This document is a paper submitted by Ashish Pithadiya to the Department of English. It discusses personal and cultural influences on aggression with reference to the character Okonkos from African literature. It defines aggression and explores individual differences, gender differences, and cultural differences that can influence aggression. It examines how being threatened, rejected, or experiencing negative affect can increase aggression in individuals. It also notes cultural differences like avoiding others, losing power or identity that may increase aggression. Kindness is presented as an alternative to aggression for better development.