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email:	info@integra-cpd.co.uk
©	2010	-	2018	Michael	Soth	|	All	Rights	Reserved
The	therapeutic	space	
between	authentic	and	
authoritative	relating
©	Michael	Soth	2015
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
being genuinely
helpful
from within &
through a role
being powerfully
helpful through
authentic relating
as a person
varieties of authority
incl. ‘one-person
psychology’
& ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’)
dialogical
person-to-person
relating
‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’)
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
being powerfully helpful
through authentic relating
as a person:
privileging spontaneous
responses & interaction for the
sake of trustworthy immediacy &
transparency
being genuinely helpful
from within & through a
role:
privileging reflectiveness &
deliberateness for the sake of
containment & effectiveness and
holding boundaries & frame
dialogical
person-to-person
relating
‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’)
varieties of authority
incl. ‘one-person
psychology’
& ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’)
therapist in tension/
conflict between:
being a person and
a professional role
being spontaneous and
reflective/deliberate/strategic
two-person and
one-person psychology
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
being powerfully
helpful through
authentic relating
as a person
being genuinely
helpful
from within &
through a role
dialogical
person-to-person
relating
‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’)
varieties of authority
incl. ‘one-person
psychology’
& ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’)
∞
enduring & embracing the
tension between polarities
= the conflicted diversity &
multiplicity of relational
stances and spaces
= surrendering to conflict
being an ambiguous,
contradictory, conflicted,
paradoxical mixture
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT
being paradoxical mixture
useless,
disappointing equal
‘anti-medical’ model
potentially collusive
too merged - avoid separateness
deny difference
negative authority
(power-over)
inwardly & outwardly defensive
potentially objectifying
too separate /avoid merger
deny sharedness
‘medical’ model’
shared humanity
(power-with)
benign authority
(facilitative power)
empowering
potentially helpful practitioner
(someone who gets paid for love)
ambiguous, conflicted, paradoxical relationship
humanistic psychodynamic doctor
friend  
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n
c
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m
p
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space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
humanistic psychodynamic doctor
friend  
c
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l
l
u
s
i
o
n
c
o
m
p
l
i
a
n
c
e
collusion
with friend:
avoidance and
denial of
difference &
power
differential
therapist in tension/conflict between:
being a person and a professional role
compliance
with expert:
patterns of
imposition
obedience and
hidden
rebellion
helpful human meeting
core conditions: unconditional regard, empathy, congruence
expert help / treatment
neutrality, objectivity, lack of subjective investment
psychodynamic
allowing oneself to be constructed
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT
collusive
friend
older
sibling
friend
uncle /
aunt
head
master
traditional
family
doctor
fairy god-
parent
step
parent
doctor
spectrum of potentially helpful stances and relational spaces
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
humanistic psychodynamic doctor
friend
being the same being an ‘other
IDENTIFYING & EMPATHISING BEING SEPARATE & DIFFERENTIATED
core conditions are inherently in tension with each other
tension between focus on other versus focus on self
friend - empathy & regard (UPR) congruence - authority
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
humanistic psychodynamic doctor
friend
IDENTIFYING & EMPATHISING
being ‘alongside’ based upon
fundamental human sameness
BEING SEPARATE & DIFFERENTIATED
being ‘opposite’ by being a relational ‘other,
based upon being different
collapsing
sameness into
collusive friend
unconditional
regard:
a warm, attuned
presence via
compassionate
resonance
congruence:
being a separate,
different
dialogical
relational ‘other’
collapsing
difference into
dualistic
categorical
otherness
neutral authority:
holding firm,
containing
boundaries of
difference
being an
ambiguous,
contradictory
mixture
fluid authority:
being a
facilitative
benign but
different
relational ‘other’
psychoanalysis:
allowing oneself to be constructed as a transferential ‘other’
empathy:
being a
supportive ally
based on
identification
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
humanistic psychodynamic doctor
friend
IDENTIFYING
&
EM
PATHISING
BEING
SEPARATE
&
DIFFERENTIATED
collusive
relationship
with ’friend'
objectifying
treatment
by 'doctor'
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space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
being powerfully
helpful through
authentic dialogical
relating as a person
being genuinely
helpful
from within &
through a role
phenomenological
exploration of person-to-
person relating
‘two-person psychology’
‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’)
varieties of authority &
role relating incl.
