The document discusses strategies for having difficult conversations when emotions are strong. It defines a difficult conversation as one where there are differing views, strong feelings, and high stakes. It describes how emotions can hijack thinking and prevent listening or problem solving. The strategies presented include recognizing when emotions have taken over, stopping to reflect on needs and interests, restoring a sense of safety, and adopting a mutual learning mindset focused on understanding rather than unilateral control.
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Richard Riche
Difficult conversations can be challenging in the workplace and can lead to conflict if handled poorly. Tips on how to prepare for these conversations, get the right mindset and build an Engaged workforce using Emotional Intelligence and the Neuroscience of the brain.
Whether they take place at work or at home, with your neighbors or co-founder, crucial conversations can have a profound impact on your career, your happiness, and your future. You will learn how to: Prepare for high-impact situations, Make it safe to talk about almost anything, Be persuasive, not abrasive, Keep listening when others blow up or clam up, Turn crucial conversations into the action and results you want
High performing team,team building,Team management Micky Lyf
Building and leading high performing team, Team building,stages of team building, role of team , characteristics of a good team ,effective team, team management, examples of team management, role of team.cohesive team ,factors affecting the performance of team.
These are the slides from a workshop I am running, it definitely doesn't quite translate to self paced online, but you get an idea of some of the stuff. Please provide comments if you have any feedback!
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Richard Riche
Difficult conversations can be challenging in the workplace and can lead to conflict if handled poorly. Tips on how to prepare for these conversations, get the right mindset and build an Engaged workforce using Emotional Intelligence and the Neuroscience of the brain.
Whether they take place at work or at home, with your neighbors or co-founder, crucial conversations can have a profound impact on your career, your happiness, and your future. You will learn how to: Prepare for high-impact situations, Make it safe to talk about almost anything, Be persuasive, not abrasive, Keep listening when others blow up or clam up, Turn crucial conversations into the action and results you want
High performing team,team building,Team management Micky Lyf
Building and leading high performing team, Team building,stages of team building, role of team , characteristics of a good team ,effective team, team management, examples of team management, role of team.cohesive team ,factors affecting the performance of team.
These are the slides from a workshop I am running, it definitely doesn't quite translate to self paced online, but you get an idea of some of the stuff. Please provide comments if you have any feedback!
Difficult Conversations is based on the book Difficult Conversation and is a methodology of how to engage anyone successfully through a difficult conversation. It is a method I work with in instructing clients how to work with those that they have typically been challenged with. It works as well in your personal life as it does your work life.
We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day-whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations provides a step-by-step approach to having those tough conversations with less stress and more success. you’ll learn how to:
· Decipher the underlying structure of every difficult conversation
· Start a conversation without defensiveness
· Listen for the meaning of what is not said
· Stay balanced in the face of attacks and accusations
· Move from emotion to productive problem solving
The objective of this module is to
Identify difficult interpersonal situations
Learn how to initiate and close conversations in difficult situations
Minimize destructive conversations
Develop precise questions to conduct a skillful conversation.
Engage in open and productive conversations
We all have difficult conversations in our lives that we have a natural tendency to avoid. However, effective organizations and effective individuals know how and when to hold these conversations.
Managing Difficult Conversations:9 Questions to Ask YourselfBarbara Greene
Do you avoid difficult conversations? There is no need to avoid them if you focus on the constructive possibilities. Start by asking yourself these 9 critical questions.
If you want to take your influencing skills to the next level, email me:
alanbarker830@btinternet.com
This set of slides summarizes my approach to influencing skills as a trainer and coach. Sources of the main ideas are given.
Building Better Teams - Overcoming the 5 DysfunctionsJoel Wenger
Trust, Conflict, Commitment, Accountability, Results; these are the hallmarks of effective teams, as described by Patrick Lencioni in his book "The Five Dysfunctions of a Team". This presentation contains an overview of each one, as well as my take on the tools and actions leaders can take to address each one.
This slide uses research by Google to explain what makes a successful team and why. It also includes practical steps to take and descriptions of constructive team building with lasting benefits.
Training Slide Deck
Tips on Difficult Conversations
-What to think about when preparing for difficult conversations
-Things to remember during difficult conversations
- Top 6 mistakes that can turn difficult conversations into disasters.
How to Master Difficult Conversations at Work – Leader’s GuidePiktochart
Confrontation and having difficult conversations with employees is one of the hardest jobs of a leader. Learn how to approach them using the GROW acronym:
G is for Goals
Start every difficult conversation by stating its purpose
R is for Reality
State the reality of how the person is performing or how he or she is behaving.
O is for Options
Lay out a few options to help this person improve.
W is for Willingness
Ask this person what they would do and give them time to respond
Here's the full article about it: https://piktochart.com/blog/master-difficult-conversations
Let us know how you approach difficult conversations!
Difficult Conversations is based on the book Difficult Conversation and is a methodology of how to engage anyone successfully through a difficult conversation. It is a method I work with in instructing clients how to work with those that they have typically been challenged with. It works as well in your personal life as it does your work life.
We attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day-whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations provides a step-by-step approach to having those tough conversations with less stress and more success. you’ll learn how to:
· Decipher the underlying structure of every difficult conversation
· Start a conversation without defensiveness
· Listen for the meaning of what is not said
· Stay balanced in the face of attacks and accusations
· Move from emotion to productive problem solving
The objective of this module is to
Identify difficult interpersonal situations
Learn how to initiate and close conversations in difficult situations
Minimize destructive conversations
Develop precise questions to conduct a skillful conversation.
