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2. One way to help understand male-
female relationships is to imagine we
are still cave people.

3. Humans evolved over a long, long
time, and the time we've been living in
cities is very, very short.

4. We've been in our current form, more
or less, for about 100K years.

5. Sure, there are all kinds of different
theories as to the specifics, but the
bottom line is that in the big picture,
we've been cave people a lot longer
than we've been city living folks.

6. Which means that all of our instincts,
specifically the ones that drive male-
female attraction, and the ones that
serve as the glue for male-female
relationships, have been with us a
long, long time.

7. Before technology, before electricity,
before running water.

8. Before money was invented.

9. So the same things that got guys and
girls interested in each other back
then, and kept them together, still
holds true today.

10. It may not seem like it with so much
distractions, but it's still there.

11. One reason humans did so well was
we formed pair-bonds that generally
lasted a lifetime.

12. Sure there were exceptions, but those
only prove the rule.

13. And the reason these pair bonds
worked so well was because there was
a sexual division of labor.

14. Meaning guys did one thing, and girls
did something else. Bottom line was
the guys hunted, and girls gathered.

15. Which meant we could live in a lot
different environments, since both
hunting AND gathering got a lot of
different types of food.

16. Think about this. Every day, the guys
would go hunting.

17. And the girls would gather. Both
working to support the family.

18. The idea of a "stay at home mom" is
not only an aberration in recent
history, due to some extreme
productivity in economics, but it's not
part of our evolutionary makeup.

19. Why is this important?

20. Because when you choose a girl for a
relationship, looking pretty is just the
start.

21. You've got to be able to trust her, to
depend on her, and make sure she's
got your back, and you've got hers.

22. Meaning when it comes to building
your life, you've both got to be on the
same page.

23. Keeping this in mind can help with the
initial approach.

24. You've got to screen pretty carefully, as
many girls simply won't match your
criteria.

25. This, of course, assumes you've got
some life plans aside from playing
video games and checking Facebook.

26. Get a plan, and start looking for a girl
to help you get it.

27. Is it really that simple?

28. It's been working for humans for
thousands of years, why not you?
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