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“1,2,3…”

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“What will it take to!
get you in?”
talk… …talk

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Same & Different
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Perfection Game
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“On a scale of 1 to 10,
I would give it an X”
“What I liked about it was…”
“To be a 10, it would…”
Same & Different
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