The Unstoppable Me!
  Even you can create an
    Impossible Future!
           Robert Hargrove, 2010 Korea




Masterful Coaching
The human condition
      is often one of
   hopelessness and
          resignation




                  2
When we
feel there is
no hope, we
tend to give
up and say..

Why
bother?
                            3
Masterful Coaching © 2010
Yet….being human is about
unleashing the human spirit
  into action and keeping
        hope alive



        Masterful Coaching © 2010   4
Even at those
 moments
 when the
 situation looks
 difficult or
 even
 impossible


Masterful Coaching © 2010
I want to talk to you
    about creating an
IMPOSSIBLE FUTURE
 and changing your life
Impossible is not a fact…
  but an interpretation
Most everyday things were once
  thought of as “Impossible”
You create a Default Future by
looking at your circumstances
    and predicting that things
         are never going to be
                  any different.
You create an IMPOSSIBLE
FUTURE from yourself…
by daring to dream and
being unstoppable
in realizing it
There are many people who
have realized the Impossible…
which shows that…

“IT CAN BE DONE!”
Gandhi




Masterful Coaching © 2010
Mandela
          Masterful Coaching © 2010   13
Walesa




Masterful Coaching © 2010   14
Parks
Edison




         Masterful Coaching © 2010   16
Jobs


       Masterful Coaching © 2010   17
Tank Man
The ability to create
an Impossible Future is not
    reserved for the few
Even you can create an
impossible future, with…..
vision,
passion,
compassion,
intention,
imagination,
determination,
non-stop action
Seven Tips
to Help
You on the
Journey

      Masterful Coaching © 2010   21
Tip 1. Drive Out Resignation




     My Impossible Future is . . .
Start right now



Focus on the positive vs. negative


                                23
Stop indulging in
conversations where
you argue for your
limitations or talk
about how bad the
situation is




                      24
Ask yourself: if I don’t change my direction,
 will my Default Future be the one I want?




                  RELATIONSHIPS       FINANACIAL




  JOB/ BUSINESS



                                  RETIREMENT

            HEALTH & WELLBEING
Remember Confucius….

If you keep going in
the same direction,
you are likely to
wind up where
you are headed.


                       26
Envision An Impossible
Future
 Where is the pain in your life?
 What is your biggest frustration?
 What is your biggest hope?
 What is you big dream?
 What is your biggest concern?
Now articulate your Impossible
Future in one sentence:
My Impossible Future is…
Tip 2. Get Some Feedback
Ask 3 to 5 people:
 What are my unique
  talents and gifts?

 How can I leverage them
  to create an extraordinary future?

 What weaknesses do I have that could
  throw me back into a default future?
Other Questions
• What do you see as my possibilities?
• What do you see as my greatest strengths?
• Where might my strength become a weakness?
• What do you see as my biggest blindspot?
• What do you see as my next development steps?
Write down:
▪ 1 strength you will build on,
▪ 1 weakness you will work on
to help you to reach your
Impossible Future
Tip 3. The Unstoppable Me
Excuses Be Gone!
Excuses Be Gone!




    It’s impossible or just
          too difficult!
Excuses Be Gone!




     I don’t have the right
      education so I can’t
            change!
Excuses Be Gone!




       We can’t afford it!
Excuses Be Gone!




         I’m too busy!
Excuses Be Gone!




           No one will
            help me!
Excuses Be Gone!




      There’s too much
        competition!
Excuses Be Gone!




    That’s a crazy idea!
Excuses BE Gone!




         What will other
         people think?
Write down one
excuse that has
been stopping
you that you will let go of.
Tip 4. Build a Team of Talented
People to Help You
People will
join your team
if they see an
exciting goal or
problem they can
subordinate their ego to,
as well as a big opportunity for them
to learn, grow, make money
Write down on a piece of paper
 the kind of people you will
 need to realize your
 Impossible Future…
For example, managers,
scientists, engineers,
bankers, artists, architects,
HR people, students.

