SELF ESTEEM IS ACTUALLY OUR ASSESSMENT OF OUR OWN SELF.
 WHEN THIS SELF ASSESSMENT IS POSITIVE,WE
SEE OURSELVES AS VALUABLE AND
WORTHWHILE AND WE DEVELOP A STRONG
SELF-ESTEEM.
 WHEN IT IS NEGATIVE, WE FEEL WORTHLESS,
INCOMPETENT AND UNFORTUNATE AND OUR
SELF-ESTEEM REMAINS WEAK.
SELF ESTEEM IS THE OPINION YOU
HAVE OF YOURSELF
 IT IS THE SUM OF ONE’S SELF CONFIDENCE,SELF
WORTH AND SELF RESPECT
 THE NATURE IS BASED ON
ACCEPTING,UNDERSTANDING AND LIKING ONESELF.
HIGH SELF ESTEEM IS BASED ON OUR
ATTITUDES OF THE FOLLOWING
 YOUR VALUE AS A PERSON
 THE JOB YOU DO
 YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS
 HOW YOU THINK OTHERS SEE YOU
 YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE
 YOUR PLACE IN THE WORLD
 YOUR POTENTIAL FOR SUCCESS
 YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES
 YOUR SOCIAL STATUS AND HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHERS
 YOUR ABILITY TO STAND ON YOUR FEET
QUALITIES OF LOW SELF ESTEEM
 SELF – CENTERED
 HIGHLY CRITICAL
 DIFFIDENT
QUALITIES OF HIGH SELF ESTEEM
 SELF-CONFIDENT
 GOAL-ORIENTED
 APPRECIATIVE
 CONTENTED
WE NEED TO PRACTICE FOLLOWING STEPS CONSISTENTLY OVER
A PERIOD OF TIME TO STRENGTHEN OUR SELF ESTEEM
 NURTURE YOURSELF
 COMPLIMENT PEOPLE DIRECTLY BY LOOKING AT
THEIR EYES AND EXPERIENCE A WARM FEELING
 RECEIVE GENUINE COMPLIMENTS WITH GRACE
AND CONFIDENCE
 AVOID FLATTERY
 IGNORE UNCONDITIONAL ‘COLD PRICKLES’ AND
FEEL SECURE AND COMFORTABLE
 WHEN YOU FEEL LOW SHARE WITH SOMEONE YOU
TRUST.
HOW EXACTLY DO WE IMPROVE OUR SELF-
ESTEEM
 IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT STRONG SELF ESTEEM
EVOLVES FROM VIEWING YOURSELF AS A VALUABLE AND
WORTHWHILE PERSON,AND IS NOT DEPENDENT ON HOW OTHER
PEOPLE VIEW YOU.YOU ARE YOUR GREATEST ASSET AND CAN START
IMPROVING UPON YOUR SELF ESTEEM TODAY BY
 BELEIVING IN YOURSELF
 LETTING GO OF YOUR PAST HURTS AND FORGIVING OTHERS
 LOVING AND ACCEPTING YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY
 PLANNING AND SETTING ATTAINABLE GOALS IN LIFE
 VISUALIZING YOURSELF IN ACHIEVING AND SUCCEEDING IN LIFE
 INTERNALISING POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS THAT HELP YOU BELIEVE IN
YOURSELF
Many factors can affect the development of an adolescent’s
self-esteem. For example, one’s genetic makeup, personality,
family, school and peers are all important elements.
Evaluations from parents, teachers, schoolmates and friends
can affect the ways how we perceive ourselves, which then
gradually build up our self-esteem.
SELF ESTEEM HIGH OR LOW?
 DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF?
 ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH YOURSELF?
 ARE YOU WILLING TO IMPROVE YOUR WEAKNESSES?
 DO YOU THINK YOU ARE USELESS?
 DO YOU THINK YOU ARE UNLIKEABLE?
 DO YOU OFTEN THINK YOU ARE INFERIOR TO OTHERS?
 DO YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS?
 DO YOU REFUSE TO TRY DUE TO FEAR OF FAILURE?
