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Conversation
Deliberation
Suspend
Defend
Reflective
Dialogue
Skillful
Discussion
Controlled
Discussion
Generative
Dialogue
Dialectic
Debate
Talk – explore
causes and
assumptions
Listen – without
resistance
Focused
thought and talk
Power talk
Talk – new insights
flow
Analysis and talk
Talk – protect
a position
(+)
(-)
Talk – tensions and
synthesis
Talk – different
opinions
- William Isaacs
http://www.pianoscapes.com/
http://www.conversational-leadership.org/
mitch.html
https://twitter.com/barbaracoffman
http://www.dialogue-associates.com/
http://onecosmic.groupsite.com/discussion/
topics/249685/messages
http://www.kantorinstitute.com/
http://www.strategy-business.com/Art-Kleiner
http://www.ottoscharmer.com/bio
http://dianamclainsmith.com/
http://www.david-bohm.net/dialogue/
http://infed.org/mobi/chris-argyris-theories-of-action
http://infed.org/mobi/donald-schon-learning
http://mitsloan.mit.edu/faculty/detail.php?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0QtQqZ6Q5-o
- Peter Senge
Or dialogue
CAPACITY FOR
NEW BEHAVIOR
2
FLUID STRUCTURES
OF INTERACTION
3
WHOLESOME SPACE
FOR DIALOGUE
4
1 5
Or dialogue
CAPACITY FOR
NEW BEHAVIOR
2
FLUID STRUCTURES
OF INTERACTION
3
WHOLESOME SPACE
FOR DIALOGUE
4
1 5
Conversation
Deliberation
Suspend
Defend
Reflective
Dialogue
Skillful
Discussion
Controlled
Discussion
Generative
Dialogue
Dialectic
Debate
Talk – explore
causes and
assumptions
Listen – without
resistance
Focused
thought and talk
Power talk
Talk – new insights
flow
Analysis and talk
Talk – protect
a position
(+)
(-)
Talk – tensions and
synthesis
Talk – different
opinions
Fundamental
choice point
Fundamental
choice point
Lose connection to the whole,
and meaning of the whole
Seeing partial feelings as
complete, “noble certainties”
Unquestioned acceptance of
existing “thoughts” and “felts”
Thought that imposes or
defends is violent
† ‡
Lose connection to the whole,
and meaning of the whole
Seeing partial feelings as
complete, “noble certainties”
Unquestioned acceptance of
existing “thoughts” and “felts”
Thought that imposes or
defends is violent
Lose connection to the whole,
and meaning of the whole
Seeing partial feelings as
complete, “noble certainties”
Unquestioned acceptance of
existing “thoughts” and “felts”
Thought that imposes or
defends is violent
Lose connection to the whole,
and meaning of the whole
Seeing partial feelings as
complete, “noble certainties”
Unquestioned acceptance of
existing “thoughts” and “felts”
Thought that imposes or
defends is violent
Lose connection to the whole,
and meaning of the whole
Seeing partial feelings as
complete, “noble certainties”
Unquestioned acceptance of
existing “thoughts” and “felts”
Thought that imposes or
defends is violent
I am aware of many different
voices within myself
I must look for the ways in which
everything is already whole
A constant implicate potential
unfolding through and around us
I am in the world, and the
world is in me
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