BODY LANGUAGE III
Dr.V. Veera Balaji Kumar

Soft skills Trainer
Cygmax institute of management studies
people who are interested
in what you are saying
• maintain eye contact more than 60% of the
time
• heads are inclined forward
• are nodding their heads
• feet are pointing towards you
Hands on their chest
Open hands
I don’t have any clue or I don’t know
If people are more receptive in
accepting your ideas
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Their hands are flat on the table.
Their palms are open.
Their heads are inclined forward.
They are nodding their heads.
Their legs are spaced out from each other.
They smile frequently.
Their hands are open. This also indicates genuineness.
They place their hands in their chest. This signifies
openness and conveys sincerity, honesty, or
dedication.
• However, a woman putting her hands in her breast is a
defensive position and may indicate that she is
What was that again ?
Indications that they are thinking
• stroking their chin - assessing the
advantages and disadvantages of the
proposal/idea
• take their glasses off, after which they may
either (1) clean them, or (2) put the tip of the
frame in their mouth
• pinching the bridge of the nose most likely
with eyes closed
Indications that they are thinking
• put a palm below the chin, index finger
pointed and extended along the cheek, while
other fingers placed beneath the mouth criticizing or antagonizing
• walk with the head down and hands behind
the back
palm below the chin, index finger pointed and
extended along the cheek
Indications that they are
defensive/hiding something
• They walk with their
hands in their pockets.
• They cross their arms.
• They hide their hands
any way they can
Indications Of Boredom
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Head supported by the palm, often accompanied by drooping eyes.
They show inattentiveness by staring at a blank space (eyes not
blinking) or by looking around frequently.
They are pulling their ears. This may also signify that they want to
interrupt while another person is talking.
They are clicking a pen non-stop.
They are tapping their hands or feet.
They yawn incessantly.
Their feet or other body parts are pointing to the exit, as if they are very
eager to leave.
They move restlessly in their seats. This could also mean that they are
not cozy or at ease, or they might just be exhausted.
Yawning

Yawning is a response to a wide variety of
response to a wide variety of stimuli, including
sleepiness, awakening hunger, boredom,
nervousness and inter cranial diseases.
There are several causes of yawning:
Psychological, including boredom, drowsiness,
fatigue, separation
hormonal, due to the actions of ACTH and
MSH;
neurological, as a result of various brain
pathologies,
psychiatric, for example, schizophrenia,
psychosis, depression and withdrawal; general
pathologies, including ear disorders, gastric
and biliary disorders and motion sickness;
drug overdose such as naloxone, valproate,
imipramine, clomipramine, serotonin, and
phenobarbitol; and
drug withdrawal, from heroin, morphine,
lefetamine, methadone and pentazocin.
How To Know When They Are Lying
Signals Of Nervousness/Tension
• Their fists are clenched.
• Their hands or feet are tapping.
• The bottom edges between the fingers of one
hand are clenched with the bottom edges
between the fingers of the other hand.
• Hands are interlocked; whistle to conceal and
fight their nervousness
• try their best to avoid having eye contact
confident or ‘know-it-all’ attitude
Steepling
Dominance, superiority and territoriality are evident here. Both-hands-onhead shows a superior ‘know-it-all’ attitude and feet-on-desk shows a
territorial claim to it. To further highlight his status he has a high-status,
leaning-back
chair with wheels

Body language iii

  • 1.
    BODY LANGUAGE III Dr.V.Veera Balaji Kumar Soft skills Trainer Cygmax institute of management studies
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    people who areinterested in what you are saying • maintain eye contact more than 60% of the time • heads are inclined forward • are nodding their heads • feet are pointing towards you
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    I don’t haveany clue or I don’t know
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    If people aremore receptive in accepting your ideas • • • • • • • • Their hands are flat on the table. Their palms are open. Their heads are inclined forward. They are nodding their heads. Their legs are spaced out from each other. They smile frequently. Their hands are open. This also indicates genuineness. They place their hands in their chest. This signifies openness and conveys sincerity, honesty, or dedication. • However, a woman putting her hands in her breast is a defensive position and may indicate that she is
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    Indications that theyare thinking • stroking their chin - assessing the advantages and disadvantages of the proposal/idea • take their glasses off, after which they may either (1) clean them, or (2) put the tip of the frame in their mouth • pinching the bridge of the nose most likely with eyes closed
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    Indications that theyare thinking • put a palm below the chin, index finger pointed and extended along the cheek, while other fingers placed beneath the mouth criticizing or antagonizing • walk with the head down and hands behind the back
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    palm below thechin, index finger pointed and extended along the cheek
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    Indications that theyare defensive/hiding something • They walk with their hands in their pockets. • They cross their arms. • They hide their hands any way they can
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    Indications Of Boredom • • • • • • • • • • • • Headsupported by the palm, often accompanied by drooping eyes. They show inattentiveness by staring at a blank space (eyes not blinking) or by looking around frequently. They are pulling their ears. This may also signify that they want to interrupt while another person is talking. They are clicking a pen non-stop. They are tapping their hands or feet. They yawn incessantly. Their feet or other body parts are pointing to the exit, as if they are very eager to leave. They move restlessly in their seats. This could also mean that they are not cozy or at ease, or they might just be exhausted.
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    Yawning Yawning is aresponse to a wide variety of response to a wide variety of stimuli, including sleepiness, awakening hunger, boredom, nervousness and inter cranial diseases. There are several causes of yawning: Psychological, including boredom, drowsiness, fatigue, separation hormonal, due to the actions of ACTH and MSH; neurological, as a result of various brain pathologies, psychiatric, for example, schizophrenia, psychosis, depression and withdrawal; general pathologies, including ear disorders, gastric and biliary disorders and motion sickness; drug overdose such as naloxone, valproate, imipramine, clomipramine, serotonin, and phenobarbitol; and drug withdrawal, from heroin, morphine, lefetamine, methadone and pentazocin.
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    How To KnowWhen They Are Lying
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    Signals Of Nervousness/Tension •Their fists are clenched. • Their hands or feet are tapping. • The bottom edges between the fingers of one hand are clenched with the bottom edges between the fingers of the other hand. • Hands are interlocked; whistle to conceal and fight their nervousness • try their best to avoid having eye contact
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    Dominance, superiority andterritoriality are evident here. Both-hands-onhead shows a superior ‘know-it-all’ attitude and feet-on-desk shows a territorial claim to it. To further highlight his status he has a high-status, leaning-back chair with wheels