The document discusses different roles or styles in conversation: the "power holder" who dominates conversation versus the "lesser being" who goes along with the flow. It advocates for an "enlightened conversationalist" approach that combines aspects of both by choosing responses appropriate to the situation, listening flexibly to others, and maintaining integrity. Key attributes of the enlightened conversationalist include believing conversation is a meaningful exchange that leads to understanding, well-being, and learning; being both strong in expressing oneself and open to others; and engaging in conversation for mutual benefit.