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- 2. Let’s define • Iam ……………… • I am ……………… • I am ……………… • I am ……………… • I am ……………… • I am ………………
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- 6. Self Concept • DirectDefinitions 6 Identity Scripts Direct Definitions Reflected Appraisals Attachment Styles Self Concept
- 7. Self Concept 7 DirectDefinitions Reflected Appraisal • Uppers, Downers, Vultures • Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Identity Scripts Direct Definitions Reflected Appraisals Attachment Styles 7 Identity Scripts Direct Definitions Reflected Appraisals Attachment Styles Self Concept
- 8. • Self-fulfilling prophecy –Pygmalion effect
- 9. • Empson, L.,(2021), The Emperor’s New Clothes: How Our Fear of Seeming Stupid Became a Self- Fulfilling Prophecy, Academy of Management Learning and Education • Watson, A., Obal, M., & Kannan, R. (2021). Expect Success, Get Success: How Self-fulfilling Prophecy Can Impact New Product Development Leaders who help their product development teams build and sustain confidence can create expectations of success that translate into improved success of new products. Research-Technology Management, 64(4), 29-36. 9
- 10. 10 Self Concept • DirectDefinitions • Reflected Appraisal • Identity Scripts Identity Scripts Direct Definitions Reflected Appraisals Attachment Styles Self Concept
- 11. 11 Identity Scripts Direct Definitions Reflected Appraisals Attachment Styles Self Concept • DirectDefinitions • Reflected Appraisal • Uppers, Downers, Vultures • Self-Fulfilling Prophecy • Identity Scripts • Attachment Styles Self Concept
- 12. Self Concept Attachment Styles •Secure • Fearful • Dismissive • Anxious/Ambivalent 12
- 13. The Generalized Other ViewsHeld by Society • Race / Caste • Gender • Sexual Orientation • Socioeconomic Class • Social Comparison 13
- 14. The Self isMultidimensional Views Held by Self • Physical Self • Cognitive Self • Emotional Self • Social Self 14
- 17. Johari Window Copyright ©Wadsworth 2007 17 Johari Window http://www.cps.usfca.edu/324sh/johari.htm
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- 32. Aggression – impact(on self) • Short term (pretty pleasant)
- 33. Aggression – impact(on self) • Feeling guilt or shame • Apologizing profusely or being- overhelpful
- 34. Aggression – impact(on self) • Blaming others • Constant state of alert • Being drained of energy • Hate or mistrust for the large groups of people • Problems with friendships, job prospects – High BP
- 35. Aggression – impact(on others)
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- 37. Impact of passivity(on self) • Short-term effect – Reduction in anxiety because of avoiding a potential conflict
- 38. Impact of passivity(on self) Loss of self- esteem Increase in anger, hurt or self-pity More internal tensions Increased inability to act assertively / Psychosomatic problems
- 39. Impact of passivity(on others)
- 40. Behavioral bidding • Silence –Natural passivity – Perceived incompetence in the other person
Editor's Notes
- #4 Individualized identity Familial identity Spiritual identity The sense of self as independent and self-reliant. The sense of self as always connected to family and others.
- #11 Identity scripts are another way family members communicate who we are and should be. Psychologists define identity scripts as rules for how we are supposed to live and who we are supposed to be (Berne, 1964; Harris, 1969). Like the scripts for plays, identity scripts define our roles, how we are to play them, and basic elements in the plot we are supposed to have for our lives. Usually, identity scripts reflect the values and heritage of our families. Think back to your childhood to identify some of the principal scripts that operated in your family. Did you learn, “We are responsible people,” “Save your money for a rainy day,” “Always help others,” “Look out for yourself,” or “Live by God’s word”? These are examples of identity scripts people learn in families.