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HOW TO DEAL WITH
TOXICITY AT WORK
THROUGH PLAY
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@jeffharryplays
VISUALIZE THE
TOXIC PERSON
AT YOUR WORK
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
@jeffharryplays
RediscoverYourPlay.com @jeffharryplays
VISUALIZE A
CO-WORKER THAT
YOU ADMIRE
RediscoverYourPlay.com @jeffharryplays
Topics We Are Covering
Delve into the
impact toxic staff
have on orgs
Explore the
costs to keep
a toxic person
Learn techniques
to diffuse the
toxicity at work
Identify strategies
to address your
own toxic person
The types of
toxic people
at work
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
@jeffharryplays
WHAT MAY BE YOUR CHALLENGES
• You want to make a difference, but you are being
blocked
• You don’t have a lot of resources or support
• You are at your wits end and don’t know what to do
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
@jeffharryplays
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
• Play
• Relationships over short-term
profits
• Followed Our Curiosity & Intuiton
• Focused On Inspiring Staff
• Avoided Hiring & Rewarding Toxic
Staff Members
Built The Largest
LEGO-Inspired STEM
Organization In The U.S.
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
@jeffharryplays
A-HOLE LEADERSHIP
DROVE THE GREAT RESIGNATION
The Great Resignation
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@jeffharryplays
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Jerkitis
I’m Always Right
Syndrome
Never Needed To Work Hard For
Anything Disease Your Ideas Suck Ailment
I’m Better Than
You Flu
The Frenemy
Disorder
WHAT TRIGGERS YOU
ABOUT THE TOXIC PERSON
AT YOUR WORK?
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
HOW DOES DEALING
WITH THIS TOXIC
PERSON AFFECT
YOUR WORK?
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
What Just Happened…
• Storytelling connects our shared experience
• A great reminder that you are not alone
• Shared experience that builds empathy
• Begin to open up and be more vulnerable
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Toxic People Make You Stupid
Performed 25%
worse
Mean
9 Times Less
Likely To Help
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Toxic Staff costing US
business approximate
$223 Billion Dollars in
the past 5 years due to
turnover
*Source: SHRM "The High Cost of a Toxic Workplace Culture:
How Culture Impacts the Workforce—and the Bottom Line”
$$$
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Reality: Toxic Staff Costs
Companies Billions Each Year
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The Impact of
Toxicity
At Work In Real Time
$340,000,000
In Losses
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How Much Does Toxic Staff
Cost A U.S. Company?
Lost Revenue /Employee
In Productivity $14,000*
*Michigan State University Study: How incivility spreads in the workplace
Cost To Recruit &
Train New Staff $30,000 - $45,000*
*SHRM Study Found It Cost 6 - 9 months of an employees salary to replace them
Cost To Defend An
Employee Lawsuit
$75,000 - $150,000*
*Litigation Cost Survey of Major Companies - USCourts.gov
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
What Are Some New Revenue Generating
Ideas That Will Impact The Organization?
Revenue-Generating
Dramatically Improves Morale
Increases Innovation & Productivity
Reduces Absenteeism and Turnover
Provide Evidence To Your Executives with The Included Worksheet
Eradicate The Toxicity In Your Workplace
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
RediscoverYourPlay.com @jeffharryplays
Determine The Primary Motivations
& Drivers Of The Organization
• What Are The Main Goals Of Your Organization?
• What Are The Values Of The Organization?
• What Are The Main Drivers Of The Decision Makers?
• What Are The Primary Motivations Of The Toxic Staffer?
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
FOR DEALING WITH THE
TOXIC PERSON AT
WORK!
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
We Are Talking About Practice…
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Can You Make A Difference?
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Entry & Junior Level Staff
• Find allies & employees who have similar
issues
• Gather data/documentation on toxic staffers
• Recognize the leverage and access you
have
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Mid-Level Management
• Investigate why staff have left
• Did you lose or gain trust with
employees during the pandemic
• Focus on your circle of
influence
• Experiment with new ways of
leading staff
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Executive & C-Suite Level
• What is the worst behavior you
are currently tolerating?
• Reassess what metrics you are
measuring success by
• Start funding your committees
& resource groups
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Strategy & Implementation
• What Are Your Goals In Addressing This Toxicity At Your
Work?
• What Are The Initial Steps You Can Do To Begin?
• Who Are Your Allies That Can Help Implement This Strategy?
• What Are The Obstacles That May Get In Your Way?
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Stop Celebrating Toxic
Leaders
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
Celebrate Leaders That Align With Your Values
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
What behavior are
you rewarding that
aligns with your
values?
THE TOXIC
EMPLOYEE
AT WORK
CHALLENGE
toxic
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
RediscoverYourPlay.com @jeffharryplays
Topics We Are Covering
Delve into the
impact toxic staff
have on orgs
Explore the
costs to keep
a toxic person
Learn techniques
to diffuse the
toxicity at work
Identify strategies
to address your
own toxic person
The types of
toxic people
at work
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
@jeffharryplays
Let’s Dismantle
Toxicity At Work Together
RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsava
nnah
jeff@rediscoveryourplay.com
@jeffharryplays

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How To Deal With A-Holes At Work With Play - SHRM Savannah.pptx

