- Choose a quiet location that is neutral and familiar for a first date to allow easy communication and connection. Listen actively to your date and share conversation equally. - Focus on the present and future rather than past relationships. Be positive, confident and show interest in your date without becoming too serious too quickly. - Be honest about your feelings and interests. If the date is not going well, communicate this respectfully rather than wasting time. Treat your date with the same respect you wish to receive.

1. GAY DATING TIPS

2. • Location, location, location! Choosing a meeting place is
extremely important. Agree to meet at a place that is
neutral, not too far from your dwellings and be familiar
with the area.
• You would want to also choose a place that is not too
noisy or rowdy, more like a quiet bar where you can both
communicate and be heard effectively.

3. • Concentrate my dear! Dating can always be extremely
tense and nerve racking, especially if you are the quiet or
shy type.
• One point to remember is to listen carefully to what your
date has to say, this will enable you to relate and connect
more easily.
• A little bit of give and take: Share the conversation, ask as
many questions as you like, feel free to talk about
yourself, but also be courteous and listen to what the
other person has to say.

4. • What was in the past is better left in the past: Do not dwell
in the past and absolutely refrain from mentioning your
past relationships and negative experiences.
• Remember, every first date is a new beginning and should
be treated like one. So, feel confident and be optimistic,
stick to the present and the future. Show your date that
his time is now and that you have no left over baggage.

5. • Radiate: Show your inner glow and be positive. There is
nothing like a positive and optimistic person.
• It shows a good level of confidence, which is definitely
attractive in many people's eyes. Bury your negative
thoughts and think positive.
• Take your time, give yourself and the other person time to
breath and discover how you truly feel about each other. It
is not advisable to become too serious too quickly at an
early stage in the dating process. But if it comes natural,
take it to the next level: delicately (love making) or kinky
(ala gay Asian spanking).

6. • Honesty shall set you free: There is no point in beating
around the bush. Be true to yourself and your feelings
towards this person. If you feel you are not getting the
attention you deserve, let yourself be heard.
• If your interest is not reciprocated, direct your attention on
somebody that will appreciated it. Like wise, if you grow
dissatisfied or lose interest in the person, let it be known.

7. • R.E.S.P.E.C.T: One of the most important gay dating tips
is to treat the other person with the same level of respect
as you feel you deserve.
• There is no point in wasting time and playing games,
return their phone calls and speak to them.
• If you are not interested, have the decency of letting the
person know rather than taking them on a roller coaster
ride of uncertainty.