Who is a Leader? Leadership Competencies; What is Positive Attitude? And What are the Benefits? How to Develop Positive Attitude in Life?

1. Sunday, June 3, 2018Sunday, June 3, 2018

2. LEADERSHIP COMPETENCIESLEADERSHIP COMPETENCIES
AndAnd
POSITIVE ATTITUDEPOSITIVE ATTITUDE
Learning objectivesLearning objectives
 Who is a Leader?Who is a Leader?
Leadership Competencies.Leadership Competencies.
What is Positive Attitude?What is Positive Attitude?
And What are the Benefits?And What are the Benefits?
How to Develop Positive Attitude in Life?How to Develop Positive Attitude in Life?

3. Ground RulesGround Rules
» Mobile phone switch off or silenceMobile phone switch off or silence
» No Side talkNo Side talk
» Give everyone chance to talkGive everyone chance to talk
» Respect others opinionRespect others opinion
» At a time talk only oneAt a time talk only one
» Short and direct questioningShort and direct questioning

4. A leader is one who knows the way,
goes the way, and shows the way.
Leadership is a combination of
character and competence; of who
you are and what you can do.
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5. Character is Power!
Character is what makes you “what you
are” as distinct from other persons.
The 3-Step Process
•STEP 1: Self-Knowledge (Evaluation)
•STEP 2: Self-Discipline (Organization)
•STEP 3: Self-Sacrifice (Resolution)
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6. Overall, Others Must . . .Overall, Others Must . . .
. . . Trust you!. . . Trust you!
. . . Have faith in you!. . . Have faith in you!
. . . Believe in you!. . . Believe in you!
Take Your Place!!!Take Your Place!!!
This is yourThis is your assignmentassignment, your, your rolerole, and your, and your
responsibilityresponsibility as a facilitative leader.as a facilitative leader.
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7. LEADERSHIPLEADERSHIP
COMPETENCIESCOMPETENCIES
Competence describesCompetence describes whatwhat
people can do (people can do (SkillSkill)) andand
how they do it (how they do it (BehaviourBehaviour))..
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8. WHAT MAKES YOUR LIFE 100% ?WHAT MAKES YOUR LIFE 100% ?
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9. THETHE CAN DOCAN DO ATTITUDEATTITUDE
YouYou CAN DOCAN DO everything, but not all at once.everything, but not all at once.
YouYou CAN DOCAN DO everything, if it’s importanteverything, if it’s important
enough for you to do.enough for you to do.
YouYou CAN DOCAN DO everything, but you may not beeverything, but you may not be
the best at everything.the best at everything.
YouYou CAN DOCAN DO everything, but there will beeverything, but there will be
limitations.limitations.
YouYou CAN DOCAN DO everything, but you’ll need help.everything, but you’ll need help.
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10. What is positive attitude?What is positive attitude?
It is that state of mind which isIt is that state of mind which is
constructive in nature.constructive in nature.
Which brings optimism into your life.Which brings optimism into your life.
Which makes it easier for you to avoidWhich makes it easier for you to avoid
worry and negative thinking.worry and negative thinking.
Which helps you to see bright side of life.Which helps you to see bright side of life.
Which provides you motivation toWhich provides you motivation to
accomplish your goals.accomplish your goals.
Which inspires you to believe in yourselfWhich inspires you to believe in yourself
and in your abilities.and in your abilities.
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11. And what are the benefits ?And what are the benefits ?
Makes you a solution oriented person.Makes you a solution oriented person.
Helps you to see opportunities.Helps you to see opportunities.
Brings more energy in your life.Brings more energy in your life.
Greater inner power and strength.Greater inner power and strength.
Enable you to surmount any difficulty in life.Enable you to surmount any difficulty in life.
Inspires you to motivate yourself and others.Inspires you to motivate yourself and others.
Creates respect for you amongst people.Creates respect for you amongst people.
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12. Negative attitude says….Negative attitude says….
You cannot achieve successYou cannot achieve success
Positive attitude says…..Positive attitude says…..
You can achieve successYou can achieve success
If you have been exhibiting aIf you have been exhibiting a
negative attitude and facing failuresnegative attitude and facing failures
and difficulties. It is now the time toand difficulties. It is now the time to
change the way you think.change the way you think.
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13. How to developHow to develop
positive attitude in life ?positive attitude in life ?
Decide that you want to develop PA.Decide that you want to develop PA.
Always use positive words.Always use positive words.
Allow into your awareness only feelings ofAllow into your awareness only feelings of
happiness, strength and success.happiness, strength and success.
Visualize clearly in your mind that you areVisualize clearly in your mind that you are
possessing a positive attitude.possessing a positive attitude.
Associate yourself with people who thinkAssociate yourself with people who think
