Take charge of your life by being proactive and responsible for your own decisions and future. Focus on sharpening important skills each day and say no to unimportant tasks. Seek to understand others before trying to be understood yourself by actively listening in conversations. Begin with the end in mind by envisioning your life goals and priorities. Develop a clear mission statement and accountability system to stay on track achieving your vision. Think collaboratively to find solutions where all parties succeed instead of viewing others' success as a threat.