Coping With Transitions Short Version Presented To Northwestern 12 08 1
Transactional analysis
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3. 1. EGO STATES compliant and polite rebellious and manipulative Adapted Child fun-loving and energetic creative and spontaneous Free (Natural) Child CHILD concerned with data and facts considers options and estimates probabilities makes unemotional decisions plans and makes things happen ADULT advises and guides protects and nurtures Nurturing Parent makes rules and sets limits disciplines, judges and criticises Critical Parent PARENT
13. I'M OK YOU'RE NOT OK "You're not doing that right - let me show you" I'M NOT OK YOU'RE NOT OK "Oh this is terrible - we'll never make it" I'M OK YOU'RE OK "Hey, we're making good progress now" I'M NOT OK YOU'RE OK "I wish I could do that as well as you do"