positively.positively.
Engage in some regular physical exercise.Engage in some regular physical exercise.
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14. Developing a positive attitude inDeveloping a positive attitude in
life….life….
Read at least one page of inspiring bookRead at least one page of inspiring book
every day.every day.
Watch inspiring movies that make you feelWatch inspiring movies that make you feel
happy and good.happy and good.
Always sit and walk with your backAlways sit and walk with your back
straight. This will strengthen yourstraight. This will strengthen your
confidence and inner strength.confidence and inner strength.
Disregard and ignore negative thoughts.Disregard and ignore negative thoughts.
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15. SMS Kabir, University of ChittagongSMS Kabir, University of Chittagong
Life’s Little QuestionLife’s Little Question
““Are some people justAre some people just bornborn positive thinkerspositive thinkers
. . . or is it their. . . or is it their CHOICECHOICE??””
Life’s Little QuestionLife’s Little Question
““Are some people justAre some people just bornborn positive thinkerspositive thinkers
. . . or is it their. . . or is it their CHOICECHOICE??””
Change
Change3 Things!
3 Things!
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16. I amI am
responsible . . .responsible . . .
. . . for who I. . . for who I
amam
. . . for what. . . for what
I haveI haveATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
So . . . Accept ResponsibilitySo . . . Accept Responsibility
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17. ObserveObserve YourYour ThinkingThinking
THINKINGTHINKINGTHINKINGTHINKING
It sucks to be him.
It sucks to be him.
I
refuse
to
let
I
refuse
to
let
this
hook
m
e!
this
hook
m
e!
This is allThis is all
veryvery
interestinginteresting
W
hat can
I do
W
hat can
I do
to defuse this?
to defuse this?
Tomorrow it willTomorrow it will
look very different.look very different.
I’d
like
to
beat the
I’d
like
to
beat the
……
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18. Choose Your BehaviorChoose Your Behavior
REACTIVEREACTIVE
ResponseResponse
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ResponRespon
sese
MyMy
ChoiceChoice
StimulusStimulus
StimulusStimulus
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19. Steps Toward Changing BehaviorSteps Toward Changing Behavior
1.1. Unconscious IncompetenceUnconscious Incompetence
2.2. Conscience IncompetenceConscience Incompetence
3.3. Conscience CompetenceConscience Competence
4.4. Unconscious CompetenceUnconscious Competence
BEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIORBEHAVIOR
The New YOU!The New YOU!The New YOU!The New YOU!
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20. AddAdd POSIPOSI++IVEIVE BehaviorBehavior
INFLUENCE YOURINFLUENCE YOUR
ENVIRONMENT!ENVIRONMENT!
• Sprinkle someSprinkle some positivepositive on the negativeson the negatives
• Focus on the good of each dayFocus on the good of each day
• Stay out of theStay out of the feeding frenziesfeeding frenzies
• SaySay pleaseplease andand thank youthank you
• PracticePractice EMPATHYEMPATHY
• EvaluateEvaluate YOURYOUR behaviorbehavior
• Never miss an opportunity to complementNever miss an opportunity to complement
• Spread aSpread a SMILESMILE aroundaround
Replace the BAD HABITS!Replace the BAD HABITS!
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21. MoreMore POSIPOSI++IVEIVE ContributionsContributions
11. Is it true?. Is it true?
2. Is it harmful?2. Is it harmful?
3. Is it necessary?3. Is it necessary?
• Keep promisesKeep promises
• Have a forgiving view of peopleHave a forgiving view of people
• Keep an open mind with changesKeep an open mind with changes
• Count to 1000 if necessaryCount to 1000 if necessary
• See criticism as opportunity to improveSee criticism as opportunity to improve
• Cultivate your sense of humorCultivate your sense of humor
• Before you say anything to anyone, askBefore you say anything to anyone, ask
yourself three thingsyourself three things
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22. Watch your definitions -Watch your definitions -
they become thoughtsthey become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -Watch your thoughts -
they become wordsthey become words
Watch your words -Watch your words -
they become actionsthey become actions
Watch your actions -Watch your actions -
they become your destinythey become your destiny
Watch your definitions -Watch your definitions -
they become thoughtsthey become thoughts
Watch your thoughts -Watch your thoughts -
they become wordsthey become words
Watch your words -Watch your words -
they become actionsthey become actions
Watch your actions -Watch your actions -
they become your destinythey become your destiny
Remember to . . .Remember to . . .

23. The Choice isThe Choice is
YOURSYOURSWith a BadWith a Bad
attitudeattitude
you can never haveyou can never have
a positive daya positive day
With a PositiveWith a Positive
attitudeattitude
you can never haveyou can never have
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24. Choose POSI+IVE Living
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25. QuestionsQuestions
AnswersAnswers
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