An overview of Positive Parenting
Strategies for raising children through positive approaches. Contains strategies for preventing and treating challenging behavior
Psychiatrist practicing for 25 years shares his views and experiences to help new parents and would be parents to sensitize them to the issues of child rearing.
A parenting style is a psychological construct representing standard strategies that parents use in their child rearing. The quality of parenting can be more essential than the quantity of time spent with the child. For instance, a parent can spend an entire afternoon with his or her child, yet the parent may be engaging in a different activity and not demonstrating enough interest towards the child. Parenting styles are the representation of how parents respond and demand to their children. Parenting practices are specific behaviors, while parenting styles represent broader patterns of parenting practices
Psychiatrist practicing for 25 years shares his views and experiences to help new parents and would be parents to sensitize them to the issues of child rearing.
A parenting style is a psychological construct representing standard strategies that parents use in their child rearing. The quality of parenting can be more essential than the quantity of time spent with the child. For instance, a parent can spend an entire afternoon with his or her child, yet the parent may be engaging in a different activity and not demonstrating enough interest towards the child. Parenting styles are the representation of how parents respond and demand to their children. Parenting practices are specific behaviors, while parenting styles represent broader patterns of parenting practices
Steve Vitto Positive Parenting Part TwoSteve Vitto
Steve Vitto's presentation for Parent Nights at Reeths Puffer Elementary School, Shelby Association for Retarded Children-Shelby Town Hall, & Muskegon, Michigan ARC
2010
Available in English and Spanish
svitto@muskegonisd.org
Your Life Satisfaction Score (beta) is an indicator of how you thrive in your life: it reflects how well you shape your lifestyle, habits and behaviors to maximize your overall life satisfaction along the five following dimensions:
►1. Health & fitness, reflecting your physical well-being and healthy habits;
►2. Positive emotions & gratitude, indicating how well you embrace positive emotions;
►3. Skills & expertise, measuring the ability to grow your expertise and achieve something unique;
►4. Social skills & discovery, assessing the strength of your network and your inclination to discover the world;
►5. Leadership & meaning, gauging your compassion, generosity and how much 'you are living the life of your dream'.
Visit www.Authentic-Happiness.com to check your Life Satisfaction score. Free, no registration required.
Parenting style and onset of child psychopathologyRichard Asare
Mental health of children depends on the way parents interact with them. Though every parent wishes to provide the best at home, they may not be giving the best to their children as no full proof method of bringing up children has been invented. This is because no two children are alike. There are more differences between children than we ordinarily believe. Moreover, culture, society, gender of the child and a host of other factors interact with the upbringing of children
Now the Parenting program has been changing rapidly and so also the family set up; children of present generation are first day care generation from different aspects- this is the cause of setting up parents anew as today the children are world-wise
Success For Our Children Establishing “Smart Sanskar”
India is now collision of the ancient and the modern.We are undergoing a transformation! 3 new forces are shaping our children!
Like us on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SmartSanskars?ref=stream
We want the best for our children
But we are still trying to raise our children like our parents did.
Our plans and dreams for them will be obsolete.
We could shortchange their goals.
We need to be prepared, aware and participate.
I believe that it is completely up to us.
This is a talk given to third year parents of La Salle Academy, Iligan City, Philippines on October 3, 2009 during their Parent-Child Dialogue Level Day.
Healthy development is important for all children and leads to greater success as an adult. Most parenting styles blend, as the mother and father may exhibit different types of behavior.
Steve Vitto Positive Parenting Part TwoSteve Vitto
Steve Vitto's presentation for Parent Nights at Reeths Puffer Elementary School, Shelby Association for Retarded Children-Shelby Town Hall, & Muskegon, Michigan ARC
2010
Available in English and Spanish
svitto@muskegonisd.org
Your Life Satisfaction Score (beta) is an indicator of how you thrive in your life: it reflects how well you shape your lifestyle, habits and behaviors to maximize your overall life satisfaction along the five following dimensions:
►1. Health & fitness, reflecting your physical well-being and healthy habits;
►2. Positive emotions & gratitude, indicating how well you embrace positive emotions;
►3. Skills & expertise, measuring the ability to grow your expertise and achieve something unique;
►4. Social skills & discovery, assessing the strength of your network and your inclination to discover the world;
►5. Leadership & meaning, gauging your compassion, generosity and how much 'you are living the life of your dream'.
