WELCOME Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
Introduction Getting to know each other About coaching and why it is so important Interactive work Working rules
Objectives To:  Define the term coaching and understand coaching approach Understand benefits to the business of effective coaching  Understand different coaching models and learn how to use some of them Apply effective listening skills Apply powerful questioning skills How to deliver feedback Help others in their development and results achievement Overcome obstacles and limiting beliefs in their personal development Improve performance through advanced communication approaches   Remove barriers that hold the team back from achieving more
Topics Day I – Basics of coaching  Coaching models Day II –  Listening skills and asking questions. Feedback Day III –  Focus – individuals and teams around me Day IV –  Focus – me Day V -  Live coaching session s
Your trainer Slađana Milošević Master degrees obtained in Serbia and Slovenia 12 years of experience in training and lecturing Works in private owned company Mobilis Ltd Establisher and first president of European Mentoring and Coaching Council for Serbia For  four  years member of IAC  (International Association of Coaches,  USA )
Short history of coaching Coaching  has always been done … Tim Gallwey  –  The Inner Game of Tennis John   Wh itmor e  –  Coaching for Performance
Definition of coaching Definition by ICF ( International Coaching  Federation ): coaching is an interactive process  that helps individuals, teams, companies,  institutions or organizations to develop their  potentials and  to  achieve better results   faster  and more efficient Coaching is a nicer way to achieve better  results (Whitmore, 2003)
Formula  P  =  p - i Tim Gallwey,  in his book  “The Inner Game of Tennis“,  from 1974: Performance = potential   -   interference  P = p - i
Story about 2 selves Self no 1  is the internal voice of our parents, teachers  and those who have any type of authority. Self no 1  wants to control Self no 2, it does not trust Self 2. Self  no 1 is characterized by tension, fear, doubt and too  much work Self no 2  is our whole being with all our  potentials and capacities to learn. It is characterized by  relaxed concentration, enjoyment and trust
More beautiful stories Story about learning Story about kids
Coaching and similar professions Mentor Facilitator Therapist ...
Characteristics of  coach Patient Supportive Good listener Good observer Remember s  things well ...
Coaching and entrepreneurs Entrepreneurs can use coaching as clients They can use coaching in their business too
7 Habits of successful people Be proactive Start from an end Define priorities Think win-win Seek to understand other s  and then ask them to understand you Synergize Take care about yourself There is one more : „ Find your “voice” and inspire others  to do so”
How to do coaching? It is not a sophisticated science What is important is exercise and concentration
Coaching models Many coaching models are developed over years The most popular coaching model is GROW model (also known as iGROW and ToGROW model) Different models are presented and compared in  your  handout s
THANK YOU! Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
WELCOME Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
Da y  II Topic – listening and asking questions . Giving feedback
Basic coaching skills Rapport Trust and empathy Listening Questions and clarifications Definition of objectives and responsibilities Observation Feedback
Listening Communication process
Listening LEVEL 1. Waiting for our turn to speak •  I think we should arrange a meeting with all stakeholders •  Did you watch football last night? LEVEL 2. Giving our own experience •  I went on the Leadership course last week. •  I went on it last year. I learned a lot. LEVEL  3 .   Giving advice •  My manager is a bully. •  What you should do is complain to HR.
Listening LEVEL 4. Listening and asking for more •  I want to get the very best out of my team. •  tell me more about that. LEVEL  5 .   Intuitive listening •  I really want to write my book but there’s never any time •  Is this about not having the time or is something else getting in the way? •  I’m afraid my book won’t be good enough.”
Questions Questions related to problem Questions related to objectives Specific questions Unclear questions Powerful questions
Feedback When giving feedback it is good to: Tell what you have seen, like „I saw you did...“ Describe what you have seen, without estimation, like. „I noticed that ...“ Share ideas, like „What would happen if you ...“ Examine alternatives, like. „Could you ... What other way s  are there?“
THANK YOU! Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
WELCOME Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
Day  III Topic –  Focus – Individuals and teams around me
Coaching techniques Summarising Paraphrasing  Reiterating Mirroring
Problem s in coaching There are problems at : Individual level Organizational level
Team coaching In team coaching you as a coach have to work with team and with individuals in that team ! Exercises for you!
Team development Performance high nizak Time forming storming norming performing transforming
THANK YOU! Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
WELCOME Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
Day  IV Topic –  Fo c us –  me
Exercises My dreams My vision My objectives END GOAL PERFORMANCE GOAL PROCES S DREAM
Coaching  1 to 1 Perform coaching session, using results from exercises we did during the first training day and today Use GROW model
THANK YOU! Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
WELCOME Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
Day  V Coaching sessions live Instructions Questions for clarification
AT THE END... Personal note for  each participant !
THANK YOU! Coaching Slađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640

Sladjana Milosevic - Coaching

  • 1.
    WELCOME Coaching SlađanaMilošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 2.
    Introduction Getting toknow each other About coaching and why it is so important Interactive work Working rules
  • 3.
    Objectives To: Define the term coaching and understand coaching approach Understand benefits to the business of effective coaching Understand different coaching models and learn how to use some of them Apply effective listening skills Apply powerful questioning skills How to deliver feedback Help others in their development and results achievement Overcome obstacles and limiting beliefs in their personal development Improve performance through advanced communication approaches Remove barriers that hold the team back from achieving more
  • 4.
