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Most people know there's inner game,
and outer game.
Inner game is based on your beliefs,
what you are capable of, and how you
feel about yourself with respect to the
rest of the world.
Outer game is your actual skills.
This can, of course, apply to almost
any kind of skill.
Martial arts, music, you name it.
You can play the piano beautifully in
your own home, for example, but
collapse into a pile of mush in front of
others.
The good news is about your social
skills is that you can build up both
inner game and outer game at the
same time.
Now, most guys don't consider game
as something you can "practice" and
"improve" like any other skill.
If you were a martial artist, for
example, you wouldn't ONLY practice
whenever you had a match.
That would be silly.
Instead, when you consider all the
time actually performing any kind of
martial arts, 99% is training, and only
1% of it is in the actual ring in a
competition.
What would happen if you practiced
your social skills the same way?
Meaning that most of the time, you
practiced, instead of doing it "for real."
Now, many guys say it's practice, but
that's only after they get blown out
and don't get what they want.
But what happens when you consider
it practice before the interaction
begins?
First, you'd have to decide exactly
what you're practicing.
Eye contact, conversations, number
closing, whatever.
Once you've got that established, you
ONLY practice THAT. Nothing else.
This is something many guys have a
hard time getting.
As soon as they find themselves in a
conversation, they go as far as they
can until THEY get blown out, or THEY
blow the other person out.
But what happens if you ONLY
practiced up to the level of comfort,
and nothing more?
Until you are absolutely and
completely confident starting
conversations, and can do so without a
second thought, ONLY practice starting
conversations.
As soon as you start one, exit
(politely), and look for the next one.
You may find that this skyrockets your
social skills and game in a VERY short
period of time.
Since you'll be building up your
experience of positive experiences,
that ENDED on a positive note, rather
than you or them getting blown out,
your confidence would soar.
Having a step by step plan can help.
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How To Practice Social Skills

  • 1.
  • 2. Most people know there's inner game, and outer game.
  • 3. Inner game is based on your beliefs, what you are capable of, and how you feel about yourself with respect to the rest of the world.
  • 4. Outer game is your actual skills.
  • 5. This can, of course, apply to almost any kind of skill.
  • 6. Martial arts, music, you name it.
  • 7. You can play the piano beautifully in your own home, for example, but collapse into a pile of mush in front of others.
  • 8. The good news is about your social skills is that you can build up both inner game and outer game at the same time.
  • 9. Now, most guys don't consider game as something you can "practice" and "improve" like any other skill.
  • 10. If you were a martial artist, for example, you wouldn't ONLY practice whenever you had a match.
  • 11. That would be silly.
  • 12. Instead, when you consider all the time actually performing any kind of martial arts, 99% is training, and only 1% of it is in the actual ring in a competition.
  • 13. What would happen if you practiced your social skills the same way?
  • 14. Meaning that most of the time, you practiced, instead of doing it "for real."
  • 15. Now, many guys say it's practice, but that's only after they get blown out and don't get what they want.
  • 16. But what happens when you consider it practice before the interaction begins?
  • 17. First, you'd have to decide exactly what you're practicing.
  • 18. Eye contact, conversations, number closing, whatever.
  • 19. Once you've got that established, you ONLY practice THAT. Nothing else.
  • 20. This is something many guys have a hard time getting.
  • 21. As soon as they find themselves in a conversation, they go as far as they can until THEY get blown out, or THEY blow the other person out.
  • 22. But what happens if you ONLY practiced up to the level of comfort, and nothing more?
  • 23. Until you are absolutely and completely confident starting conversations, and can do so without a second thought, ONLY practice starting conversations.
  • 24. As soon as you start one, exit (politely), and look for the next one.
  • 25. You may find that this skyrockets your social skills and game in a VERY short period of time.
  • 26. Since you'll be building up your experience of positive experiences, that ENDED on a positive note, rather than you or them getting blown out, your confidence would soar.
  • 27. Having a step by step plan can help.