Poor listening styles include spacing out when someone is talking and ignoring them to focus on one's own thoughts, pretend listening by making comments without paying attention so the speaker feels unheard, and selective listening where one only pays attention to parts that interest them or chooses not to listen at all. Other poor styles are word listening where one focuses only on the words and not body language or true meaning, and self-centered listening where one sees everything only from their own point of view rather than understanding other perspectives.