This document provides tips for effective communication with tact and finesse. It discusses using diplomacy and tact when dealing with different types of individuals. The keys to effective communication are having the right attitude, awareness of others and being attentive. Barriers include confrontation, uncontrolled emotions and criticism. Proper communication involves establishing facts, collaborative problem solving and defending positions without threats. It is important to listen actively, build rapport through understanding others and connecting with acknowledgment, affirmation and respect. Effective communicators maintain focus, keep an open mind, absorb or deflect anger and wrap up conversations productively seeking win-win solutions.