Instructed on: 2-Dec-2011 | Session: #03




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                                                                                 By: Sherif shawki
                                                                                   Doaa saber

                                                                                                                                                                   Topic Code: SFK-03-2011




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Communication skills
    By:Sherif shawki
      Doaa saber
Agenda
1. Communication cycle
2. Types of communication
3. How to win friends and influence
   people
4. Dos & donts
5. Active listening
6. Communication barriers
7. What is negotiation
8. Negotiation behaviour
9. BATNA/win-win
Communication cycle
Types of communication


Verbal7%

Vocal 38%

Visual55%
How to win friends & influence
             people

• 3 fundamental teqniches in handling people
• 6 ways to make people like you
Communication cycle

3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
 1. Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
How to win friends & influence
              people
3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
 2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
How to win friends & influence
              people
3 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
 3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
How to win friends & influence
               people
6 ways to make people like you
   1. be a good listener.
How to win friends & influence
               people
6 ways to make people like you
   2. Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
How to win friends & influence
               people
6 ways to make people like you
   3. Follow up afterwards
How to win friends & influence
               people
6 ways to make people like you
   4. Remember names.
How to win friends & influence
               people
6 ways to make people like you
   5. Remember birthdays
How to win friends & influence
               people
6 ways to make people like you
   6. be yourself.
Dos & Donts

•   Listen with opened arms and legs and body forward
•   Keep eye contact.
•   Ensure the agreement.
•   Use terms like yes and certainly.
•   Rephrase
Dos & Donts

•   Interrupt, try to finish the sentence for the sender.
•   Smoke, bite nails, or chew pens.
•   Tap finger or feet.
•   Openly disagree like (no).
•   Say, yes but …
Game
Active listening
Active listening


• Focus on what they are saying.
Active listening


• Show intrest
Active listening


• Take notes.
Active listening


• Ask questions.
Communication barriers


1. Psychological barriers
2. Language barriers
3. Individual linguistic ability
4. Physical barriers
5. Emotional barriers
Communication barriers


1. Psychological Barriers
Communication barriers


2.language barrier
Communication barriers


3. Individual linguistic ability
Communication barriers


4. Physical barriers
Communication barriers


5. Emotional barriers
What’s negotiation?!




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Negotiation Behavior

Gavin Kennedy (The New Negotiating
Edge) describes 3 types of behaviour that
we can display and encounter when in a
negotiating situation




    RED         Blue             Purple
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RED Behavior
•   Manipulation
•   Aggressive
•   Intimidation
•   Exploitation
•   Always seeking the best for you
•   No concern for the person you are
    negotiating with

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BLUE Behavior
•   Win-win approach
•   Cooperation
•   Trusting
•   Pacifying
•   Relational
•   Giving



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PURPLE Behavior
• Give me some of what I want (red)
• I’ll give you some of what you want
  (blue)
• Deal with people as
they are not how you think they are
• Good intentions
• Two way exchange
• Open

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Negotiation Approaches
              BATNA
Best
Alternative
To
a
Negotiated
Agreement
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BATNA cont
• BATNAs tell you when to accept and
  when to reject an agreement
   – When a proposal is better to your
     BATNA, ACCEPT IT.
   – When a proposal is worse than your
     BATNA, REJECT IT.



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Win-Win Negotiation




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Game




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Summary
Communication Cycle
Types of Communication
How to Win Friends and Influence
 People
Dos & Don’ts
Active Listening
Communication Barriers
 What is negotiation
Negotiation behaviour
BATNA/win-win
Questions
Thank you

Communication-Negotiation skills

Editor's Notes

  • #31 Negotiation is getting what u want from the others, by interactive communication designed to reach an agreement.Confer with others to reach a compromise or agreement.‘The process by which we search for the terms to obtain what we want from somebody who wants something from us’Gavin Kennedy
  • #37 Develop your BATNA, and consider their BATNA
  • #38 Lack of trust leads to win-lose or lose-lose results.Win-win leads to the effective negotiation.