Visit www.Authentic-Happiness.com to check your Life Satisfaction score. Free, no registration required.
Parenting style and onset of child psychopathologyRichard Asare
Mental health of children depends on the way parents interact with them. Though every parent wishes to provide the best at home, they may not be giving the best to their children as no full proof method of bringing up children has been invented. This is because no two children are alike. There are more differences between children than we ordinarily believe. Moreover, culture, society, gender of the child and a host of other factors interact with the upbringing of children
Now the Parenting program has been changing rapidly and so also the family set up; children of present generation are first day care generation from different aspects- this is the cause of setting up parents anew as today the children are world-wise
Success For Our Children Establishing “Smart Sanskar”
India is now collision of the ancient and the modern.We are undergoing a transformation! 3 new forces are shaping our children!
Like us on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SmartSanskars?ref=stream
We want the best for our children
But we are still trying to raise our children like our parents did.
Our plans and dreams for them will be obsolete.
We could shortchange their goals.
We need to be prepared, aware and participate.
I believe that it is completely up to us.
This is a talk given to third year parents of La Salle Academy, Iligan City, Philippines on October 3, 2009 during their Parent-Child Dialogue Level Day.
Healthy development is important for all children and leads to greater success as an adult. Most parenting styles blend, as the mother and father may exhibit different types of behavior.
Providing each child with experiences and opportunities to understand and accept himself or herself (his or her special abilities, interests, passions, motivations), as well as the meaning and purpose of his or her own life.
Creating A Positive Parenting EnvironmentJoan Young
This presentation was for foster parents at a recent training. It has valuable information for any parent looking to re-frame the challenges of parenting in order to feel more effective.
Everyone of us, including every school-going child, rightfully claim a unique definition of good education or simply education. And it cannot be questioned because that's what education is supposed to be - a personal exploration and refinement of what exists within.
However, in current times, it's becoming very dysfunctional at the cost of our children and our future.
Over the years working with schools it dawned on us that there is a lack of a common on-the-ground framework for education in schools. The so-called academic freedom may actually be a case of not having a common language/goal to build a common understanding.
This is a proposed framework-in-progress and look forward to inputs.
Designed for community leaders, Parenting the Net Generation addresses family interests and concerns on issues that arise when young people go online. The workshop touches briefly on many key Internet issues including safety, privacy, marketing, ethics and cyberbullying, and evaluation of online information.
Steve Vitto Positive Approaches For All ChildrenSteve Vitto
A review of traditional views of discipline and why they are often problematic, and inneffective; and then a presentation of research based approaches for treating challenging behaviors
Steve Vitto Challeng of the Children Breaking Down the WallsSteve Vitto
Steve Vitto's presentation at the 2011 Challenge of the Children Conference at Hope College in Holland Michigan
Strategies for Defiant Students
svitto@muskegonisd.org
Teachers and social service providers are increasingly aware of the number of children who have conduct issues. This presentation provides guidelines for understanding and responding. A first step is to ask whether children have experienced trauma. A next step is to find out if the children, their peers, and their parents believe these behaviors are appropriate. Work with both children and their families is most effective. Professionals will work with children only if parents are unavailable. Parents may enjoy the socialization involved in parenting groups.
Steve Vitto Bringing out the best in challenging hopme school partberships fo...Steve Vitto
Presentation at the 2013 MATCEI Conference
Strategies for effectively supporting school staff and families in challenging partnerships
Acknowledgments": Karen West
Steve Vitto Breaking Down the Walls for Karen West MATCEI CONFERENCE 2013Steve Vitto
presentation at spring 2013 MATCEI Conference in Mount Pleasant Michigan
Strategies for treating Defiance, Social Maladjustment, ODD
presented by Steven Vitto
Steve vitto and Jennifer Russell school family partershipsSteve Vitto
A FOCUS DAY MIBLSI TRAINING PRESENTED BY STEVEN VITTO AND JENNIFER RUSSELL, MAISD BEHAVIOR CONSULTANT OUTLINING A PROCESS FOR DEVELOPING SUPPORTS FOR EFFECTIVE HOME SCHOOL PARTNERSHIPS. ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS KRISTIE DILA FOR HER SUPPORT
Allendale breaking down the walls pbis strategies for defianceSteve Vitto
An overview of evidenced based classroom management component to minimize power struggles and diffuse defiant behavior. In addition specific strategies for diffusion were identified and a comprehensive Cd tool box was provided
Steve Vitto Breaking Down the Walls in Ocean CountySteve Vitto
A presentation for the Oceana Human Resources Council on Strategies for Defiant Students and Bringing out the Best in Challenging Home School Partnerships
in May, 2011 by Steven Vitto
This is a tribute to my life long friend, David Jones, David died at the age of 44. He spent his life making others smile while he battled the demons of schizophrenia. May he rest in peace!
