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GOSSIPPING
OBSEQUIOUS
…why?
People in organizations behave like this?
ACQUIESENCE
ASSENTING to authority
CONFORMITY
Politically Correct
Compromising
SYCOPHANTS
discomfort
FAILURE to ask
“dumb questions”
WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
Shut the
F#*K UP!
Because of
Uncertainty!
…when one misbehaves?
How should we behave,
Two Types of Behavior:
Offender’s
(Bullying Behavior)
Offended’s
(Bullied Behavior)
We need to change BOTH behaviors…how?
Identify OFFENDERS’S Bulling MISBEHAVIOR
Absolute Language
DOGMA
Blaming Rhetorical Questions
Tone & Volume
GOSSIPING
Implicit Intimidation
Steamrolling
MISLEADING
Sulking
HumiliatingIgnoring
SARCASM
Coercion
Threatening
hypocrisy
When I’m angry no
one’s really objected to
my misbehavior before
SWEARING
nagging
ACCUSING
______ ________
SNOWFLAKE
Go with the flow
Let SLEEPING DOGS lie
Don’t ROCK the BOAT!
Don’t make WAVES!
Don’t upset the applecart
Suck it up BUTTERCUP
Have a THICK SKIN
Get OVER IT!
Don’t be a SNITCH!
Identify OFFENDED’S Bullied MISBEHAVIOR
I’m too SENSITIVE!
When I’m offended
I’ve let it go, thinking it’s
just not worth it
STICKS & STONES..
Implicit Submission______ _______
Object123.com
A workplace behavior tool
“it’s how we stop misbehavior”
Split disagreements in two…
*1.CONTENT
*2.MISBEHAVIOR(DISAGREE with content)
(OBJECT to misbehavior
in REAL-TIME)
…the offender’s
misbehavior
When one is offended:
ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE
Sack him
Sack him
Sack him
Sack him
If still unresolved our peers decide...
*NOT HR or Management!
Sack him
Final democratic process
Adding safety can be exhausting…
or…to remember….
Too much….
reading…. workshops….
“Want to teach??
Don’t bother…
Give them a tool…
which leads to new
ways of thinking”
Buckminster Fuller
…or use a tool to stop misbehavior!
What people are saying…
“
”
Very interesting point, Desmond.
Democratize organizational power as we do
political power, so (we) can vote people out
Timothy R. Clark Author of The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
Agreeing how to behave,
and the sky’s the limit!
…means no more walking on eggshells
when we misbehave…

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Object123 - A Workplace Behavior Tool

  • 1. GOSSIPPING OBSEQUIOUS …why? People in organizations behave like this? ACQUIESENCE ASSENTING to authority CONFORMITY Politically Correct Compromising SYCOPHANTS discomfort FAILURE to ask “dumb questions” WALKING ON EGGSHELLS
  • 2. Shut the F#*K UP! Because of Uncertainty! …when one misbehaves? How should we behave,
  • 3. Two Types of Behavior: Offender’s (Bullying Behavior) Offended’s (Bullied Behavior) We need to change BOTH behaviors…how?
  • 4. Identify OFFENDERS’S Bulling MISBEHAVIOR Absolute Language DOGMA Blaming Rhetorical Questions Tone & Volume GOSSIPING Implicit Intimidation Steamrolling MISLEADING Sulking HumiliatingIgnoring SARCASM Coercion Threatening hypocrisy When I’m angry no one’s really objected to my misbehavior before SWEARING nagging ACCUSING ______ ________
  • 5. SNOWFLAKE Go with the flow Let SLEEPING DOGS lie Don’t ROCK the BOAT! Don’t make WAVES! Don’t upset the applecart Suck it up BUTTERCUP Have a THICK SKIN Get OVER IT! Don’t be a SNITCH! Identify OFFENDED’S Bullied MISBEHAVIOR I’m too SENSITIVE! When I’m offended I’ve let it go, thinking it’s just not worth it STICKS & STONES.. Implicit Submission______ _______
  • 6. Object123.com A workplace behavior tool “it’s how we stop misbehavior”
  • 7. Split disagreements in two… *1.CONTENT *2.MISBEHAVIOR(DISAGREE with content) (OBJECT to misbehavior in REAL-TIME)
  • 8. …the offender’s misbehavior When one is offended: ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE
  • 9. Sack him Sack him Sack him Sack him If still unresolved our peers decide... *NOT HR or Management! Sack him Final democratic process
  • 10. Adding safety can be exhausting… or…to remember…. Too much…. reading…. workshops….
  • 11. “Want to teach?? Don’t bother… Give them a tool… which leads to new ways of thinking” Buckminster Fuller …or use a tool to stop misbehavior!
  • 12. What people are saying… “ ” Very interesting point, Desmond. Democratize organizational power as we do political power, so (we) can vote people out Timothy R. Clark Author of The 4 Stages of Psychological Safety
  • 13. Agreeing how to behave, and the sky’s the limit! …means no more walking on eggshells when we misbehave…