assessment of our own self - opinion you have of yourself - qualities of self esteem - low and high - constantly strengthening self esteem - do we improve our self esteem - appreciate yourself - recognize your value - accept ourselves and build positive self images - develop and make a good use of potential - improve our weaknesses if you - examples of Abraham LIncoln,Helen Keller and Thomas Edison.
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Self esteem
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2. SELF ESTEEM IS ACTUALLY OUR ASSESSMENT
OF OUR OWN SELF.
WHEN THIS SELF ASSESSMENT IS POSITIVE,WE
SEE OURSELVES AS VALUABLE AND
WORTHWHILE AND WE DEVELOP A STRONG
SELF-ESTEEM.
WHEN IT IS NEGATIVE, WE FEEL WORTHLESS,
INCOMPETENT AND UNFORTUNATE AND OUR
SELF-ESTEEM REMAINS WEAK.
3. SELF ESTEEM IS THE OPINION YOU
HAVE OF YOURSELF
IT IS THE SUM OF ONE’S SELF CONFIDENCE,SELF
WORTH AND SELF RESPECT
THE NATURE IS BASED ON
ACCEPTING,UNDERSTANDING AND LIKING ONESELF.
4. HIGH SELF ESTEEM IS BASED ON OUR
ATTITUDES OF THE FOLLOWING
YOUR VALUE AS A PERSON
THE JOB YOU DO
YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS
HOW YOU THINK OTHERS SEE YOU
YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE
YOUR PLACE IN THE WORLD
YOUR POTENTIAL FOR SUCCESS
YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES
YOUR SOCIAL STATUS AND HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHERS
YOUR ABILITY TO STAND ON YOUR FEET
8. QUALITIES OF HIGH SELF ESTEEM
SELF-CONFIDENT
GOAL-ORIENTED
APPRECIATIVE
CONTENTED
9. WE NEED TO PRACTICE FOLLOWING STEPS CONSISTENTLY OVER A
PERIOD OF TIME TO STRENGTHEN OUR SELF ESTEEM
NURTURE YOURSELF
COMPLIMENT PEOPLE DIRECTLY BY LOOKING AT
THEIR EYES AND EXPERIENCE A WARM FEELING
RECEIVE GENUINE COMPLIMENTS WITH GRACE
AND CONFIDENCE
AVOID FLATTERY
IGNORE UNCONDITIONAL ‘COLD PRICKLES’ AND
FEEL SECURE AND COMFORTABLE
WHEN YOU FEEL LOW SHARE WITH SOMEONE YOU
TRUST.
10. HOW EXACTLY DO WE IMPROVE OUR SELF-
ESTEEM
IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT STRONG SELF ESTEEM
EVOLVES FROM VIEWING YOURSELF AS A VALUABLE AND
WORTHWHILE PERSON,AND IS NOT DEPENDENT ON HOW OTHER
PEOPLE VIEW YOU.YOU ARE YOUR GREATEST ASSET AND CAN START
IMPROVING UPON YOUR SELF ESTEEM TODAY BY
BELEIVING IN YOURSELF
LETTING GO OF YOUR PAST HURTS AND FORGIVING OTHERS
LOVING AND ACCEPTING YOURSELF UNCONDITIONALLY
PLANNING AND SETTING ATTAINABLE GOALS IN LIFE
VISUALIZING YOURSELF IN ACHIEVING AND SUCCEEDING IN LIFE
INTERNALISING POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS THAT HELP YOU BELIEVE IN
YOURSELF
11. Many factors can affect the development of an adolescent’s
self-esteem. For example, one’s genetic makeup, personality,
family, school and peers are all important elements.
Evaluations from parents, teachers, schoolmates and friends
can affect the ways how we perceive ourselves, which then
gradually build up our self-esteem.
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13. SELF ESTEEM HIGH OR LOW?
DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF?
ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH YOURSELF?
ARE YOU WILLING TO IMPROVE YOUR WEAKNESSES?
DO YOU THINK YOU ARE USELESS?
DO YOU THINK YOU ARE UNLIKEABLE?
DO YOU OFTEN THINK YOU ARE INFERIOR TO OTHERS?
DO YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS?
DO YOU REFUSE TO TRY DUE TO FEAR OF FAILURE?
THESE QUESTIONS HELP US TO EVALUATE SELF ESTEEEM.OUR
SELF ESTEEM WOULD BE HIGHER IF THE ANSWERS ARE ABOVE
TEND TO BE POSITIVE.
23. BUILD UP SOCIAL NETWORK AND MAKE
APPROPRIATE USE OF IT
24. Persons with higher self-esteem can recognize their own values
and strengths better; they will not be afraid to expose their
weaknesses nor be constantly mindful of others’ comments.
Instead, they will be firm towards their goals and more able to
accept challenges and overcome difficulties. They can also build
up better relationships with family members, teachers, and
friends and make appropriate use of their support.
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31. SOME FAMOUS PEOPLE HAVE A SENSE OF LOW SELF-WORTH, BUT THEY
DECIDED TO PUT IT DOWN.THEY CHOSE TO PREVAIL OVER THE NEGATIVE
EVENTS AND FEELINGS THEY HAD AND TRIUMPHED OVER THEIR
PROBLEMS AND SO ALSO YOU CAN.THEY HAD SUBSTANTIAL DIFFICULTIES
TO DEAL WITH, BUT THEY OVERCAME THESE PROBLEMS AND FLOURISHED.
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42. Edison patented his first invention, an electric vote-recording machine, at age 21.
Thomas’s goal was to produce a new invention every ten days, and during one four-
year period, he averaged a new patent every five days. His lab was so prolific that
he was nicknamed the “Wizard of Menlo Park.”
Edison’s laboratory invented such things as the phonograph, the motion picture,
and the incandescent light bulb. Eventually, his electric business became known as
the General Electric Company.