Re designing your life- sv.
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This is about designing Your Life, not architectural design. Perhaps they are close as a fresh approach is always needed. Sam
![Re-Designing Your Life<br />Keeping Your Goals Achievable<br />Many, when confronted with goal setting are far too ambitious to the extent that they do not break down the goals into manageable steps. For example if you want to reduce your credit card debt and it stands at say, $20,000 and you want to do it in one year, you need to allocate a certain amount each month if you’re paid monthly and if paid fortnightly you will need to allocate fortnightly amounts for that purpose.<br />If you are self employed on the other hand you will need to devise other more specific strategies to liquidate the debt without this goal distracting you from the original goal of your business.<br />There are a few prerequisites for instance if you want to lose weight, you will have to begin a fitness and health program and enlist the help of someone who has done it in a healthy and intelligent way. Not only that you will have to have a commencement date and a time frame each week, so many times a week and for a specific period of time, say one year.<br />Whatever you have in mind it will have to be achievable and conceivable and it will help not only if you can see the end but you will have to ‘feel’ the goal attained. The “feeling,” of the goal accomplished can rapidly accelerate your process as the emotional factor will ramp up your attainability factor.<br />Perseverance and determination are two qualities that are similar however perseverance keeps on when determination may have let you down. When you lose determination “feel” the goal again accomplished and the emotion behind that memory will enable you to keep your action on track. You may have read many times that emotion is “feeling” in action and this “feeling” is one of the strongest drivers to assist you in accomplishing your dreams and making them come true.<br />When you have come this far you need to see that your goals are realistic otherwise when you falter as often happens the distance from the goals is often too far and we become disheartened. Remember to break them down into small bite size pieces. <br />If you want a massive property portfolio first see if this idea fits your psychological profile and secondly start with buying one property. From here to there does take time but it does not always have to be so slow.<br />Your goals have to be seen, felt or observable, namely they have to be tangible and real. If in the beginning you cannot see them you might be able to see those same goals realised in other people’s lives and manifested so that you can trust that if they can do it you can do. This is where a mentor sometimes helps or a role model who has walked the path and faced similar constraints and restrictions as you. Such a person can also be an inspiration and that alone might do the job for you; alternatively, you will have to find the goals you have set sufficiently inspirational enough for you to persevere so you achieve them.<br />So to recap, your goals have to be specific enough, you need to be able to break them down into smaller more measurable components, they need to be achievable, real enough to see, feel or visualise or you need to see them manifested in someone else’s life.<br />The most important quality of all is that the goal or goals will need to inspire you with spirit and a fire to ignite the fuel needed to overcome all the negative feedback from yourself, from others, your natural laziness and the many obstacles life provides irrespective of your greatest dreams and hopes for your future. <br />Some Key Elements Needed for a Successful Life<br />There are a few key elements to designing and redesigning the life you want-<br />,[object Object]](https://image.slidesharecdn.com/re-designingyourlife-sv-111017021104-phpapp02/85/re-designing-your-life-sv-1-320.jpg)
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- 2. You need a certain financial intelligence which is not ordinarily acquired either by education or by emulating our elders and peers unless they happen to have mastered this particular skill set.
- 3. There are also five attributes that are necessary to navigate your way through the often treacherous waters of commerce, rewarded creativity, relationships, health and happiness.
- 4. A certain creative thinking that is a right hemisphere approach to solving the problems and challenges that life delivers.
- 5. A superior level of communication beyond that which most people have.
- 6. The power and skill to negotiate. This is not innate to everyone, namely we are not born with it; however as children we learn quite soon how to get what we want. This way of getting what we want as children often carries over into the real world which is counterproductive of course.
- 7. Marketing abilities. You do not need a marketing degree but you certainly need the requisite skills to move forward with your plans.
- 8. A grounded, centred or self aware approach to every single thing you do in your life; everywhere in your life.
- 9. The last attribute is the result for which you are aiming. Firstly you need to know what it is that you want and what the end result is; that is, you must start with the end in mind already. It is often easy enough to start with the end in mind, like Donald Trump did. He felt that it was as easy to go broke on a small deal as it was on a big deal so why not start with the big deal first.
- 10. Having also adopted this approach I would not advocate it unless you have nerves of steel, so please forget it. Once you have ascertained what it is that you want, what the result is, it is important to know WHY you are doing it. This is known as the Purpose and I would call it more specifically the Primary Purpose.