We love you David!!!
Steve
Steve Vitto In Support of PBIS Targeted InterventionsSteve Vitto
A PRESENTATION REVIEWING THE INFLUENCES AND CORRELATES THAT CAN PLACE A CHILD AT RISK, AND INTRODUCING SOME EVIDENCED BASED STRATEGIES
FOR SUPPORTING THESE STUDENTS. FOR FURTHER QUESTIONS CONTACT SVITTO@MUSKEGONISD.ORG
Steve Vitto :A Case for Tarheted Imterventions and PBISSteve Vitto
This presentation by Steve Vitto delivered in Grand Rapids, Muskegon, and Detroit Michigan gives some relevant statistics and outlines some of the variables that place children at risk for behavior and academic challenges. Steve can be reached at svitto@muskegonisdisd.org
Steve Vitto Functional assessment and meeting mechanics presentationSteve Vitto
A presentation on performing functional assessments and writing behavior intervention plans using the Meeting Mechanics Process for Reeths Puffer Schools- McMillan Elementary
2024.06.01 Introducing a competency framework for languag learning materials ...Sandy Millin
http://sandymillin.wordpress.com/iateflwebinar2024
Published classroom materials form the basis of syllabuses, drive teacher professional development, and have a potentially huge influence on learners, teachers and education systems. All teachers also create their own materials, whether a few sentences on a blackboard, a highly-structured fully-realised online course, or anything in between. Despite this, the knowledge and skills needed to create effective language learning materials are rarely part of teacher training, and are mostly learnt by trial and error.
Knowledge and skills frameworks, generally called competency frameworks, for ELT teachers, trainers and managers have existed for a few years now. However, until I created one for my MA dissertation, there wasn’t one drawing together what we need to know and do to be able to effectively produce language learning materials.
This webinar will introduce you to my framework, highlighting the key competencies I identified from my research. It will also show how anybody involved in language teaching (any language, not just English!), teacher training, managing schools or developing language learning materials can benefit from using the framework.
Unit 8 - Information and Communication Technology (Paper I).pdfThiyagu K
This slides describes the basic concepts of ICT, basics of Email, Emerging Technology and Digital Initiatives in Education. This presentations aligns with the UGC Paper I syllabus.
This is a presentation by Dada Robert in a Your Skill Boost masterclass organised by the Excellence Foundation for South Sudan (EFSS) on Saturday, the 25th and Sunday, the 26th of May 2024.
He discussed the concept of quality improvement, emphasizing its applicability to various aspects of life, including personal, project, and program improvements. He defined quality as doing the right thing at the right time in the right way to achieve the best possible results and discussed the concept of the "gap" between what we know and what we do, and how this gap represents the areas we need to improve. He explained the scientific approach to quality improvement, which involves systematic performance analysis, testing and learning, and implementing change ideas. He also highlighted the importance of client focus and a team approach to quality improvement.
How to Create Map Views in the Odoo 17 ERPCeline George
The map views are useful for providing a geographical representation of data. They allow users to visualize and analyze the data in a more intuitive manner.
Students, digital devices and success - Andreas Schleicher - 27 May 2024..pptxEduSkills OECD
Andreas Schleicher presents at the OECD webinar ‘Digital devices in schools: detrimental distraction or secret to success?’ on 27 May 2024. The presentation was based on findings from PISA 2022 results and the webinar helped launch the PISA in Focus ‘Managing screen time: How to protect and equip students against distraction’ https://www.oecd-ilibrary.org/education/managing-screen-time_7c225af4-en and the OECD Education Policy Perspective ‘Students, digital devices and success’ can be found here - https://oe.cd/il/5yV
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17Celine George
It is possible to hide or invisible some fields in odoo. Commonly using “invisible” attribute in the field definition to invisible the fields. This slide will show how to make a field invisible in odoo 17.