‘one-person psychology’
& ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’)
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT
useless,
disappointing equal
shared humanity
(power-with)
benign authority
(facilitative power)
empowering
negative authority
(power-over)
inwardly & outwardly defensive
potentially collusive
too merged - avoid separateness
deny difference
potentially helpful practitioner
(someone who gets paid for love)
potentially objectifying
too separate /avoid merger
deny sharedness
‘anti-medical’ model ambiguous, conflicted, paradoxical relationship ‘medical’ model’
being paradoxical mixture
collusion com
pliance
humanistic / Gestalt
(phenomenology, field theory,
attention to present moment)
psychodynamic doctor
friend
Gestalt integrating psychodynamic principles
(eg Lynne Jacobs & Peter Phillipson)
a dialogical equal
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT
collusive
friend
interactive
bodymind
regulator of
trauma
phenomenological
co-explorer
reparative
parent -
good
mother/
father
classical
Reichian
functional
-ist expert
spiritual
bodymind
guide
fairy god-
parent
embodiment
or
mindfulness
educator
doctor
one-person psychology
one-and-a-half-person
two-person psychology
spectrum of potentially helpful stances and relational spaces
space for joint exploration authoritative space
being an expert
being an equal
humanistic psychodynamic doctor
friend
relational position: "ALONGSIDE"
being an ally / being on client's side /
champion client’s self-actualisation process
relational position: "OPPOSITE"
an 'other' / a relational other
champion client’s individuation process
Lavinia Gomez:
'Humanistic or psychodynamic - what is the difference and do we have to make a
choice ?' Self & Society Vol. 31 No.6 Feb/Mar 2004, p. 5 - 19
Gomez’s challenge to humanistic-psychodynamic integration:
Once the transference has been constellated (whether or not through the therapist
inviting it by taking an ‘opposite’ position), we are NOT free to switch back arbitrarily
into an ‘alongside’ position, as this will then be (mis-)perceived by the client’s
unconscious through the transference (as an avoidance of the wounding dynamic and its
heat/intensity/difficulty). Any such switching is therefore liable to acquire unintended
transferential meanings (i.e. that the therapist cannot bear it, either, and thus undermine
‘containment’ and the working alliance.

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A spectrum of diverse relational spaces between authentic and authoritative relating (V2, incl addendum)

  • 2. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal being genuinely helpful from within & through a role being powerfully helpful through authentic relating as a person varieties of authority incl. ‘one-person psychology’ & ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’) dialogical person-to-person relating ‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’)
  • 3. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal being powerfully helpful through authentic relating as a person: privileging spontaneous responses & interaction for the sake of trustworthy immediacy & transparency being genuinely helpful from within & through a role: privileging reflectiveness & deliberateness for the sake of containment & effectiveness and holding boundaries & frame dialogical person-to-person relating ‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’) varieties of authority incl. ‘one-person psychology’ & ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’) therapist in tension/ conflict between: being a person and a professional role being spontaneous and reflective/deliberate/strategic two-person and one-person psychology
  • 4. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal being powerfully helpful through authentic relating as a person being genuinely helpful from within & through a role dialogical person-to-person relating ‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’) varieties of authority incl. ‘one-person psychology’ & ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’) ∞ enduring & embracing the tension between polarities = the conflicted diversity & multiplicity of relational stances and spaces = surrendering to conflict being an ambiguous, contradictory, conflicted, paradoxical mixture
  • 5. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT being paradoxical mixture useless, disappointing equal ‘anti-medical’ model potentially collusive too merged - avoid separateness deny difference negative authority (power-over) inwardly & outwardly defensive potentially objectifying too separate /avoid merger deny sharedness ‘medical’ model’ shared humanity (power-with) benign authority (facilitative power) empowering potentially helpful practitioner (someone who gets paid for love) ambiguous, conflicted, paradoxical relationship humanistic psychodynamic doctor friend   c o l l u s i o n c o m p l i a n c e
