often a
disguised compliment.
2. Do the very best you can.
3. Analyze your own mistakes and criticize
yourself.
4. Learn to relax at your work.
5. Clear your desk of all papers except those
relating to the immediate problem at hand.
6. Do things in order of their importance

19. WHAT MAKES YOUR LIFE 100% ?
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
A T T I T U D E
1 20 20 9 20 21 4 5
K N O W L E D G E
11 14 15 23 12 5 4 7 5
H A R D W O R K
8 1 12 4 23 15 18 11
S K I L L S
19 11 9 12 12 19 =
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82
96
98
100
Let each letter of the alphabetic has a value equals to it sequence of the
alphabetical order:

20. THE ICEBERG
SEA LEVEL
BEHAVIOR
VALUES – STANDARDS – JUDGMENTS
ATTITUDE
MOTIVES – ETHICS - BELIEFS
KNOWN
TO OTHERS
UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS

21. Doubts & Query's

22. Set high targets & grow,
be committed,
keep questioning your self before sleep

23. Thank You