The Art Pastor's Guide to Sabbath | Steve ThomasonSteve Thomason
What is the purpose of the Sabbath Law in the Torah. It is interesting to compare how the context of the law shifts from Exodus to Deuteronomy. Who gets to rest, and why?
The Roman Empire A Historical Colossus.pdfkaushalkr1407
The Roman Empire, a vast and enduring power, stands as one of history's most remarkable civilizations, leaving an indelible imprint on the world. It emerged from the Roman Republic, transitioning into an imperial powerhouse under the leadership of Augustus Caesar in 27 BCE. This transformation marked the beginning of an era defined by unprecedented territorial expansion, architectural marvels, and profound cultural influence.
The empire's roots lie in the city of Rome, founded, according to legend, by Romulus in 753 BCE. Over centuries, Rome evolved from a small settlement to a formidable republic, characterized by a complex political system with elected officials and checks on power. However, internal strife, class conflicts, and military ambitions paved the way for the end of the Republic. Julius Caesar’s dictatorship and subsequent assassination in 44 BCE created a power vacuum, leading to a civil war. Octavian, later Augustus, emerged victorious, heralding the Roman Empire’s birth.
Under Augustus, the empire experienced the Pax Romana, a 200-year period of relative peace and stability. Augustus reformed the military, established efficient administrative systems, and initiated grand construction projects. The empire's borders expanded, encompassing territories from Britain to Egypt and from Spain to the Euphrates. Roman legions, renowned for their discipline and engineering prowess, secured and maintained these vast territories, building roads, fortifications, and cities that facilitated control and integration.
The Roman Empire’s society was hierarchical, with a rigid class system. At the top were the patricians, wealthy elites who held significant political power. Below them were the plebeians, free citizens with limited political influence, and the vast numbers of slaves who formed the backbone of the economy. The family unit was central, governed by the paterfamilias, the male head who held absolute authority.
Culturally, the Romans were eclectic, absorbing and adapting elements from the civilizations they encountered, particularly the Greeks. Roman art, literature, and philosophy reflected this synthesis, creating a rich cultural tapestry. Latin, the Roman language, became the lingua franca of the Western world, influencing numerous modern languages.
Roman architecture and engineering achievements were monumental. They perfected the arch, vault, and dome, constructing enduring structures like the Colosseum, Pantheon, and aqueducts. These engineering marvels not only showcased Roman ingenuity but also served practical purposes, from public entertainment to water supply.
3. "...subjection to rule; submissiveness to control; to keep in subjection." It seems there are two schools of thought on what discipline is. One involves helping a person function more effectively in the world, and the other involves keeping a person doing what someone else wants him to do--as in slavery.” B.E. Penel PhD “… rarely have I heard the word discipline used to mean helping a child function more effectively in the world. The usual meaning involves finding ways to make the child do what the parents want him to do…” B.E. Penel PhD HISTORICALLY DISCIPLINE HAS HAD TWO DISTINCT MEANINGS:
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6. "My vision is that all children are raised lovingly and non-violently and with discipline that motivates them through love, not through fear.” - Deborah Critzer, Positive Parenting
27. Parenting styles and consequent effects on children Would you describe your own parents as strict? What does that mean? Authoritarian parenting style – “My house, my rules.” Strict and punitive. Permissive-neglectful – The parents own lives are far more important than are the children. Lets the child do whatever s/he pleases mainly because the parent does not want to take time with the child. Permissive-indulgent – Highly involved with the child but places very few demands on the child; high belief in basic goodness of the child and belief that the child does not need controls in order to grow into a good and competent individual; “hippy” style of parenting. Authoritative (democratic) – Controls and rules are in place, but they are not enforced capriciously (at the whim of the parent); rules are explained and are open to debate in the family; once decided, however, all family members are expected to observe the rules. Parents show warmth to children and are supportive (always “there for them”). As you might suspect, most parents use combinations of these styles and may vary from time-to-time and from child-to-child.
