The document discusses several topics related to relationships and marriage including: 1. Pre-marital counseling which involves identifying assumptions, dealing with conflicts, challenges, developing relationship skills, and addressing fears about social adjustments, independence, and responsibilities. 2. Tuning counseling to develop a positive outlook and handle clashes through mutual agreements and compromise. 3. Common relationship conflicts that arise from domestic roles, responsibilities, money matters, and sexual issues from ignorance, myths, past tendencies. 4. Guidelines for self-disclosure of one's past appropriately divided by age stages to reveal memories to one's partner.

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20. • sakhaa sapta padI bhava sakhyaM tE gamEyaM
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• May I deserve your friendship,
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• May your friendship make you one with me.”
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21. • Anyone who has any question about the role of a
woman in Hindu marriage should pay
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presiding priest at the end of saptapadi.
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• saamraajnI shvashurEbhava, saamraajnI
shvashruvaaMbhava, nanaMdaari
• naamraajnIbhava, saamraajnI adhidEvraShu
• Be queenly with your father-in-law, Be queenly with
your mother-in-law, Be queenly
• with his sisters, Be queenly with his brothers
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42. • Marianne J. Legato, MD, FACP, is an
internationally known[citation needed] academic
physician, author, and lecturer and globally
recognized expert in gender-specific medicine,
the science of how normal human function and
the experience of the same disease vary as a
function of gender/biological sex. Legato is an
expert on the sex-specific aspects of men's and
women's health and is the founder and director
of the Partnership for Gender-Specific Medicine
at Columbia University.
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45. • At its core, gender-specific medicine is the
science of how normal human biology differs
between men and women and how the diagnosis
and treatment of disease differs as a function of
gender. Dr. Legato’s discoveries and those of her
colleagues have led to a personalization of
medicine that assists doctors worldwide in
understanding the difference in normal function
of men and women and in their sex-specific
experiences of the same diseases.
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49. Why Men don't Listen and Women
can't read Map
• Among other differences, women have a bigger corpus callosum
they are far better at multitasking. This is why men don't usually
interrupt each other except aggressively. Emotions are processed all
over the female brain, but only in two areas of a man's right
hemisphere, this is why men can separate emotion from speech (on
the left hemisphere).Women think aloud more than men, use more
indirect requests (e.g. 'wouldn't it be nice to stop for coffee?') and
their speech contains fewer 'ums' and 'ahs'. Men will go silent when
under stress while women will talk. Asking for help is seen as a
weakness by men. Women find deep voices attractive because they
suggest high testosterone levels; vice versa for men and 'schoolgirl'
voices. Men are attracted to the hourglass figure as they are the
most fertile while women like men with broad shoulders best-ideal
for carrying prey home
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56. Pre MARITAL COUNSELLING
• 1.Identifying their assumptions
• 2.How to deal with conflicts
• 3.Identify the challenges in their relationships
• 4.Develop skills to recognisestrength and
weakness of each partner
• 5.what each bring into relationship
• 6.how to grow together without losing
individual identities
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57. • 7.findout what is common to both
• 8.Acceptence and appreciation of differences
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58. SOME FEARS
• FEAR OF SOCIAL ADJUSTMENTS
• NEW LOCATION
• NEW HOME
• NEW NEIGHBOURS
• FEAR OF CONFLICTS
• POINT OF VIEW DIFFER
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59. • LOSS OF INDEPENDENCE
• FEAR OF SHARING PHYSICAL SPACES WITH
OTHER
• FEAR OF TAKING NEW RESPOSIBILITIES
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60. TUNING--COUNSELLING
• TUNING LIKE A RADIO
• TO DEVELOP A “POSITIVE
BALANCEDOUTLOOK”
• CLASH OF INTERESTS AND PRIORITIES
• EACH ONE’S CAN BE RESPECTED AND
FOSTERED THROUGH MUTUAL AGREEMENTS
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• A healthy give and take
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61. Conflicts !!!!!!!!!!!
• Most of them arises from domestic roles,
• resposibilities
• and money matters
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62. Sexual issues
• After marriage issues
• Ignorance of how to please each other and get
pleasure
• Myths and misconceptions of first night
• Past tendencies (pre marriage period)
• If sexual relationships fail it leads to fatal
collapse
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63. Self disclosure issues
• How much of your past reveal to the partner?
• Its silly and simple----
• Divide your past by different age stages
• 1 to10 --- L.P. SCHOOL
• 11 to 13 – U.P.School
• 14 to 16 – High school
• 17 to 19 -- Higher secondary
• 20 to 22 -- Degree
• 23 to Marriage --- Family matters
• What a problem to reveal the memories as u can,
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64. Past memories
• Child illness
• Family disfunctions
• Financial disasters
• Failed careers
• Awards and Rewards
• Close Friends details
• Oneway Romances
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65. Why Men don't Listen and Women
can't read Maps
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