Parenting Children in a Social Media World
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This document outlines Bruce Reyes-Chow's presentation on parenting in a social media world. It discusses various social media apps and tools, parenting challenges in this new context, and invites participants to share best practices. The presentation will cover social media trends, parenting variables, and strategies over two sessions, with the goal of helping parents navigate raising children in today's digitally connected environment.
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Parenting Children in a Social Media World
- 1. Parenting in a Social Media World. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow Westminster Presbyterian Church
- 5. RULE #1: Butt in. Ask questions IRL or at on Twitter. RULE #2: Play with stuff. Please use the all the stuff while I’m talking. RULE 3: You do you. Take breaks as you need to. Please. RULE 4: Take notes. Or don’t. www.slideshare.net /breyeschow RULES Invitations to play Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 6. Session 1 : 01/22 Introductions Social Media Overview Apps and Stuff Parenting Overview Social Media Landscape Parenting Variables Best Practice Sharing Session 2 : 03/05 What worked? What didn’t? What next? OUR ROAD MAP What we are doing Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 7. Bruce Reyes-Chow Immigrant Roots Pastor’s Kid Eighties Kid Tech Transition
- 8. Bruce Reyes-Chow San Francisco Dog Walker Soccer Dad A’s Fanatic Coffee Drinker
- 11. smart phone, phone-phone, tablet, phablet, iphone, android, chromebook text, facebook, twitter, instagram, pinterest, dropbox, snapchat, doodle, remind, buffer, yikyak Name and one thing you want to make sure we talk about or address? WHO ARE YOU? Hello my name is... Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow #pneuma2016
- 12. We all have assumptions about everything. Here are three of mine when it comes to technology and the church. First things brc assumptions Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 13. 201o, 92yo Gladys Gladys “Glady” Burrill finished the Honolulu Marathon. You are not too old. God is not done with you, just ask Sarah. Genesis 18 FIRST THINGS brc assumptions Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 14. “Dad is wearing a shirt with a symbol of unknown origin,” @undainty, 2012. You will miss stuff. And thanks okay. First things brc assumptions Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 15. No matter how hard you try, you will not break the internet. FIRST THINGS brc assumptions Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 16. only a medium of communication gives generational insights, but not absolute including more voices is hard demands a high sense of self-worth will not save the church First things brc assumptions Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 17. Many cultural shifts have changed reality, but a few have been part of the Social Media upsurge. Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 18. FROM BOUNDED TO CENTERED From rigidly defined relationships and community to fluid and broad connections. Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 19. FROM MONOLITHIC TO NICHE From one assumed and obvious choice to many legitimate and disparate options. Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 20. FROM BRITANNICA TO WIKIPEDIA From single source authority and static information to open source discernment and evolving knowledge. Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 21. FROM PERMANENCE TO TRANSIENCE From a life long commitment to place to an expected life of constant movement. Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 22. FROM OPTIONAL TO INTEGRATED Technology and Social Media more woven into life like never before — “digital natives” Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 23. FROM CREDENTIALED TO CONNECTED Relationships are built upon and authority are established by interaction that is consistent, genuine, and mutual. Culture Shifts How we got here. Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 24. idol, savior or easy fix distraction careless expression overestimated ROI echo chamber trust-breaker and over-sharer over-and-above F2F bullying and abuse PITFALLS a few cautions Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 25. the community is built up the community models different way living the community sees beyond itself POSSIBILITIES a few upsides Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 26. creativity and creation are liberated accountability is present care and renewal are experienced collaboration is facilitated and stuff gets done POSSIBILITIES a few upsides Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 27. BE CAUTIOUS: be wise, but not fearful BE ADVENTUROUS: find what feeds you BE CONTEXTUAL: go where people are BE