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Values and Beliefs
   Self, Future and World
Core Beliefs
Usually come in beliefs about
not being worthless, unlovable
or helpless
Core Beliefs

   Not Good Enough


     I am no good
 I’m not good enough
I can’t do anything right
    I’m unsuccessful
    I’m not valuable
      I’m inferior
      I’m nothing
     I’m worthless
      I’m invisible
    I’m insignificant
Core Beliefs
        Not Lovable

      I’m not lovable
    I’m unacceptable
    I’m plain and dull
      I’m not special
         I’m ugly
      I don’t matter
      I am unworthy
I am not interesting enough
 I will always be rejected
Core Beliefs
             Helpless

         I’m inadequate
         I’m incompetent
           I can’t cope
        I’m out of control
          I can’t change
            I’m week
           I’m a failure
I’m will never measure up to others
         I am powerless
Core Beliefs
Domain              Beliefs                   Rules

About Self          I’m unlovable as a        “In order to be loved, I
                    person                    must do whatever the
                                              other person wants”

About Others        “People are hurtful”      “if I want to protect
                                              myself, I must not trust
                                              others”

About the World     “The world is a           “I must always be on my
                    dangerous place”          guard to avoid trouble”



About the Future    “There is no              “If I don’t try, then I
                    hope, things will never   won’t be disappointed”
                    get better”
Core Beliefs
    Using Hot Thoughts to identify Core Beliefs
          “Downward Arrow Technique”


           1. Identify the hot thought


2. Ask IF that were true what would that say about:
                     a) You?
                   b) Others?
                 c) Your future?
Core Beliefs
   Using Hot Thoughts to identify Core
                  Beliefs
      “Downward Arrow Technique”


1. Identify the hot thought: I have
   nothing interesting to say
1. Ask if that were true what would that say
   about:


a) You? I’m boring


a) Others? People are not interested in me


a) Your future? I’ll die alone..I will always be
   unwanted
Core Beliefs

What did breaking down this
  thought just tell us about
            this ?
Core Beliefs
            THEY FEEL UNLOVABLE!!!


 Note I did not say they ARE unlovable but FEEL
                      unlovable


Can you relate to this feeling of unlovable?


In what ways?
Can you challenge the evidence of
 those situations to help to come to
    realize this belief is based on
         irrational feelings ?




 Together you must create a new
    balanced belief to help them
  perceive things more realistic and
 positive and make healthier choices
             for ourselves!
Hot Thought: I have nothing
  interesting to say

Conditional Assumption: If I avoid
  people, I will not get rejected


Core Belief: I’m unlikable
NEW BALANCED
THOUGHTS:
NEW BALANCED THOUGHTS:


Hot Thought: I have interesting things to say
   about lots of things but not everything.
Conditional Assumption: If I meet people
   with similar interests, I will have more
   stimulating conversations
Core Belief: I’m likable and have things to
   offer

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Week 6 values and beliefs

  • 1. Values and Beliefs Self, Future and World
  • 2.
  • 3. Core Beliefs Usually come in beliefs about not being worthless, unlovable or helpless
  • 4. Core Beliefs Not Good Enough I am no good I’m not good enough I can’t do anything right I’m unsuccessful I’m not valuable I’m inferior I’m nothing I’m worthless I’m invisible I’m insignificant
  • 5. Core Beliefs Not Lovable I’m not lovable I’m unacceptable I’m plain and dull I’m not special I’m ugly I don’t matter I am unworthy I am not interesting enough I will always be rejected
  • 6. Core Beliefs Helpless I’m inadequate I’m incompetent I can’t cope I’m out of control I can’t change I’m week I’m a failure I’m will never measure up to others I am powerless
  • 7. Core Beliefs Domain Beliefs Rules About Self I’m unlovable as a “In order to be loved, I person must do whatever the other person wants” About Others “People are hurtful” “if I want to protect myself, I must not trust others” About the World “The world is a “I must always be on my dangerous place” guard to avoid trouble” About the Future “There is no “If I don’t try, then I hope, things will never won’t be disappointed” get better”
  • 8. Core Beliefs Using Hot Thoughts to identify Core Beliefs “Downward Arrow Technique” 1. Identify the hot thought 2. Ask IF that were true what would that say about: a) You? b) Others? c) Your future?
  • 9. Core Beliefs Using Hot Thoughts to identify Core Beliefs “Downward Arrow Technique” 1. Identify the hot thought: I have nothing interesting to say
  • 10. 1. Ask if that were true what would that say about: a) You? I’m boring a) Others? People are not interested in me a) Your future? I’ll die alone..I will always be unwanted
  • 11. Core Beliefs What did breaking down this thought just tell us about this ?
  • 12. Core Beliefs THEY FEEL UNLOVABLE!!! Note I did not say they ARE unlovable but FEEL unlovable Can you relate to this feeling of unlovable? In what ways?
  • 13. Can you challenge the evidence of those situations to help to come to realize this belief is based on irrational feelings ? Together you must create a new balanced belief to help them perceive things more realistic and positive and make healthier choices for ourselves!
  • 14. Hot Thought: I have nothing interesting to say Conditional Assumption: If I avoid people, I will not get rejected Core Belief: I’m unlikable
  • 16. NEW BALANCED THOUGHTS: Hot Thought: I have interesting things to say about lots of things but not everything. Conditional Assumption: If I meet people with similar interests, I will have more stimulating conversations Core Belief: I’m likable and have things to offer