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Open Ended Questions
Give her the chance to open up to you
Establish genuine connection with women
•Most men will ask women the same
questions
• Boring questions
• Old questions
• Over-used questions
•Thinking she will be impressed
Stop using predictable over-used questions
•Where do you live?
•Where do you work?
•Do you like it?
•Where did you graduate?
…and so on
What is wrong with these questions?
•Safe questions
•Devoid of emotion
•No focus on what is unique about her
•Missing great conversation opportunities
Ask women better questions!
• Questions that help her open up
• Questions that make her enthusiastic
• Questions that need more than a simple Yes/No answer
• Questions that are really interesting
• Questions that are intriguing
Can you be the guy who asks better questions?
Head start with open ended questions
• 1. What do you wish your parents told you about
the real world?
• 2. Imagine you find Aladdin's magic lamp. The
genie inside wants to grant you 3 wishes. What do
you wish for?
Spontaneous questions
•They allow you to have spontaneous
conversations
•Avoid scripted or pre-planned
conversations
•Women appreciate someone who is
present, in the moment
Start using better questions everyday
• Incorporate better questions in your
conversations
• Just try them out
• Start with colleagues, friends
• Get used to asking open-ended questions
• Improve your social skills!
GOOD LUCK!

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Dating Advice For Nice Men: Asking Better Questions

  • 1. Open Ended Questions Give her the chance to open up to you
  • 2. Establish genuine connection with women •Most men will ask women the same questions • Boring questions • Old questions • Over-used questions •Thinking she will be impressed
  • 3. Stop using predictable over-used questions •Where do you live? •Where do you work? •Do you like it? •Where did you graduate? …and so on
  • 4. What is wrong with these questions? •Safe questions •Devoid of emotion •No focus on what is unique about her •Missing great conversation opportunities
  • 5. Ask women better questions! • Questions that help her open up • Questions that make her enthusiastic • Questions that need more than a simple Yes/No answer • Questions that are really interesting • Questions that are intriguing Can you be the guy who asks better questions?
  • 6. Head start with open ended questions • 1. What do you wish your parents told you about the real world? • 2. Imagine you find Aladdin's magic lamp. The genie inside wants to grant you 3 wishes. What do you wish for?
  • 7. Spontaneous questions •They allow you to have spontaneous conversations •Avoid scripted or pre-planned conversations •Women appreciate someone who is present, in the moment
  • 8. Start using better questions everyday • Incorporate better questions in your conversations • Just try them out • Start with colleagues, friends • Get used to asking open-ended questions • Improve your social skills! GOOD LUCK!