THESE QUESTIONS HELP US TO EVALUATE SELF ESTEEEM.OUR
SELF ESTEEM WOULD BE HIGHER IF THE ANSWERS ARE ABOVE
TEND TO BE POSITIVE.
WAYS TO CULTIVATE BETTER SELF ESTEEM
RECOGNIZE YOUR VALUE
ACCEPT YOURSELF AND BUILD A POSITIVE
SELF IMAGE
DEVELOP AND MAKE A GOOD USE OF POTENTIAL
IMPROVE WEAKNESSES.IF YOU
DO NOT COMPARE WITH OTHERS
DO NOT GIVE UP SHAPE UP
CORRECT MISTAKES, AND REBUILD SELF ESTEEM
LOVE YOURSELF
BUILD UP SOCIAL NETWORK AND MAKE APPROPRIATE USE OF IT
Persons with higher self-esteem can recognize their own values
and strengths better; they will not be afraid to expose their
weaknesses nor be constantly mindful of others’ comments.
Instead, they will be firm towards their goals and more able to
accept challenges and overcome difficulties. They can also build
up better relationships with family members, teachers, and
friends and make appropriate use of their support.
SOME FAMOUS PEOPLE HAVE A SENSE OF LOW SELF-WORTH, BUT THEY
DECIDED TO PUT IT DOWN.THEY CHOSE TO PREVAIL OVER THE NEGATIVE
EVENTS AND FEELINGS THEY HAD AND TRIUMPHED OVER THEIR
PROBLEMS AND SO ALSO YOU CAN.THEY HAD SUBSTANTIAL DIFFICULTIES
TO DEAL WITH, BUT THEY OVERCAME THESE PROBLEMS AND FLOURISHED.
Edison patented his first invention, an electric vote-recording machine, at age 21.
Thomas’s goal was to produce a new invention every ten days, and during one four-
year period, he averaged a new patent every five days. His lab was so prolific that
he was nicknamed the “Wizard of Menlo Park.”
Edison’s laboratory invented such things as the phonograph, the motion picture,
and the incandescent light bulb. Eventually, his electric business became known as
the General Electric Company.
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Self esteem

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    SELF ESTEEM ISACTUALLY OUR ASSESSMENT OF OUR OWN SELF.  WHEN THIS SELF ASSESSMENT IS POSITIVE,WE SEE OURSELVES AS VALUABLE AND WORTHWHILE AND WE DEVELOP A STRONG SELF-ESTEEM.  WHEN IT IS NEGATIVE, WE FEEL WORTHLESS, INCOMPETENT AND UNFORTUNATE AND OUR SELF-ESTEEM REMAINS WEAK.
  • 3.
    SELF ESTEEM ISTHE OPINION YOU HAVE OF YOURSELF  IT IS THE SUM OF ONE’S SELF CONFIDENCE,SELF WORTH AND SELF RESPECT  THE NATURE IS BASED ON ACCEPTING,UNDERSTANDING AND LIKING ONESELF.
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    HIGH SELF ESTEEMIS BASED ON OUR ATTITUDES OF THE FOLLOWING  YOUR VALUE AS A PERSON  THE JOB YOU DO  YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS  HOW YOU THINK OTHERS SEE YOU  YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE  YOUR PLACE IN THE WORLD  YOUR POTENTIAL FOR SUCCESS  YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES  YOUR SOCIAL STATUS AND HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHERS  YOUR ABILITY TO STAND ON YOUR FEET
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    QUALITIES OF LOWSELF ESTEEM  SELF – CENTERED  HIGHLY CRITICAL  DIFFIDENT
  • 8.
    QUALITIES OF HIGHSELF ESTEEM  SELF-CONFIDENT  GOAL-ORIENTED  APPRECIATIVE  CONTENTED
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    WE NEED TOPRACTICE FOLLOWING STEPS CONSISTENTLY OVER A PERIOD OF TIME TO STRENGTHEN OUR SELF ESTEEM  NURTURE YOURSELF  COMPLIMENT PEOPLE DIRECTLY BY LOOKING AT THEIR EYES AND EXPERIENCE A WARM FEELING  RECEIVE GENUINE COMPLIMENTS WITH GRACE AND CONFIDENCE  AVOID FLATTERY  IGNORE UNCONDITIONAL ‘COLD PRICKLES’ AND FEEL SECURE AND COMFORTABLE  WHEN YOU FEEL LOW SHARE WITH SOMEONE YOU TRUST.
