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GOSSIPPING
OBSEQUIOUS
…why?
Why do organizations look like this?
ACQUIESENCE
ASSENTING to authority
CONFORMITY
Politically Correct
Compromising
SYCOPHANTS
discomfort
FAILURE to ask
“dumb questions”
WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
Shut the
F#*K UP!
How should you & I behave
when I misbehave?
Because of
Uncertainty!
1. The OFFENDERS’S (bullying) Behavior
Absolute Language
DOGMA
Blaming Rhetorical Questions
Volume
Tone
Implicit Intimidation
Steamrolling
MISLEADING
Sulking
HumiliatingIgnoring
SARCASM
Coercion
Threatening
hypocrisy
When I’m angry no
one’s really objected to
my behavior before
SWEARING
nagging
ACCUSING
______ ________
SNOWFLAKE
Go with the flow
Let SLEEPING DOGS lie
Don’t ROCK the BOAT!
Don’t make WAVES!
Don’t upset the applecart
Suck it up BUTTERCUP
Have a THICK SKIN
Get OVER IT!
Don’t be a SNITCH!
2. The OFFENDED’S (bullied) Behavior
I’m too SENSITIVE!
When I’m offended
I’ve let it go, thinking it’s
just not worth it
STICKS & STONES..
Implicit Submission______ _______
Welcome to
Object123.com
A workplace behavior tool
“it’s how we behave”
Split disagreements into two…
1.We disagree
with the content
as usual
2.We OBJECT
(in real-time)
to HOW we disagree
(misbehavior)
…the offender’s
behavior
When one’s offended:
ESCALATE
…the offender’s
behavior
When one’s offended:
ESCALATE ESCALATE
…the offender’s
behavior
When one’s offended:
ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE
Sack him
Sack her
Sack him
Sack him
If still unresolved our peers decide...
*NOT HR or Management!
Sack him
Adding safety can be exhausting…
or…to remember….
Too much….
reading…. workshops….
“Want to teach??
Don’t bother…
Give them a tool…
which leads to new
ways of thinking”
Buckminster Fuller
Or use a tool to stop misbehavior!
What people are saying…
“
”
Very interesting point, Desmond.
Democratize organizational power as we do
political power, so (we) can vote people out
Timothy R. Clark Author of The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
Knowing how to behave,
when you or I misbehave…
and the sky’s the limit!
…means no more walking on eggshells

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Object123 - A Workplace Behavior Tool

  • 1. GOSSIPPING OBSEQUIOUS …why? Why do organizations look like this? ACQUIESENCE ASSENTING to authority CONFORMITY Politically Correct Compromising SYCOPHANTS discomfort FAILURE to ask “dumb questions” WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
  • 2. Shut the F#*K UP! How should you & I behave when I misbehave? Because of Uncertainty!
  • 3. 1. The OFFENDERS’S (bullying) Behavior Absolute Language DOGMA Blaming Rhetorical Questions Volume Tone Implicit Intimidation Steamrolling MISLEADING Sulking HumiliatingIgnoring SARCASM Coercion Threatening hypocrisy When I’m angry no one’s really objected to my behavior before SWEARING nagging ACCUSING ______ ________
  • 4. SNOWFLAKE Go with the flow Let SLEEPING DOGS lie Don’t ROCK the BOAT! Don’t make WAVES! Don’t upset the applecart Suck it up BUTTERCUP Have a THICK SKIN Get OVER IT! Don’t be a SNITCH! 2. The OFFENDED’S (bullied) Behavior I’m too SENSITIVE! When I’m offended I’ve let it go, thinking it’s just not worth it STICKS & STONES.. Implicit Submission______ _______
  • 5. Welcome to Object123.com A workplace behavior tool “it’s how we behave”
  • 6. Split disagreements into two… 1.We disagree with the content as usual 2.We OBJECT (in real-time) to HOW we disagree (misbehavior)
  • 8. …the offender’s behavior When one’s offended: ESCALATE ESCALATE
  • 9. …the offender’s behavior When one’s offended: ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE
  • 10. Sack him Sack her Sack him Sack him If still unresolved our peers decide... *NOT HR or Management! Sack him
  • 11. Adding safety can be exhausting… or…to remember…. Too much…. reading…. workshops….
  • 12. “Want to teach?? Don’t bother… Give them a tool… which leads to new ways of thinking” Buckminster Fuller Or use a tool to stop misbehavior!
  • 13. What people are saying… “ ” Very interesting point, Desmond. Democratize organizational power as we do political power, so (we) can vote people out Timothy R. Clark Author of The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
  • 14. Knowing how to behave, when you or I misbehave… and the sky’s the limit! …means no more walking on eggshells