28. Consequences (from research) of the various parenting styles: Authoritarian – strict childrearing is associated with moderate school performance (grades of “C” and “B”) relatively lower creativity relatively lower involvement in problems behaviors poorer social skills lower self-esteem higher levels of depression Permissive-neglectful – children perform lowest in all categories Permissive-indulgent – a mixed bag of results most likely to be involved in problem behaviors perform less well in school, but high creativity higher self-esteem lower levels of depression may have good social skills, but unrealistic expectations of peers and others Authoritative – children perform highest in all categories
29. Discipline vs. punishment vs. abuse Discipline - training expected to produce a specific character or pattern of behavior, especially training that produces moral or mental improvement (Webster); disciple – one who follows the teaching of another. Punishment – a penalty imposed for wrongdoing; rough handling; mistreatment. Abuse – maltreatment; excessive use of punishment; exploitation. Rather obviously, we want to be using discipline—teaching the child. Punishment is less desirable and unnecessary. Of course, natural consequences may seem like punishment, but they are not the same. Most (about 90-95%) of psychologists agree that corporal punishment should not be used with children. For example, out of several hundred psychology textbooks I have used or reviewed, not a single one has ever taken a position that corporal punishment is a recommendable practice. Yet 70 – 90% of parents have spanked their children. Why?
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33. Child abuse comes in different forms: Physical abuse – where does spanking end and physical abuse begin? Emotional abuse – “You are stupid, I wish you had never been born.” Sexual abuse – even in this one, people debate the definitions Neglect – failure to provide for the basic needs of the child The point is: Opinions and judgments are heavily involved in child abuse statistics, ideas about what should be done about “abuse,” once defined, and in the interplay between scientific approaches and cases in courts.
34. Rates of child abuse – problems with statistics One things seems very clear: Rates of child abuse are considerably higher than is reflected in existing statistics. Reasons: Children do not feel that adults should be challenged. If an adult is doing something, no matter how extreme, the child’s tendency is to accept it as the way it is. There is still tremendous shame, guilt and fear associated with abuse and in making family abuse known to persons outside the family. This is especially true in sexual abuse cases. Although it is changing, there remains an ethic of minimal state intervention in private matters of home and family. Even persons who work abuse cases may become ambivalent about prosecuting abuse. They become painfully aware of the cold realities of available alternatives for the child.
35. People are not for hitting, And children are people too. --John Valusek, Wichita, KS http:// www.nospank.net/valusek.htm
36. If you were abused as a child, are you doomed to be a bad parent or to abuse your children? The answer is no! No amount of maltreatment you received “dooms” you to anything. Only about one-third of persons who were abused go on to abuse their children, which is pretty close to the proportion of non-abused persons who abuse their children by some definition of abuse. Reminder of Burden’s rule of turn-around: If a child can have at least one warm, caring person in their life, it can undo a great deal of abuse at the hands of others (see page 280 in text). If you know a child whom you believe to be maltreated, Be a friend to the child—listen, be there for her/him Smile warmly at children; let them know you like them Give your time to youth activities— be a coach, a Scout Leader, a Sunday School teacher Be a child advocate—a trained volunteer position to help safeguard the best interests of the child .
37. Effects of divorce on children Time for one of John’s simple logic lessons: If the marriage is so stressful, so terrible, and so hopeless that there is constant strife, a lack of love in the home, and the child is constantly upset, then, obviously divorce is better than staying together. That having been said, divorce is not good for children. A wide variety of ill effects are correlationally related to divorce. It is much better to have two caregivers in a positive functional relationship. However, the majority of children of divorce do not have significant adjustment problems. If divorce is unavoidable, then some things can help the child(ren): Try to fight and discuss the impending divorce in private Never use the child as a pawn, and do not use custody threats as a weapon of power Try to remain friends as, much as possible, after the divorce Use classes and support groups for adjustment in the first two years after the divorce
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40. How do children develop self-regulation and morality? Scenarios: Billy is 3 years; baby sister Felicia is 10 months. While changing Felicia, Billy demands you attention—now! A good response to Billy might be, “Sissy needs her diaper changed or it might hurt her. We don’t want Sissy to hurt do we?” (encourages empathy) Or, “ It is Sissy’s turn right now—she’s a baby. You’re a big boy. After I change Sissy, it will be your turn.” (builds norm of reciprocity) Or, (Ignoring Billy’s whining) “This is the way we change sister, will you help me. Help me, please, and then I will get your juice.” (involvement builds other-orientation) Don’t say: “Be quiet Billy, you’re being selfish. I am changing your sister now.” (focus on Billy’s faults)
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