Empathic listening involves listening with the intent to understand how the speaker feels in addition to their ideas. It is an effective technique for emotional situations or conflicts as it allows the speaker to share feelings without judgment. To listen empathetically, reflect back the emotions and meaning perceived without questioning, judging or advising the speaker. The goal is to understand the other person's perspective.

1. Empathic Listening “ People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

2. What is Empathetic Listening? Empathic listening is when one listens with the intent to understand how the speaker feels in addition to understanding his or her ideas Showing empathy involves identifying with a person’s emotions and situation; even if not in agreement with them

3. What are the Benefits of Empathetic Listening? Empathic listening is typically an effective technique to use in emotional situations, problem resolution , or if there is a conflict which requires attention. The goal is to enable the listener to share emotions free from judgment or criticism

4. How do you Listen Empathetically? Ways to listen empathetically “ You feel…” “ It seems like…” “ As I understand it, you sound…” “ It appears as if…” “ If I hear you correctly, you’d like…”

5. Steps for Empathic Listening 1. Listen carefully to the speaker’s messages, both verbal and nonverbal 2. Display an open, caring posture 3. Consider the speaker’s emotional state 4. Calmly reflect back to what you perceive the speaker’s feelings and meaning to be

6. Behaviors to Avoid Questioning or Probing Judging Criticizing Lecturing Advising Interrupting Giving autobiographical responses (e.g. “when I was on that team…”)

7. Empathic Listening Tips Be interested in the speaker Have good eye contact and body language Minimize distractions Invite the speaker to expand on his or her thoughts Respond in a tone that is appropriate for the situation

8. Points to Remember Empathic listening is about the speaker, not the listener It is not necessary to use empathic listening during an entire conversation; it is primarily a way to understand another person’s point of view

12. No matter who you are, where you live, or what your religion – when we truly need to be heard we speak to the greatest “ empathetic listener” known to mankind…