Revisiting Cognitive
     Distortions
Thinking Patterns and Core Beliefs
Last Week’s Homework
Cognitive
Distortions?
ALL-OR-NOTHING THINKING


 Thinking of things in absolute
terms, like “always”, “every”
or “never”


“I never do anything right
EVER!”
OVERGENERALIZATION


Taking isolated cases and
using them to make wide
generalizations.
OVERGENERALIZATION



“She yelled at me. She’s
always yelling at me. She
must not like me.”
OVERGENERALIZATION
Catch yourself overgeneralizing


Say to yourself, “Just because
one event happened, does not
necessarily
mean I am ….
Mental Filter
Focusing exclusively on
certain, usually negative, aspects
of something while ignoring the
rest, like a tiny imperfection in a
piece of clothing
JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS



Assuming something
negative where there is
actually no evidence to
support it.
JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS


You assume that someone is
reacting negatively to you, and
you don’t bother to check it out.
JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS


  “What evidence do you have to support your
  notion that she feels…”


mind reading – assuming the intentions of others


     fortune telling – predicting how things will
   turn before they happen
Disqualifying the Positive
Continually “shooting
down”positive experiences for
arbitrary, ad hoc reasons.
Catastrophizing
Focusing on the worst possible
outcome, however unlikely, or thinking
that a situation is unbearable or
impossible when it is really just
uncomfortable
Labeling


  Explaining behaviors or events,
merely by naming them; related to
         overgeneralization


Rather than describing the specific
   behavior, you assign a label to
someone or yourself that puts them in
  absolute and unalterable terms.
Rather than describing the specific behavior,
you assign a label to someone or yourself that
puts them in absolute and unalterable terms.
Personalization

Assuming you or others directly
  caused things when that may
     not have been the case


When applied to others this is an
       example of blame
Emotional Reasoning
Emotional Reasoning


Making decisions and
arguments based on how you
feel rather than objective
reality
I am inferior, a failure, a lower, not
good enough, defective, don’t
measure up.


I am powerless, out of
control, trapped, weak and needy.
Making Should Statements



   Concentrating on what you think
“should” or ought to be rather than the
  actual situation you or having rigid
 rules which you think should always
       apply no matter what the
           circumstances are
Unlovable Core Beliefs
I am unlikable, unwanted, will
be rejected or
abandoned, always be alone




I am different, defective, not
good enough to be loved by
other, a nerd
Week 7 revisting cognitive distortions

Week 7 revisting cognitive distortions