  • 1. HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXICITY AT WORK THROUGH PLAY RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
  • 2. VISUALIZE THE TOXIC PERSON AT YOUR WORK RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
  • 4. RediscoverYourPlay.com @jeffharryplays Topics We Are Covering Delve into the impact toxic staff have on orgs Explore the costs to keep a toxic person Learn techniques to diffuse the toxicity at work Identify strategies to address your own toxic person The types of toxic people at work RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
  • 5. WHAT MAY BE YOUR CHALLENGES • You want to make a difference, but you are being blocked • You don’t have a lot of resources or support • You are at your wits end and don’t know what to do RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
  • 8. • Play • Relationships over short-term profits • Followed Our Curiosity & Intuiton • Focused On Inspiring Staff • Avoided Hiring & Rewarding Toxic Staff Members Built The Largest LEGO-Inspired STEM Organization In The U.S. RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
  • 9. A-HOLE LEADERSHIP DROVE THE GREAT RESIGNATION The Great Resignation RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
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  • 18. Jerkitis I’m Always Right Syndrome Never Needed To Work Hard For Anything Disease Your Ideas Suck Ailment I’m Better Than You Flu The Frenemy Disorder
  • 19. WHAT TRIGGERS YOU ABOUT THE TOXIC PERSON AT YOUR WORK? RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 20. HOW DOES DEALING WITH THIS TOXIC PERSON AFFECT YOUR WORK? RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 21. What Just Happened… • Storytelling connects our shared experience • A great reminder that you are not alone • Shared experience that builds empathy • Begin to open up and be more vulnerable RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 22. Toxic People Make You Stupid Performed 25% worse Mean 9 Times Less Likely To Help RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 23. Toxic Staff costing US business approximate $223 Billion Dollars in the past 5 years due to turnover *Source: SHRM "The High Cost of a Toxic Workplace Culture: How Culture Impacts the Workforce—and the Bottom Line” $$$ RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 24. Reality: Toxic Staff Costs Companies Billions Each Year RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 25. The Impact of Toxicity At Work In Real Time $340,000,000 In Losses RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 26. How Much Does Toxic Staff Cost A U.S. Company? Lost Revenue /Employee In Productivity $14,000* *Michigan State University Study: How incivility spreads in the workplace Cost To Recruit & Train New Staff $30,000 - $45,000* *SHRM Study Found It Cost 6 - 9 months of an employees salary to replace them Cost To Defend An Employee Lawsuit $75,000 - $150,000* *Litigation Cost Survey of Major Companies - USCourts.gov RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 27. What Are Some New Revenue Generating Ideas That Will Impact The Organization? Revenue-Generating Dramatically Improves Morale Increases Innovation & Productivity Reduces Absenteeism and Turnover Provide Evidence To Your Executives with The Included Worksheet Eradicate The Toxicity In Your Workplace RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 29. Determine The Primary Motivations & Drivers Of The Organization • What Are The Main Goals Of Your Organization? • What Are The Values Of The Organization? • What Are The Main Drivers Of The Decision Makers? • What Are The Primary Motivations Of The Toxic Staffer? RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 30. FOR DEALING WITH THE TOXIC PERSON AT WORK! RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 32. We Are Talking About Practice… RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 33. Can You Make A Difference? RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 34. Entry & Junior Level Staff • Find allies & employees who have similar issues • Gather data/documentation on toxic staffers • Recognize the leverage and access you have RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 35. Mid-Level Management • Investigate why staff have left • Did you lose or gain trust with employees during the pandemic • Focus on your circle of influence • Experiment with new ways of leading staff RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 36. Executive & C-Suite Level • What is the worst behavior you are currently tolerating? • Reassess what metrics you are measuring success by • Start funding your committees & resource groups RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 37. Strategy & Implementation • What Are Your Goals In Addressing This Toxicity At Your Work? • What Are The Initial Steps You Can Do To Begin? • Who Are Your Allies That Can Help Implement This Strategy? • What Are The Obstacles That May Get In Your Way? RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah
  • 39. Celebrate Leaders That Align With Your Values RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah What behavior are you rewarding that aligns with your values?
  • 41. RediscoverYourPlay.com @jeffharryplays Topics We Are Covering Delve into the impact toxic staff have on orgs Explore the costs to keep a toxic person Learn techniques to diffuse the toxicity at work Identify strategies to address your own toxic person The types of toxic people at work RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsavannah @jeffharryplays
  • 42. Let’s Dismantle Toxicity At Work Together RediscoverYourPlay.com/shrmsava nnah jeff@rediscoveryourplay.com @jeffharryplays

Editor's Notes

  1. Two part exercise. Part 1: A-Hole to every one If you did like it why do you think that is? If you didn’t what about it made it feel that way? Part 2: High fives to everyone How did two environments feel?
  2. Two part exercise. Part 1: A-Hole to every one If you did like it why do you think that is? If you didn’t what about it made it feel that way? Part 2: High fives to everyone How did two environments feel?
  3. Two part exercise. Part 1: A-Hole to every one If you did like it why do you think that is? If you didn’t what about it made it feel that way? Part 2: High fives to everyone How did two environments feel?
  4. Two part exercise. Part 1: A-Hole to every one If you did like it why do you think that is? If you didn’t what about it made it feel that way? Part 2: High fives to everyone How did two environments feel?
  5. Sharing our diffusion methods for A-Hole #1. Redirecting The A-Hole Give them a task If someone is negative person that keeps criticizing ideas and bringing down the momentum, you need to acknowledge them and give them a task, save their ideas to the end, after all the ideas and let us know the pros and cons. 2. Naming What Exists Naming what exists and how it impacted you.  A-hole that is bringing down momentum that is making them inferior, let them know how their words and actions impacted you, you don't know what their intent was, but it still impacted the group.   3. Your Boss Is The A-Hole Naming what exists to your boss Addressing it to the Powers that be, mentioning the impact it is having on the team, and whether they want tolerate it
  6. Two part exercise. Part 1: A-Hole to every one If you did like it why do you think that is? If you didn’t what about it made it feel that way? Part 2: High fives to everyone How did two environments feel?