CURIOUS: tinker with the betas POSTURES general helps Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 28. BE NPR: share about others so you can share about yourself BE BOLD: leverage the space to speak truth BE HUMBLE: don’t have delusions of grandeur BE GENUINE: be as you would be IRL POSTURES general helps Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 29. smart phones, tablets, phablets social media and social networking web 1.0 v. web 2.0 open source software cloud technology analytics, algorithms, clicks, views ALL THE WORDS use words good Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 30. blogs and vLogs aggregators and readers SEO = Search Engine Optimization RSS feeds = Really Simple Syndication QRCode = Quick Read Code ALL THE WORDS use words good Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 31. TAGGING @username links to a person or account connects to content, photo, or update @: instagram, twitter @/+: google+ only name on FB tag to attribute, use comments to notify ALL THE WORDS tagging Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 32. HASHTAGS Alphanumerics after the “#” becomes a link that can connect public profiles. events: #debate2016 interests: #ffl movements: #blm locations: #houston commentary: #dadwin ALL THE WORDS hashtags Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 33. CONNECTION interact and engage COMMUNICATION interpret, deliver CONTEMPLATION spiritual disciplines CURATION find, filter, share CREATIVITY artistry, inspiration COORDINATION better, faster, funner SIX FILTERS all the apps Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 34. facebook twitter instagram pinterest youtube google+ linkedin BIG OLD DOGS all the apps Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 35. NETWORKS Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, LinkedIn, Google+, YikYak BLOGGING Wordpress, Tumblr, Blogger, Drupal, Wix, Joomla, Createspace TRY THIS ONE Nextdoor CONNECTION interact, engage Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 36. NEWSLETTERS Constant Contact, MailChimp, MadMimi CONFERENCING Skype, Hangouts Zoom, GotoMeeting MESSAGING Snapchat, Messenger, WhatsApp, GroupMe TRY THESE gslides, remind COMMUNICATION interpret, deliver Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 37. NETWORKS facebook, twitter, instapray, DEVOTIONALS D365, MUSIC AND MORE last.fm, rdio, spotify, pandora, iheartradio, audible, goodreads TRY THIS ONE ceaseless, prayasyougo CONTEMPLATION spiritual disciplines Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 38. NETWORKS pinterest, twitter, fb SCHEDULING hootsuite, crowdfire, tweetjukebox, buffer COLLECTIONS Storify, ScoopIt, ListLy REVIEWS Yelp, Google, Facebook TRY THIS ONE Pocket CURATION find, filter, share Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 39. IMAGES snapchat, instagram VIDEO youtube, vimeo, vine periscope, ustream, facebook live PHOTOGRAPHY flickr, smugmug, vsco, pixlr TRY THIS ONE canva CREATIVITY artistry, inspiration Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 40. CATCH-ALL gkeep, evernote EMAIL boomerang, unrollme SURVEYS surveymonkey, typeform, gforms MONEY paypal, square, cash, venmo, stripe COORDINATION I better, faster, funner Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 41. SCHEDULING signup, signupgenius, calendly, mealtrain, punchbowl, gcal ANALYTICS google, Sumall, FB, Twitter, Buffer TRY THESE do, slack, wunderlist, bit.ly, keepvid, COORDINATION II better, faster, funner Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 42. CONNECTION interact and engage COMMUNICATION interpret, deliver CONTEMPLATION spiritual disciplines CURATION find, filter, share CREATIVITY artistry, inspiration COORDINATION better, faster, funner SIX FILTERS all the apps Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 45. Example: 13yo told to “suck it up” in response to Women’s March IG post, so she responded... Retraint. Relationship. Response.
- 46. We are all co-parents. Indoctrination done well. A connection to the holy. Not as much of a cause and effect relationship as we would like it to be. Every parent is different, every child is different, every parent must parent each child differently. PARENTING Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 47. Relationships. Social world. Boundaries. Time. Conflict. Healthy conflict. Privacy. Wise expression. SOCIAL MEDIA Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 48. Modeling What are your social media patterns? Relationships How do you communicate now? Boundaries and Consequences What works now? Community Who helps you now? Variables Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 49. Big Questions: Snapchat? What might you try? BEST PRACTICES What do you think? Bruce Reyes-Chow @breyeschow
- 50. KEEP IN TOUCH slideshare.net/ breyeschow @breyeschow on twitter instagram, snapchat, facebook, Youtube, Linkedin, Etc. etc.