1. Young people who start to work feel
insecure about what they do and also
they don’t feel accepted
2. 1. What are the most obvious solutions
for this problem? (even things that you
know already exist)
• Go to a psychologist
• Read self-help books
• Have a conversation with other people who have felt the same
• Ask your employers what they need from you
• Talk with university teachers
• Talk with university classmates
• Talk with your parents
3. 2. What can you add, remove or modify
from those initial solutions?
• Pray to God
• Enter in a group of therapy.
• Go to a psychiatrist.
• Be always punctual so nobody will hate you for being unpunctual.
• Take a course of oratory
• Try to make a schedule for all the day so there will be no time to be depressed
and you’ll be better organized
• Ask for coaching
• Be gentile and accept the comments
• Investigate everyday about the enterprise and their clients.
4. 2. What can you add, remove or modify
from those initial solutions?
• Make a list of the names of staff, and characterize them according to their
personalities, so then you can know how to treat with them.
• Investigate about your boss and your mates, their professional profiles.
• Investigate about the rival enterprises
• Act like you have confidence in yourself, then they will trust in you, and
that will give you the real confidence.
• Annotate every action you think you are doing wrong and practice it after
work, so then you will improve it.
• Interact with your other mates; even if you think that what you said was
not important you’ll be improving.
• Annotate your decisions and try to keep them until the final, that will give
you security.
5. 3. How would a 5-year-old child solve
the problem?
• Just do it and then we will see.
• Do it and then if it doesn’t work just say it’s not my fault.
• Do it and if it doesn’t work just say I wasn’t.
• Do it and if it doesn’t work just say I´m learning, the next
time I will do better.
• Say I don’t know how to do that, please teach me
• Make a joke to break the tension
• Smile and ask for help
6. 4. How would you solve the problem if
you had an unlimited budget?
• After working go to different institutes to satisfy your need of knowledge.
• Continue studying until you find an area where you feel more security
and start your own business.
• Consult a group of the most renowned psychologist, psychiatrist, leaders
and educators how can you solve the insecurity of start working.
• Pay to practice calmly in an enterprise.
• Pay if you do something wrong.
7. 5. How would you solve the
problem without spending any money?
• Search in the internet how can you be emotionally more secure in the job.
• Search in the internet about the items of your profession that you don’t know
very well.
• Search in the library about the items of your profession that you don’t know
very well.
• Read the newspaper daily so then you can have an interesting conversation
with your work partners to get known better and then share work
information.
• Go to different free classes in the university to cover your blanks.
8. 6. How would you solve this problem if
you had control over the laws of nature
(think invisibility, teleportation, etc.)?
• Travell in the time to go back to your first days in school and make better use
of your time to investigate the profile that the enterprises needs and cover
all the issues.
• Be invisible to observe nearly your employers to know what are their needs.
• Be invisible to observe your mates to know how to empathize with them.
• Read the mind of your employers to know what are they thinking about your
performance and what are their needs.
• Read the mind of your mates to know how to empathize with them.
9. Ask your employers what they need
from you
Much time is saved when you ask when
you should.
10. Say I don’t know how to do that, please teach
me.
This will be a disruptive idea for people who
don’t feel confidence and have problems to
interact with their mates, since they are
accepting that they don’t know everything and
need help. This would be a big step for them.
11. After working, go to different institutes to satisfy your
need of knowledge every time you don’t feel satisfied
with them, and when you feel more secure put your own
bussiness.
It will be wonderful that after overcome all the obstacles
that hindered professional development, put a business
where one can choose how to manage it.