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    HOW EXACTLY DOWE IMPROVE OUR SELF- ESTEEM  IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT STRONG SELF ESTEEM EVOLVES FROM VIEWING YOURSELF AS A VALUABLE AND WORTHWHILE PERSON,AND IS NOT DEPENDENT ON HOW OTHER PEOPLE VIEW YOU.YOU ARE YOUR GREATEST ASSET AND CAN START IMPROVING UPON YOUR SELF ESTEEM TODAY BY  BELEIVING IN YOURSELF  LETTING GO OF YOUR PAST HURTS AND FORGIVING OTHERS  LOVING AND ACCEPTING YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY  PLANNING AND SETTING ATTAINABLE GOALS IN LIFE  VISUALIZING YOURSELF IN ACHIEVING AND SUCCEEDING IN LIFE  INTERNALISING POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS THAT HELP YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
  • 11.
    Many factors canaffect the development of an adolescent’s self-esteem. For example, one’s genetic makeup, personality, family, school and peers are all important elements. Evaluations from parents, teachers, schoolmates and friends can affect the ways how we perceive ourselves, which then gradually build up our self-esteem.
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    SELF ESTEEM HIGHOR LOW?  DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF?  ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH YOURSELF?  ARE YOU WILLING TO IMPROVE YOUR WEAKNESSES?  DO YOU THINK YOU ARE USELESS?  DO YOU THINK YOU ARE UNLIKEABLE?  DO YOU OFTEN THINK YOU ARE INFERIOR TO OTHERS?  DO YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS?  DO YOU REFUSE TO TRY DUE TO FEAR OF FAILURE? THESE QUESTIONS HELP US TO EVALUATE SELF ESTEEEM.OUR SELF ESTEEM WOULD BE HIGHER IF THE ANSWERS ARE ABOVE TEND TO BE POSITIVE.
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    WAYS TO CULTIVATEBETTER SELF ESTEEM
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    ACCEPT YOURSELF ANDBUILD A POSITIVE SELF IMAGE
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    DEVELOP AND MAKEA GOOD USE OF POTENTIAL
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    DO NOT COMPAREWITH OTHERS
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    DO NOT GIVEUP SHAPE UP
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    CORRECT MISTAKES, ANDREBUILD SELF ESTEEM
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    BUILD UP SOCIALNETWORK AND MAKE APPROPRIATE USE OF IT
  • 24.
    Persons with higherself-esteem can recognize their own values and strengths better; they will not be afraid to expose their weaknesses nor be constantly mindful of others’ comments. Instead, they will be firm towards their goals and more able to accept challenges and overcome difficulties. They can also build up better relationships with family members, teachers, and friends and make appropriate use of their support.
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    SOME FAMOUS PEOPLEHAVE A SENSE OF LOW SELF-WORTH, BUT THEY DECIDED TO PUT IT DOWN.THEY CHOSE TO PREVAIL OVER THE NEGATIVE EVENTS AND FEELINGS THEY HAD AND TRIUMPHED OVER THEIR PROBLEMS AND SO ALSO YOU CAN.THEY HAD SUBSTANTIAL DIFFICULTIES TO DEAL WITH, BUT THEY OVERCAME THESE PROBLEMS AND FLOURISHED.
  • 42.
    Edison patented hisfirst invention, an electric vote-recording machine, at age 21. Thomas’s goal was to produce a new invention every ten days, and during one four- year period, he averaged a new patent every five days. His lab was so prolific that he was nicknamed the “Wizard of Menlo Park.” Edison’s laboratory invented such things as the phonograph, the motion picture, and the incandescent light bulb. Eventually, his electric business became known as the General Electric Company.
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