Next go out and recruit them
Tip 5. Gather Outside Information;
Keep Asking: “What’s missing from
this picture?”
You can’t realize an
Impossible Future
based on what you
already think and
know

Google, read, and talk
to people to gather
outside information to discover solutions
you never knew existed
Whenever you run into a big problem
or opportunity ask:
What’s missing from this picture?

This is the key
to coming up
with exciting,
breakthrough
solutions
Tip 6. Bypassing Elaborate
Planning and Preparations


Take Action!
With an Impossible
 Future there is often
no simple or obvious
                  plan
You discover the path
       forward in the
    process of taking
   some action—any
               action
Look at your Impossible Future…
What’s missing that, if provided, can
make a difference?
Now design a small, 90-day CATALYTIC
BREAKTHROUGH PROJECT that will take
you to a different place
Catalytic
Breakthrough
Project
Existing readiness
Completed in 4 to 12 weeks
High leverage
Doable
Enjoyable
Takes you to another place
Catalytic Breakthrough Project Example



  If you want to start a new business…

      Build a new “micro-website”
      that will develop your brand,
      help define your business,
      and give you an address
Catalytic Breakthrough Project Example


 If you want to improve your marriage…

 Agree to go to
 a counselor
 every ten days
 for 90-days
Tip 7. Get a Coach to Help
You to Keep on Track
A COACH
Keeps the goal in
front of you


Picks you up when
your spirits are
down


Doesn’t let anything
fall through the
cracks
Who can be a
coach for
you?
In closing…

   Success isn't a result of
  spontaneous combustion.
  You must set yourself on
  fire. ~Arnold H. Glasow
Robert Hargrove
Masterful Coaching
+1 617-953-6230
www.MasterfulCoaching.com
www.RobertHargrove.com
www.MyFirst100Days.net




