Raven Chai is a principal UX consultant who has observed common pain points among startups regarding UX competencies. Many startups do not properly define their target users or validate ideas, instead prioritizing features and aesthetics over usability. Job postings also often have unrealistic expectations by requesting a "UX rockstar." Chai recommends startups hire agencies initially, attend conferences to learn, and consider government grants to build internal UX capabilities over time rather than relying on a sole "UX person."