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Creating Space -
The Fine Art of Leadership, Management & Life
THOMAS L. WILLIS, PCAM
ASSOCIATION BRIDGE, LLC
VIRGINIA LEADERSHIP RETREAT 2022
Well that’s
different…
2 0 X X C o n f e r e n c e p r e s e n t a t i o n 2
2 0 X X C o n f e r e n c e p r e s e n t a t i o n 3
Word of the Day: metanoia
NOUN me-tə-ˈnȯi-ə
2 0 X X 4
Here we go again
No.
1 Context
No.
2 Trust
No.
3 Culture
2 0 X X C O N F E R E N C E P R E S E N T A T I O N 5
Here we go again
No.
4 Fundamentals
No.
5 Communications
No.
6 Creating Space!
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 6
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N I A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 7
Background
Story #1 – The
morphing of a
Concept:
Creating
Space
(Not Outer) Space!
Create it
8
Grow it
(or) Shrink it
CONTEXT
The bigger your picture
The broader your context
The clearer & wiser your choices
The wider your space for success
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 9
Space Creation
Superpower: Teach!
WHY
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 10
Principle vs. ego
It’s a time investment
Lables suck. But
you don’t have to.
Created space for metanoia
over 200 times and still
counting…
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 11
Meet Mr. Daryl Davis
Create a Space
for Elevation
2 0 V I R G I N I A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 12
DECISION
HEIRARCHY
Values
Vision
Mission
Strategy
Tactics
CULTURE
Three Types
Meet people where they are
Accidental Cognitive Dissonance
Culture = Values + Behavior (Simon Sinek)
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 13
TRUST
At the core of everyting
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 14
Creating space for trust
• Show your
work.
• Don’t wing it.
• Again, let the
data drive the
discussion.
2 0 X X C o n f e r e n c e p r e s e n t a t i o n 15
• Listen to the
wisdom or Mr.
Will Rogers.
• Be humble.
• Listen!
Really.
• Meet them
where THEY
are.
• Again –
elevate to
principle.
COMMUNICATIONS
“The single biggest problem in communication is the
illusion that it has taken place”
George Bernard Shaw
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 16
Creating space with our
communication
No.
1
Ask more
questions!
No.
2
You are the mean
nun more than you
realize
No.
3
Check your
language gage
2 0 X X C O N F E R E N C E P R E S E N T A T I O N 17
Metanoia is really cool
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N I A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 18
Thank you for coming along
for the ride.
Go forth and create some space!
2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 19

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Creating Space - VLR 2022.pptx

  • 1. Creating Space - The Fine Art of Leadership, Management & Life THOMAS L. WILLIS, PCAM ASSOCIATION BRIDGE, LLC VIRGINIA LEADERSHIP RETREAT 2022
  • 2. Well that’s different… 2 0 X X C o n f e r e n c e p r e s e n t a t i o n 2
  • 3. 2 0 X X C o n f e r e n c e p r e s e n t a t i o n 3
  • 4. Word of the Day: metanoia NOUN me-tə-ˈnȯi-ə 2 0 X X 4
  • 5. Here we go again No. 1 Context No. 2 Trust No. 3 Culture 2 0 X X C O N F E R E N C E P R E S E N T A T I O N 5
  • 6. Here we go again No. 4 Fundamentals No. 5 Communications No. 6 Creating Space! 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 6
  • 7. 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N I A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 7 Background Story #1 – The morphing of a Concept: Creating Space
  • 8. (Not Outer) Space! Create it 8 Grow it (or) Shrink it
  • 9. CONTEXT The bigger your picture The broader your context The clearer & wiser your choices The wider your space for success 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 9
  • 10. Space Creation Superpower: Teach! WHY 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 10 Principle vs. ego It’s a time investment
  • 11. Lables suck. But you don’t have to. Created space for metanoia over 200 times and still counting… 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 11 Meet Mr. Daryl Davis
  • 12. Create a Space for Elevation 2 0 V I R G I N I A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 12 DECISION HEIRARCHY Values Vision Mission Strategy Tactics
  • 13. CULTURE Three Types Meet people where they are Accidental Cognitive Dissonance Culture = Values + Behavior (Simon Sinek) 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 13
  • 14. TRUST At the core of everyting 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 14
  • 15. Creating space for trust • Show your work. • Don’t wing it. • Again, let the data drive the discussion. 2 0 X X C o n f e r e n c e p r e s e n t a t i o n 15 • Listen to the wisdom or Mr. Will Rogers. • Be humble. • Listen! Really. • Meet them where THEY are. • Again – elevate to principle.
  • 16. COMMUNICATIONS “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place” George Bernard Shaw 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 16
  • 17. Creating space with our communication No. 1 Ask more questions! No. 2 You are the mean nun more than you realize No. 3 Check your language gage 2 0 X X C O N F E R E N C E P R E S E N T A T I O N 17
  • 18. Metanoia is really cool 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N I A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 18
  • 19. Thank you for coming along for the ride. Go forth and create some space! 2 0 2 2 V I R G I N A L E A D E R S H I P R E T R E A T 19