          Masterful Coaching © 2010 all rights reserved

Unstoppable Me! Even You Can Create an Impossible Future

  • 1.
    The Unstoppable Me! Even you can create an Impossible Future! Robert Hargrove, 2010 Korea Masterful Coaching
  • 2.
    The human condition is often one of hopelessness and resignation 2
  • 3.
    When we feel thereis no hope, we tend to give up and say.. Why bother? 3 Masterful Coaching © 2010
  • 4.
    Yet….being human isabout unleashing the human spirit into action and keeping hope alive Masterful Coaching © 2010 4
  • 5.
    Even at those moments when the situation looks difficult or even impossible Masterful Coaching © 2010
  • 6.
    I want totalk to you about creating an IMPOSSIBLE FUTURE and changing your life
  • 7.
    Impossible is nota fact… but an interpretation
  • 8.
    Most everyday thingswere once thought of as “Impossible”
  • 9.
    You create aDefault Future by looking at your circumstances and predicting that things are never going to be any different.
  • 10.
    You create anIMPOSSIBLE FUTURE from yourself… by daring to dream and being unstoppable in realizing it
  • 11.
    There are manypeople who have realized the Impossible… which shows that… “IT CAN BE DONE!”
  • 12.
  • 13.
    Mandela Masterful Coaching © 2010 13
  • 14.
  • 15.
  • 16.
    Edison Masterful Coaching © 2010 16
  • 17.
    Jobs Masterful Coaching © 2010 17
  • 18.
  • 19.
    The ability tocreate an Impossible Future is not reserved for the few
  • 20.
    Even you cancreate an impossible future, with….. vision, passion, compassion, intention, imagination, determination, non-stop action
  • 21.
    Seven Tips to Help Youon the Journey Masterful Coaching © 2010 21
  • 22.
    Tip 1. DriveOut Resignation My Impossible Future is . . .
  • 23.
    Start right now Focuson the positive vs. negative 23
  • 24.
    Stop indulging in conversationswhere you argue for your limitations or talk about how bad the situation is 24
  • 25.
    Ask yourself: ifI don’t change my direction, will my Default Future be the one I want? RELATIONSHIPS FINANACIAL JOB/ BUSINESS RETIREMENT HEALTH & WELLBEING
  • 26.
    Remember Confucius…. If youkeep going in the same direction, you are likely to wind up where you are headed. 26
  • 27.
    Envision An Impossible Future Where is the pain in your life?  What is your biggest frustration?  What is your biggest hope?  What is you big dream?  What is your biggest concern?
  • 28.
    Now articulate yourImpossible Future in one sentence: My Impossible Future is…
  • 29.
    Tip 2. GetSome Feedback
  • 30.
    Ask 3 to5 people:  What are my unique talents and gifts?  How can I leverage them to create an extraordinary future?  What weaknesses do I have that could throw me back into a default future?
  • 31.
    Other Questions • Whatdo you see as my possibilities? • What do you see as my greatest strengths? • Where might my strength become a weakness? • What do you see as my biggest blindspot? • What do you see as my next development steps?
  • 32.
    Write down: ▪ 1strength you will build on, ▪ 1 weakness you will work on to help you to reach your Impossible Future
  • 33.
    Tip 3. TheUnstoppable Me Excuses Be Gone!
  • 34.
    Excuses Be Gone! It’s impossible or just too difficult!
  • 35.
    Excuses Be Gone! I don’t have the right education so I can’t change!
  • 36.
    Excuses Be Gone! We can’t afford it!
  • 37.
    Excuses Be Gone! I’m too busy!
  • 38.
    Excuses Be Gone! No one will help me!
  • 39.
    Excuses Be Gone! There’s too much competition!
  • 40.
    Excuses Be Gone! That’s a crazy idea!
  • 41.
    Excuses BE Gone! What will other people think?
  • 42.
    Write down one excusethat has been stopping you that you will let go of.
  • 43.
    Tip 4. Builda Team of Talented People to Help You
  • 44.
    People will join yourteam if they see an exciting goal or problem they can subordinate their ego to, as well as a big opportunity for them to learn, grow, make money
  • 45.
    Write down ona piece of paper the kind of people you will need to realize your Impossible Future… For example, managers, scientists, engineers, bankers, artists, architects, HR people, students. Next go out and recruit them
  • 46.
    Tip 5. GatherOutside Information; Keep Asking: “What’s missing from this picture?”
  • 47.
    You can’t realizean Impossible Future based on what you already think and know Google, read, and talk to people to gather outside information to discover solutions you never knew existed
  • 48.
    Whenever you runinto a big problem or opportunity ask: What’s missing from this picture? This is the key to coming up with exciting, breakthrough solutions
  • 49.
    Tip 6. BypassingElaborate Planning and Preparations Take Action!
  • 50.
    With an Impossible Future there is often no simple or obvious plan You discover the path forward in the process of taking some action—any action
  • 51.
    Look at yourImpossible Future… What’s missing that, if provided, can make a difference? Now design a small, 90-day CATALYTIC BREAKTHROUGH PROJECT that will take you to a different place
  • 52.
    Catalytic Breakthrough Project Existing readiness Completed in4 to 12 weeks High leverage Doable Enjoyable Takes you to another place
  • 53.
    Catalytic Breakthrough ProjectExample If you want to start a new business… Build a new “micro-website” that will develop your brand, help define your business, and give you an address
  • 54.
    Catalytic Breakthrough ProjectExample If you want to improve your marriage… Agree to go to a counselor every ten days for 90-days
  • 55.
    Tip 7. Geta Coach to Help You to Keep on Track
  • 56.
    A COACH Keeps thegoal in front of you Picks you up when your spirits are down Doesn’t let anything fall through the cracks
  • 57.
    Who can bea coach for you?
  • 58.
    In closing… Success isn't a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire. ~Arnold H. Glasow
  • 59.
    Robert Hargrove Masterful Coaching +1617-953-6230 www.MasterfulCoaching.com www.RobertHargrove.com www.MyFirst100Days.net Masterful Coaching © 2010 all rights reserved