Presentation
On
“HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE
PEOPLE”
 Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
 Give honest and sincere appreciation.
 Arouse in the other person an eager want.
Fundamental Techniques in Handling People……….
 Become genuinely interested in other people.
 Smile.
 Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most
important sound in any language.
 Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
 Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
 Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
Six ways to make people like you
HOW TO CREATE INFLUENCE…….
 Be a good listener……
-different from active listening
-ask more questions
-listen to complaints to ease tensions
 Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
-find out about their interests
-ask about their interests
 Make the other person feel important &
appreciated
-recognize tangible contributions
 Lead the way..
 The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
 Show respect for the other person's opinions.
 Never say, "You're wrong."
 If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
 Begin in a friendly way.
 Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
 Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
How to win People in my Concern……
Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
Appeal to the nobler motives.
Dramatize your ideas.
Throw down a challenge
How to win People in my Concern……
 Begin in a friendly way
-start the conversation with sincere praise.
-A pleasant tone of voice can make a big difference!
 Try to honestly see things from the other person’s point of view.
-Ask yourself, why would he/she want to do what I ask?
-Where do our opinions on the topic differ?
 Get the other person to say “yes, yes” ASAP.
-Environment saturated with info.
-Emphasize what both parties agree on.
-Momentum of the conversation .
How to win People in my Concern……
1) A leader's job often includes changing your people's
attitudes and behavior.
 Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
 Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
 Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person
Some suggestions to accomplish this:
Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving
Offense or Arousing Resentment ………………..
A leader's job often includes changing your people's attitudes
and behavior.
Some suggestions to accomplish this
 Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
 Let the other person save face.
 Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty
in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
 Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
 Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
 Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
……Thanking You……

2 how to win friends & influence people

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    Presentation On “HOW TO WINFRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE”
  • 2.
     Don't criticize,condemn or complain.  Give honest and sincere appreciation.  Arouse in the other person an eager want. Fundamental Techniques in Handling People……….
  • 3.
     Become genuinelyinterested in other people.  Smile.  Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.  Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.  Talk in terms of the other person's interests.  Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely. Six ways to make people like you
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    HOW TO CREATEINFLUENCE…….  Be a good listener…… -different from active listening -ask more questions -listen to complaints to ease tensions  Talk in terms of the other person’s interests. -find out about their interests -ask about their interests  Make the other person feel important & appreciated -recognize tangible contributions  Lead the way..
  • 5.
     The onlyway to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.  Show respect for the other person's opinions.  Never say, "You're wrong."  If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.  Begin in a friendly way.  Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.  Let the other person do a great deal of the talking. How to win People in my Concern……
  • 6.
    Let the otherperson feel that the idea is his or hers. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires. Appeal to the nobler motives. Dramatize your ideas. Throw down a challenge How to win People in my Concern……
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     Begin ina friendly way -start the conversation with sincere praise. -A pleasant tone of voice can make a big difference!  Try to honestly see things from the other person’s point of view. -Ask yourself, why would he/she want to do what I ask? -Where do our opinions on the topic differ?  Get the other person to say “yes, yes” ASAP. -Environment saturated with info. -Emphasize what both parties agree on. -Momentum of the conversation . How to win People in my Concern……
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    1) A leader'sjob often includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior.  Begin with praise and honest appreciation.  Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.  Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person Some suggestions to accomplish this: Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment ………………..
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    A leader's joboften includes changing your people's attitudes and behavior. Some suggestions to accomplish this  Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.  Let the other person save face.  Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."  Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.  Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.  Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
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