    Topics Day I– Basics of coaching Coaching models Day II – Listening skills and asking questions. Feedback Day III – Focus – individuals and teams around me Day IV – Focus – me Day V - Live coaching session s
  • 5.
    Your trainer SlađanaMilošević Master degrees obtained in Serbia and Slovenia 12 years of experience in training and lecturing Works in private owned company Mobilis Ltd Establisher and first president of European Mentoring and Coaching Council for Serbia For four years member of IAC (International Association of Coaches, USA )
  • 6.
    Short history ofcoaching Coaching has always been done … Tim Gallwey – The Inner Game of Tennis John Wh itmor e – Coaching for Performance
  • 7.
    Definition of coachingDefinition by ICF ( International Coaching Federation ): coaching is an interactive process that helps individuals, teams, companies, institutions or organizations to develop their potentials and to achieve better results faster and more efficient Coaching is a nicer way to achieve better results (Whitmore, 2003)
  • 8.
    Formula P = p - i Tim Gallwey, in his book “The Inner Game of Tennis“, from 1974: Performance = potential - interference P = p - i
  • 9.
    Story about 2selves Self no 1 is the internal voice of our parents, teachers and those who have any type of authority. Self no 1 wants to control Self no 2, it does not trust Self 2. Self no 1 is characterized by tension, fear, doubt and too much work Self no 2 is our whole being with all our potentials and capacities to learn. It is characterized by relaxed concentration, enjoyment and trust
  • 10.
    More beautiful storiesStory about learning Story about kids
  • 11.
    Coaching and similarprofessions Mentor Facilitator Therapist ...
  • 12.
    Characteristics of coach Patient Supportive Good listener Good observer Remember s things well ...
  • 13.
    Coaching and entrepreneursEntrepreneurs can use coaching as clients They can use coaching in their business too
  • 14.
    7 Habits ofsuccessful people Be proactive Start from an end Define priorities Think win-win Seek to understand other s and then ask them to understand you Synergize Take care about yourself There is one more : „ Find your “voice” and inspire others to do so”
  • 15.
    How to docoaching? It is not a sophisticated science What is important is exercise and concentration
  • 16.
    Coaching models Manycoaching models are developed over years The most popular coaching model is GROW model (also known as iGROW and ToGROW model) Different models are presented and compared in your handout s
  • 17.
    THANK YOU! CoachingSlađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 18.
    WELCOME Coaching SlađanaMilošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 19.
    Da y II Topic – listening and asking questions . Giving feedback
  • 20.
    Basic coaching skillsRapport Trust and empathy Listening Questions and clarifications Definition of objectives and responsibilities Observation Feedback
  • 21.
  • 22.
    Listening LEVEL 1.Waiting for our turn to speak • I think we should arrange a meeting with all stakeholders • Did you watch football last night? LEVEL 2. Giving our own experience • I went on the Leadership course last week. • I went on it last year. I learned a lot. LEVEL 3 . Giving advice • My manager is a bully. • What you should do is complain to HR.
  • 23.
    Listening LEVEL 4.Listening and asking for more • I want to get the very best out of my team. • tell me more about that. LEVEL 5 . Intuitive listening • I really want to write my book but there’s never any time • Is this about not having the time or is something else getting in the way? • I’m afraid my book won’t be good enough.”
  • 24.
    Questions Questions relatedto problem Questions related to objectives Specific questions Unclear questions Powerful questions
  • 25.
    Feedback When givingfeedback it is good to: Tell what you have seen, like „I saw you did...“ Describe what you have seen, without estimation, like. „I noticed that ...“ Share ideas, like „What would happen if you ...“ Examine alternatives, like. „Could you ... What other way s are there?“
  • 26.
    THANK YOU! CoachingSlađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 27.
    WELCOME Coaching SlađanaMilošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 28.
    Day IIITopic – Focus – Individuals and teams around me
  • 29.
    Coaching techniques SummarisingParaphrasing Reiterating Mirroring
  • 30.
    Problem s incoaching There are problems at : Individual level Organizational level
  • 31.
    Team coaching Inteam coaching you as a coach have to work with team and with individuals in that team ! Exercises for you!
  • 32.
    Team development Performancehigh nizak Time forming storming norming performing transforming
  • 33.
    THANK YOU! CoachingSlađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 34.
    WELCOME Coaching SlađanaMilošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 35.
    Day IVTopic – Fo c us – me
  • 36.
    Exercises My dreamsMy vision My objectives END GOAL PERFORMANCE GOAL PROCES S DREAM
  • 37.
    Coaching 1to 1 Perform coaching session, using results from exercises we did during the first training day and today Use GROW model
  • 38.
    THANK YOU! CoachingSlađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 39.
    WELCOME Coaching SlađanaMilošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640
  • 40.
    Day VCoaching sessions live Instructions Questions for clarification
  • 41.
    AT THE END...Personal note for each participant !
  • 42.
    THANK YOU! CoachingSlađana Milošević s ladjana.milosevic @mobilis.co.rs 063.85.49.640