Engage in open and productive conversations
We all have difficult conversations in our lives that we have a natural tendency to avoid. However, effective organizations and effective individuals know how and when to hold these conversations.
Managing Difficult Conversations:9 Questions to Ask YourselfBarbara Greene
Do you avoid difficult conversations? There is no need to avoid them if you focus on the constructive possibilities. Start by asking yourself these 9 critical questions.
If you want to take your influencing skills to the next level, email me:
alanbarker830@btinternet.com
This set of slides summarizes my approach to influencing skills as a trainer and coach. Sources of the main ideas are given.
Building Better Teams - Overcoming the 5 DysfunctionsJoel Wenger
Trust, Conflict, Commitment, Accountability, Results; these are the hallmarks of effective teams, as described by Patrick Lencioni in his book "The Five Dysfunctions of a Team". This presentation contains an overview of each one, as well as my take on the tools and actions leaders can take to address each one.
This slide uses research by Google to explain what makes a successful team and why. It also includes practical steps to take and descriptions of constructive team building with lasting benefits.
Training Slide Deck
Tips on Difficult Conversations
-What to think about when preparing for difficult conversations
-Things to remember during difficult conversations
- Top 6 mistakes that can turn difficult conversations into disasters.
How to Master Difficult Conversations at Work – Leader’s GuidePiktochart
Confrontation and having difficult conversations with employees is one of the hardest jobs of a leader. Learn how to approach them using the GROW acronym:
G is for Goals
Start every difficult conversation by stating its purpose
R is for Reality
State the reality of how the person is performing or how he or she is behaving.
O is for Options
Lay out a few options to help this person improve.
W is for Willingness
Ask this person what they would do and give them time to respond
Here's the full article about it: https://piktochart.com/blog/master-difficult-conversations
Let us know how you approach difficult conversations!
How to have successful dialogue when stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong. Whether it's with a friend, a co-worker, or a loved one, how can you be 100% honest and yet 100% respectful?
De zevenmijlslaarzen voor moeilijke gesprekkenSandra Peeters
Presentatie door Sandra Peeters van Seven Miles, gebruikt tijdens de infosessie bij Unizo Opglabbeek
http://www.unizo.be/opglabbeek/viewobj.jsp?id=441545
Are you looking for unconventional ways to boost your creativity? Not all of us are born with a natural creative flair BUT we CAN definitely exercise that muscle by making our brains work less efficiently. That's right! LESS efficiently :)
If you're curious why that is, check out the slides! We've gathered a few tips that will help you go out of your comfort zone and get your brain to work a bit differently unlocking your hidden potential.
If you’re more into reading, here’s the full article about this: https://piktochart.com/blog/5-unconventional-ways-to-be-creative/ .
Interpersonal Skills include communication skills as persuading, listening, and influencing; Leadership skills as prob;em solving, decision making, conflict resolution and finally Team Management as delegating and motivating
Diversity and culture competence are factors as well
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Exploring how we think - how we receive and process information - offers clues for how to write in a compelling and persuasive way. We’ve looked at the works of two theorists.
Daniel Kahneman is an Israeli-American psychologist and winner of the 2002 Nobel Memorial Prize in Economic Sciences. He is notable for his work on the psychology of judgment and decision-making, behavioral economics and hedonic psychology. His book – ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow’ – which he published in 2011 aims to explain how we think.
Richard Boyatzis is an American organizational theorist and professor of organizational behavior at Case Western Reserve University, and expert in the field of emotional intelligence, behavior change, and competence.
“Appreciative Inquiry is the cooperative search for the best in people, their organizations, and the world around them. It involves systematic discover of what gives a system ‘life’ when it is most effective and capable in economic, ecological, and human terms.” Cooperrider, D.L. & Whitney, D
It is a methodology aimed at the development of the organization based on the assumption that inquiry into and dialogue about strengths, successes, values, hopes and dreams is in itself transformational.
The process used to generate the power of Appreciative Inquiry is the 4-D Cycle:
Discovery - Dream - Design - Destiny
Discovery: The Discovery phase is a diligent and extensive search to understand the "best of what is" and "the best of what has been."
Dream: The Dream phase is an energizing exploration of "what might be:"
Design: The Design phase involves making choices about "what should be" within an organization or system.
Destiny: The Destiny phase initiates a series of inspired actions that support ongoing learning and innovation - or "what will be."
School leaders and teachers are searching for a purpose and a sense of identity. We want more than just pay; we want a ‘sense of mission’. When you believe in a professional way of doing your job you have to be able to transmit this to all the people involved in teaching/learning process.
The Appreciative Inquiry methodology helps to create our identity and to transmit our values and beliefs. Educational institutions need to be knowledge rich, adaptable and permanently changing. We need to be able to design curricula according to our student’s individual needs.
6. Our Three Brains . . .
• Formed on top of and around limbic brain
• Core cognitive intelligence
• Site of working memory
Fight or Flight
Response • Rudimentary brain
• Basic functions
• Heart rate, breathing
• Formed on top of R-brain
• Enabled learning: fight or flight!
• Site of emotions and emotional memory
15. Mutual Learning Mindset
Based on an alternative set of
governing values.
Focuses on understanding and learning.
Assumes that we know and understand
only a part of the puzzle.
Honors other people’s perspective —
especially when there is disagreement.
Is more likely to lead to effective
relationships and positive results.