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Conversation
Deliberation
Suspend
Defend
Reflective
Dialogue
Skillful
Discussion
Controlled
Discussion
Generative
Dialogue
Dialectic
Debate
Talk – explore
causes and
assumptions
Listen – without
resistance
Focused
thought and talk
Power talk
Talk – new insights
flow
Analysis and talk
Talk – protect
a position
(+)
(-)
Talk – tensions and
synthesis
Talk – different
opinions
- William Isaacs
mover follower
opposerbystander
Opposer
intends…
Courage
Integrity
Correction
Sometimes
comes across
as…
Critical
Complaining
Attacking
Mover
intends…
Direction
Discipline
Commitment
Sometimes
comes across
as…
Dictatorial
Omnipotent
Impatient
Follower
intends…
Loyalty
Service
Completion
Sometimes
comes across
as…
Placating
Indecisive
Wishy-washy
Bystander
intends…
Perspective
Moderation
Patience
Sometimes
comes across
as…
Judgmental
Disengaged
Withdrawn
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