BOOK REVIEW BY 
MUPPARAPU VINAY 
B815 BIFAAS
AUTHOR:DR.B.V.PATTABHI RAM 
*He was born on feb12 1950 in saifabad hyderabad 
Is a post graduate in psychology,philosophy from ou.He has 
been conducting workshops on soft skills and motivating 
students &teachers 
*personal interests: 
magics,hipnotism,personality devolpment,writing books. 
* He written morethan 100 books on personality 
devolpment,human values. 
*He was awarded the Honorary Citizenship by the Mayor of 
Nashville, USA. Presently he is Director of Prasanthi 
Counselling Centre.
 Publishers: 
EMESCO BOOKS 
Domalguda,Hyderabad 
Number of pages:150 
First published,january,2013 
 ISBN:978-93-82203-42-1 
 BOOKS:
SOFT SKILLS 
S.NO CONTENTS OF THE BOOK 
O1 Attitude is everything 
02 Body language 
03 Decision making 
04 Goal setting 
05 creativity 
06 Motivation 
07 Problem solving 
08 Self confidence 
09 Stress management 
10 Time management 
11 Suicide is not a solution
Attitude is everything 
 “It is the attitude not the aptitude that determines the altitude of the 
person in the life” 
 When you make peace with your self,you can be peace with rest of 
the world 
 Positive mental attitude 
 Three steps to change attitude: 
 Affirmations 
 Wow 
 Power of visualization
Body language
Decision making 
five steps for making effective decision: 
1.Analyse the issue or the problem 
2.Bring out the contribution factors 
3.Consequences of the decision 
4.Discuss the potential alternatives 
5.Focus on the final decision
Suggestions 
Divide the goals 
1M.Immediate goal 
1Y.Shortterm goal 
3Y.Mid term goal 
5Y.Long term goal 
10Y.Life long
Creativity 
What is creativity? 
 Bay of Bengal 
Howto develop creativity? 
 Oldendays-riddles&puzzles 
 Astronaut-pen 
Lateral thinking &six thinking hats
Motivation 
 Motivation can be the reason for the action or 
That which gives direction to an action 
 Internal and external motivation 
 Self motivation 
“To conquer oneself is a greater victory than to conquer 
Thousands in a battle” 
 Tips to motivate yourself 
• Get motivated everyday 
• Set a major goal and start with small action 
• Interact with winners
Suicide is not a 
solution…………… 
Reasons: 
S-stress 
U-unworthy feelings 
I-isolation and loneliness 
C-change in the lifestyle 
I-insults&humiliations 
D-depression 
E-emotional distrubances 
Solutions: 
 Counselling 
 Psychotherapy treatment 
 Cognitive behaviour therapy
Time management 
What are your time wasters? 
 Internal time waster 
 External time waster 
Abc technique: 
 Tasks that are perceived as being urgent and important 
 Tasks that are important but not urgent 
 Tasks that are neither urgent nor important 
The pickle jar theory of time management
soft skills

soft skills

  • 1.
    BOOK REVIEW BY MUPPARAPU VINAY B815 BIFAAS
  • 2.
    AUTHOR:DR.B.V.PATTABHI RAM *Hewas born on feb12 1950 in saifabad hyderabad Is a post graduate in psychology,philosophy from ou.He has been conducting workshops on soft skills and motivating students &teachers *personal interests: magics,hipnotism,personality devolpment,writing books. * He written morethan 100 books on personality devolpment,human values. *He was awarded the Honorary Citizenship by the Mayor of Nashville, USA. Presently he is Director of Prasanthi Counselling Centre.
  • 3.
     Publishers: EMESCOBOOKS Domalguda,Hyderabad Number of pages:150 First published,january,2013  ISBN:978-93-82203-42-1  BOOKS:
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    SOFT SKILLS S.NOCONTENTS OF THE BOOK O1 Attitude is everything 02 Body language 03 Decision making 04 Goal setting 05 creativity 06 Motivation 07 Problem solving 08 Self confidence 09 Stress management 10 Time management 11 Suicide is not a solution
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    Attitude is everything  “It is the attitude not the aptitude that determines the altitude of the person in the life”  When you make peace with your self,you can be peace with rest of the world  Positive mental attitude  Three steps to change attitude:  Affirmations  Wow  Power of visualization
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    Decision making fivesteps for making effective decision: 1.Analyse the issue or the problem 2.Bring out the contribution factors 3.Consequences of the decision 4.Discuss the potential alternatives 5.Focus on the final decision
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    Suggestions Divide thegoals 1M.Immediate goal 1Y.Shortterm goal 3Y.Mid term goal 5Y.Long term goal 10Y.Life long
  • 9.
    Creativity What iscreativity?  Bay of Bengal Howto develop creativity?  Oldendays-riddles&puzzles  Astronaut-pen Lateral thinking &six thinking hats
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    Motivation  Motivationcan be the reason for the action or That which gives direction to an action  Internal and external motivation  Self motivation “To conquer oneself is a greater victory than to conquer Thousands in a battle”  Tips to motivate yourself • Get motivated everyday • Set a major goal and start with small action • Interact with winners
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    Suicide is nota solution…………… Reasons: S-stress U-unworthy feelings I-isolation and loneliness C-change in the lifestyle I-insults&humiliations D-depression E-emotional distrubances Solutions:  Counselling  Psychotherapy treatment  Cognitive behaviour therapy
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    Time management Whatare your time wasters?  Internal time waster  External time waster Abc technique:  Tasks that are perceived as being urgent and important  Tasks that are important but not urgent  Tasks that are neither urgent nor important The pickle jar theory of time management