This document provides guidance on effective behavior management strategies for early childhood educators. It emphasizes using clear, positive expectations and language to encourage good behavior. Key recommendations include establishing a small number of simple, positively stated ground rules and regularly reinforcing them. The document also stresses the importance of realistic expectations that consider children's limited attention spans, as well as helping children develop self-control rather than relying on external controls. Overall, it promotes a strengths-based approach focused on catching children being good.
5. What ground rules do you have in the
gan?
ï” Eating only at the table
ï” Outside toys stay outside
ï” Treat our friends gently
ï” Sit down through the whole circle timeâŠ
6. Ground Rules
Think about the ground rules
You are about to see, and think
about WHY
We have chosen to show you these?
7. Ground Rules
1. No Pushing
2. No Biting
3. No Bikes inside
4. No bullying
5. Always have fun
8. Ground Rules
ï” Use ground rules as a basis for promoting positive behaviour and
discouraging unwanted behaviour
ï” Use only positive language in the rules
ï” A few rules, that are clearly reinforced; regularly (Catchy)
ï” Consider displaying them
9. Language is powerful
Write a list of all the
NEGATIVE
language you
can think ofâŠ
Write a list of all the
POSITIVE language
you can think ofâŠ
THROW IT
AWAY!
KEEP IT CLOSE
Look after and cherish these words, keep
them close to your soul, and use them
forever more!
10. Positive behaviour
ï” Co-operating with each other
ï” Encouraging each other
ï” Helping others
ï” Asserting oneself
ï” Full involvement in a chosen activity
ï” Taking on new challenges
ï” Showing empathy
ï” Taking responsibility
ï” Sharing
11. Encouraging positive behaviour
ï” Clear rules
ï” listen to and observe what children communicate both
verbally and non-verbally;
ï” praise and respond appropriately to all forms of children's
positive behaviour
ï” promote and reinforce positive behaviour by example;
13. Key concept
Children should not be allowed to hurt
themselves or other people either physically
or verbally, or destroy property. They must
learn how to control themselves instead of
other people controlling them.
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19. Talk clearly, simply, and often about
behaviours that matter
Reading
time is
quiet time
Take turns
with the
bimbas
Now is the
time to
listen and
follow
directions
Being helpful
can make you
and others
feel happy
Keep rules and expectations simple, and remind children often when itâs time to follow them
20. Realistic expectations | Attention span
Acknowledge that young children have limited
attention spans by alternating learning activities
that require quiet, focused attention with
opportunities for independent play and learning
activities that include movement.
21. Key concept
Children should not be allowed to hurt themselves or other
people either physically or verbally, or destroy property.
Children must learn how to control themselves instead of other
people controlling them.
23. ï” Donât spoil me. I know quite well I shouldnât have everything I ask for. Iâm only testing you
ï” Donât be afraid to be firm with me. It prefer it sometimes. It makes me feel secure.
ï” Donât let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
ï” Donât make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly big.
ï” Donât correct me in front of other people. Iâll take much more notice if you ask me in private.
ï” Donât protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes
ï” Donât make me feel my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values
ï” Donât take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
ï” Donât nag. If you do Iâll have to protect myself by appearing deaf
24. ï” Donât make rash promises. I feel badly let down when they are broken
ï” Donât forget I canât always explain myself as well as Iâd like. This is why Iâm not always very accurate
ï” Donât tax my honesty too much. Iâm easily frightened into telling lies
ï” Donât be inconsistent. It completely confuses me and makes me loose faith in you
ï” Donât tell me my fears are silly. Theyâre terribly real!
ï” Donât tell me youâre perfect or infallible. It gives me too greater shock when I find out that you are neither
ï” Donât ever think its beneath your dignity to apologies to me. An honest apology makes me surprisingly warm
to you.
ï” Donât forget I love experimenting and canât go on with out it. SO please put up with it!