  • 6. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal humanistic psychodynamic doctor friend   c o l l u s i o n c o m p l i a n c e collusion with friend: avoidance and denial of difference & power differential therapist in tension/conflict between: being a person and a professional role compliance with expert: patterns of imposition obedience and hidden rebellion helpful human meeting core conditions: unconditional regard, empathy, congruence expert help / treatment neutrality, objectivity, lack of subjective investment psychodynamic allowing oneself to be constructed
  • 7. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT collusive friend older sibling friend uncle / aunt head master traditional family doctor fairy god- parent step parent doctor spectrum of potentially helpful stances and relational spaces
  • 8. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal humanistic psychodynamic doctor friend being the same being an ‘other IDENTIFYING & EMPATHISING BEING SEPARATE & DIFFERENTIATED core conditions are inherently in tension with each other tension between focus on other versus focus on self friend - empathy & regard (UPR) congruence - authority
  • 9. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal humanistic psychodynamic doctor friend IDENTIFYING & EMPATHISING being ‘alongside’ based upon fundamental human sameness BEING SEPARATE & DIFFERENTIATED being ‘opposite’ by being a relational ‘other, based upon being different collapsing sameness into collusive friend unconditional regard: a warm, attuned presence via compassionate resonance congruence: being a separate, different dialogical relational ‘other’ collapsing difference into dualistic categorical otherness neutral authority: holding firm, containing boundaries of difference being an ambiguous, contradictory mixture fluid authority: being a facilitative benign but different relational ‘other’ psychoanalysis: allowing oneself to be constructed as a transferential ‘other’ empathy: being a supportive ally based on identification
  • 10. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal humanistic psychodynamic doctor friend IDENTIFYING & EM PATHISING BEING SEPARATE & DIFFERENTIATED collusive relationship with ’friend' objectifying treatment by 'doctor'
  • 12. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal being powerfully helpful through authentic dialogical relating as a person being genuinely helpful from within & through a role phenomenological exploration of person-to- person relating ‘two-person psychology’ ‘I’ - ‘I’ (or ‘I-Thou’) varieties of authority & role relating incl. ‘one-person psychology’ & ‘treatment’ (‘I’ - ‘it’)
  • 13. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT useless, disappointing equal shared humanity (power-with) benign authority (facilitative power) empowering negative authority (power-over) inwardly & outwardly defensive potentially collusive too merged - avoid separateness deny difference potentially helpful practitioner (someone who gets paid for love) potentially objectifying too separate /avoid merger deny sharedness ‘anti-medical’ model ambiguous, conflicted, paradoxical relationship ‘medical’ model’ being paradoxical mixture collusion com pliance humanistic / Gestalt (phenomenology, field theory, attention to present moment) psychodynamic doctor friend Gestalt integrating psychodynamic principles (eg Lynne Jacobs & Peter Phillipson) a dialogical equal
  • 14. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal RELATIONSHIP TREATMENT collusive friend interactive bodymind regulator of trauma phenomenological co-explorer reparative parent - good mother/ father classical Reichian functional -ist expert spiritual bodymind guide fairy god- parent embodiment or mindfulness educator doctor one-person psychology one-and-a-half-person two-person psychology spectrum of potentially helpful stances and relational spaces
  • 15. space for joint exploration authoritative space being an expert being an equal humanistic psychodynamic doctor friend relational position: "ALONGSIDE" being an ally / being on client's side / champion client’s self-actualisation process relational position: "OPPOSITE" an 'other' / a relational other champion client’s individuation process Lavinia Gomez: 'Humanistic or psychodynamic - what is the difference and do we have to make a choice ?' Self & Society Vol. 31 No.6 Feb/Mar 2004, p. 5 - 19 Gomez’s challenge to humanistic-psychodynamic integration: Once the transference has been constellated (whether or not through the therapist inviting it by taking an ‘opposite’ position), we are NOT free to switch back arbitrarily into an ‘alongside’ position, as this will then be (mis-)perceived by the client’s unconscious through the transference (as an avoidance of the wounding dynamic and its heat/intensity/difficulty). Any such switching is therefore liable to acquire unintended transferential meanings (i.e. that the therapist cannot bear it, either, and thus undermine ‘containment’ and the working alliance.