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Conflict - Anatomy of Peace Tong Ka Io 2011.07.12
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1.  理論知識
衝突 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],© 2005 Prentice Hall Inc. All rights reserved.
 
衝突與團隊績效
良性衝突  (Functional Conflict) 支持團體目標並增進團體績效的衝突。 © 2005 Prentice Hall Inc. All rights reserved. 惡性衝突  (Dysfunctional Conflict) 妨害團體績效的衝突。
 
衝突處理意圖
 
以上是有關衝突的理論知識 這些知識十分重要和有用 但不是今天我們要談的內容
2.  個人體驗
 
 
衝突的多層結構
3.  問題子女
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“ Enemies in the Desert” ,[object Object]
Deeper Matters ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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4.  和平的心
Kingdom of Heaven
 
 
Ṣalāḥ ad-Dīn Yūsuf ibn Ayyūb  (1138-1193) ,[object Object],[object Object]
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A story
5. “ 同謀”
Duel at the mall
Questions ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Collusion ,[object Object]
 
 
Collusion ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Right and Wrong ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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6. “ 在箱子裏”
The right way ,[object Object]
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The Choice People Objects ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Behavior Way Of being
Seeing people as people ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Seeing people as objects ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
Don’t confuse with hard and soft ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
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The Path to War ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
Self-betrayal ,[object Object]
The Boxes ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
 
 
 
 
Heart at War ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
7.  和平金字塔
A Strategy of Peace ,[object Object],[object Object]
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If we try to correct our children when the  other elements of the pyramid are not in place,  our correction will always be wrong The first 4 levels are  all concerned with  helping things  go right
If my correction of my children isn’t working The solution is not to try still more methods of  correction, but to do a better job of teaching When we seem to locate a problem at one level  of the pyramid we  should always look  below it for the  solution
If my teaching is consistently falling flat The solution is not to  teach more, but to build better relationship When we seem to locate a problem at one level  of the pyramid we  should always look  below it for the  solution
If I seem unable to build the right kind of relation- Ship with my children I had better  look at my relationship with my spouse When we seem to locate a problem at one level  of the pyramid we  should always look  below it for the  solution
If my relationship with my spouse isn’t what it should  be What does that reveal  about my personal  way of being? When we seem to locate a problem at one level  of the pyramid we  should always look  below it for the  solution
A story ,[object Object],[object Object]
 
Father’s choices How to correct  my sons? Go get them immediately Wait for them to come home Make absolutely clear that it is totally unacceptable Father’s  choices
New alternative ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The result ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Father’s choices How to correct  my sons? Go get them immediately Wait for them to come home Make absolutely clear that it is totally unacceptable Father’s  choices How to help  things go right? Build relationship Teach
Locating the Peace Within ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Getting out of the box ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
ASK … ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
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Staying out of the box ,[object Object]
 
 
8.  總結
The Peacemaking Pyramid Dealing with things that are going wrong Helping things go right
LESSON 1 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
LESSON 2 ,[object Object],[object Object]
LESSON 3 ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Arbinger Principles of Non-Violence ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The Arbinger Principles of Non-Violence ,[object Object],[object Object]
The Arbinger Principles of Non-Violence ,[object Object],[object Object]
人生公式
 

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Conflict anatomy of peace