GOSSIPPING
OBSEQUIOUS
…why?
Why do organizations look like this?
ACQUIESENCE
ASSENTING to authority
CONFORMITY
Politically Correct
Compromising
SYCOPHANTS
WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
discomfort
FAILURE to ask
“dumb questions”
__________________________
Power Abuse
FEAR…of being ABUSED
Shut UP!
FEAR…of being ABUSIVE
FEAR…of getting in TROUBLE
FEAR…of being FIRED
The offender’s favorite TOOLS…
Browbeating
I’m angry &
DOGMA
Blaming Rhetorical Questions
Volume
Tone
INTIMIDATION
Steamrolling
MISLEADING
Sulking
HumiliatingIgnoring
(silent treatment)
SARCASM
Coercion
Threatening
DEADLINES
I’m being offensive
swearing
nagging
_______________
SNOWFLAKE
Go with the flow
Let SLEEPING DOGS lie
Don’t ROCK the BOAT!
Don’t make WAVES!
Don’t upset the applecart
Suck it up BUTTERCUP
Have a THICK SKIN
Get OVER IT!
Don’t be a SNITCH!
The victim’s rationalization TOOLS….
I’m too SENSITIVE!
I’m offended
& I’m being passive
SUBMISSIVE_________________
STICKS & STONES..
During a dispute we agree to..
DISAGREE with
the
…in real-time
content.
OBJECT to the
behavior…
…but
(how we deliver the content)
When one feels offended simply…
…the offender
When one feels offended simply…
…the offender
When one feels offended simply…
…the offender
When one feels offended simply…
…the offender
If still unresolved our peers decide...NOT HR!
Sack him
Sack him
Sack him Sack him Sack him
Someday these tools will also
be mandatory.
Occupational Health & Safety
Mandatory tools in the workplace.
Psychological Health & Safety
Adding safety is exhausting…
or…to remember….
Too much….
reading…. workshops….
…or use simple tools to stop abuse
“want to teach…
don’t bother…
give them a tool…
which leads to new
ways of thinking”
Buckminster Fuller
What people are saying…
“
”
Very interesting point, Desmond.
Democratize organizational power as we do
political power, so (we) can vote people out
Timothy R. Clark Author of The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
Me:
”
“Amy:
“What is the opposite to psychological
safety?
You’ve said it quite nicely in your slide
share: Walking on eggshells
Amy Edmondson author of The Fearless Organization”
What people are saying…
When we stop power abuse
…the sky’s the limit
no more walking on eggshells

Object123 Simple tools to help stop power abuse

  • 1.
    GOSSIPPING OBSEQUIOUS …why? Why do organizationslook like this? ACQUIESENCE ASSENTING to authority CONFORMITY Politically Correct Compromising SYCOPHANTS WALKING ON EGGSHELLS discomfort FAILURE to ask “dumb questions” __________________________
  • 2.
    Power Abuse FEAR…of beingABUSED Shut UP! FEAR…of being ABUSIVE FEAR…of getting in TROUBLE FEAR…of being FIRED
  • 3.
    The offender’s favoriteTOOLS… Browbeating I’m angry & DOGMA Blaming Rhetorical Questions Volume Tone INTIMIDATION Steamrolling MISLEADING Sulking HumiliatingIgnoring (silent treatment) SARCASM Coercion Threatening DEADLINES I’m being offensive swearing nagging _______________
  • 4.
    SNOWFLAKE Go with theflow Let SLEEPING DOGS lie Don’t ROCK the BOAT! Don’t make WAVES! Don’t upset the applecart Suck it up BUTTERCUP Have a THICK SKIN Get OVER IT! Don’t be a SNITCH! The victim’s rationalization TOOLS…. I’m too SENSITIVE! I’m offended & I’m being passive SUBMISSIVE_________________ STICKS & STONES..
  • 6.
    During a disputewe agree to.. DISAGREE with the …in real-time content. OBJECT to the behavior… …but (how we deliver the content)
  • 7.
    When one feelsoffended simply… …the offender
  • 8.
    When one feelsoffended simply… …the offender
  • 9.
    When one feelsoffended simply… …the offender
  • 10.
    When one feelsoffended simply… …the offender
  • 11.
    If still unresolvedour peers decide...NOT HR! Sack him Sack him Sack him Sack him Sack him
  • 12.
    Someday these toolswill also be mandatory. Occupational Health & Safety Mandatory tools in the workplace. Psychological Health & Safety
  • 13.
    Adding safety isexhausting… or…to remember…. Too much…. reading…. workshops….
  • 14.
    …or use simpletools to stop abuse “want to teach… don’t bother… give them a tool… which leads to new ways of thinking” Buckminster Fuller
  • 15.
    What people aresaying… “ ” Very interesting point, Desmond. Democratize organizational power as we do political power, so (we) can vote people out Timothy R. Clark Author of The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
  • 16.
    Me: ” “Amy: “What is theopposite to psychological safety? You’ve said it quite nicely in your slide share: Walking on eggshells Amy Edmondson author of The Fearless Organization” What people are saying…
  • 17.
    When we stoppower abuse …the sky’s the limit no more walking on eggshells