The document discusses self-development and happiness, emphasizing that true happiness is linked to health, love, and respect, and is dependent on the happiness of others. It outlines necessary self-analysis steps to achieve personal goals while navigating obstacles, advocating for a positive attitude and ethical means in achieving desires. It concludes by urging individuals to refrain from blaming fate or others, encouraging self-reliance in finding solutions.

1. SELF – DEVELOPMENT
WHAT IS
SELF?
IMMEDIATE ANSWER
IS I
IS IT TRUE
REALLY !!
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2. Self means - I
What are the needs of
- I
BE – “HAPPY”
So – “I” is meaningless
unless – It is associated with
“HAPPINESS”
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3. I HAPPINESS
“I” can not be
“HAPPY”
Unless – we are
 Health
y
 Love
 Respec
t
Our
Body
Our
Mind
That Love Has No
Meaning – Unless We Are
Loved
The most important is :
Can we be happy – unless – “PEOPLE” we are associated are
happy
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4. Parents
Brothers
Sisters
Neighbors
Colony / Village
Associates
Seniors
Juniors
Collogues
They As ‘I’
Have Same
Needs
HAPPINES
S
I in them can not be
happy unless they
are :
Healthy
Love (unless
they are loved)
Respect
The need for others happiness may – be
CONTRADICTING
“So happiness is ability of one person to adjust to the ‘Happiness’ of
others
he is ‘dependent’ ”.
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5. DEVELOPMENT
What is
Development ?Anything that is “LIVING”
grows
DEVELOPME
NT
Natura
l
Mental
Human
InductedInventions
Discoveries
Rules / Rituals
Discoveri
es
Absolution
gets
Rules &
Rituals
Inventions
Uncertainties
/ Conflicts
Creates
Mental &
Human
Inducts
Leads
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6. DEVELOPMENT
Natura
l
Mental Human
Inducted
Reduce
d
Improve
d
Altered
Through
* LOGIC –
REASON
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7. “Methods/ Means for the happiness
and happiness is accelerated or
decelerated due to human beings
mentally inducted initiatives. ”
SELF DEVELOPMENT IS
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8. WHAT IS OUR MAIN AIM IN
LIFE ?Probabl
y
HAVE ALL THE THINGS WE SEE
AROUND
•TV
• Mobiles
•Vehicle
•House
CAN WE REALLY GET ALL THE THINGS
AROUND USIT NEEDS
MONEY
TRUTH IS HOW MANY IN OUR COUNTRY POSSESS THESE
THINGS
PROBABLY FEW IN 120 MILLIONS
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9. When we ‘TOSS’ a coin; chance
is -EITHER
HEAD
Or
TAIL
But still can we be sure out of two possibilities we shall get
one
ANSWER
IS
NO
IN REAL LIFE PROBABILITY FOR ANYTHING WE WANT
ARE MANY-
-
-
-
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10. THE THINGS THAT MAKES US HAPPY
CAN NOT BE PURCHASED
•
RESPECT
• LOVE
•
HEALTH
CANNOT BE PURCHASED BY
MONEY
ATTITUDE
In life to get three things-
99% is Attitude
1% is Luck
Attitude has to be POSITIVE
POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS:
1) Understanding What Is Taught In Our Dharma, Follow The Set
Rules & Regulations.
2) Don’t Compare With Others.
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11. ATTITUDE: WHAT IS TOUGHT IN
DHARMA
WHAT IS DHARMA:
“Human Brain” consistently:
 effects changes,
Every change generates side effects
Side effect causes Harms
To counter Harms rules are framed
We have to follow rules
“Ashta dasha puraneshu vyasasya vachanam
dyam,Paropkaraya pundya,
Papaya par pidanam”
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12. DO NOT COMPARE WITH OTHERS
COMPARING WITH OTHERS :
GENERATES UNHAPPINESS
LET US THINK “EVEL” /WRONG
TO OTHERS”
a. CONSCIOUSLY; WITH KNOWLEGE
b. UNCONSCIOUSLY: WITHOUT
KNOWLEDGE
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13. REASONING/RATIONALLY
 MANY TIMES WE DO THINGS BECOUSE :
OTHERS ARE DOING
IF I DON’T DO OTHERS SHALL LOUGH
OUT OF ANGER
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14. STEPS FOR SELF DEVELOPMENT
STEPS WHAT IS THE STEP IMPORTANCE OF STEP
ONE SELF ANALYSIS  WhatWeWantToAchieve?
 WHY WE WANT TO AHIEVE ?
HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE ?
TWO ROAD BLOCKS  DONT GET THE LOVE ?
 DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!
 CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM !
THREE SOLUTIONS  DO NOT BLAME FATE!!
DO NOT BLAME OTHERS!!
FIND SOLUTION IN YOUR
SELF
FOUR RESOLVE
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15. SELF ANALYSIS
WHAT WE WANT TO ACHIEVE
 “CLARITY : WHAT WE DESIRE? :
THE HUMAN OWN NEEDS ARE NOT MUCH, WE
CAN FULFILL.
WHAT WE CAN NOT ACHIEVE IS COMPARING
WITH OTHERS ASSETS,AND CURSING FOR NOT
HAVING THE SAME
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16. SELF ANALYSIS
: WHY WE WANT TO ACHIEVE
“BE CLEAR WHETHER OUR DESIRE SHALL HELP
US ACHIEVING OUR BASIC NEEDS:
RESPECT
LOVE
HEALTH
Or
WE DESIRED SHALL CREATE MORE PROBLEMS
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17. SELF ANALYSIS:
HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE?
DESIRE FOR ANY THING:
 SKY IS THE LIMIT
 WE CAN DREAM FOR ANY THING
B U T I N A C T U A L L I F E T H E R E A R E
M A N Y O B S T A C L E S
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18. SELF ANALYSIS:
HOW WE WANT TO ACHIEVE?
ONLY RULE IS:
ACHIEVE THROUGH ETHICAL MEANS
DEVELOP OUR OWN RULES WHICH MAKES
OTHERS HAPPY.
FOLLOW THE RULES IN OUR
DHARMA
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19. ROAD BLOCKS
“ ROAD BLOCKS ARE POSSIBLE HINDERENCE IN
ACHIEVING OUR GOALS”
BE CLEAR ABOUT HINDERANCES PROACTIVELY
RATHER
REACT
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20. ROAD BLOCKS
DONT GET THE LOVE ?
 DONT GET THE LOVE ?
DO WE DESERVE?
WHAT WE HAVE DONE FOR OTHERS?
ARE WE MANIPULATING
DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!
 CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM !
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21. ROAD BLOCKS:
DO NOT HAVE RESOURCES!
IDENTIFY WHAT RESOURCES WE WANT !
TO
GET LOVE,RESPECT AND HEALTH
WE NEED SELF INDULGENCE
 Following
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22. ROAD BLOCKS
CAN NOT FOCUSS TO AIM
WE HAVE MANY THINGS WHICH SHALL DIVERT US
FROM OUR AIM.
 REMEMBER :
WHETHER SUCH DIVERSIONS SHALL MAKE US HAPPY?
 THINK:
THE MOMENTORY HAPPINESS /SHORT CUTS
MAY DESTROY OUR LIFE FOR EVER
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23. SOLUTIONS
DO NOT BLAME FATE!!
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24. SOLUTIONS
DO NOT BLAME OTHERS!!
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25. SOLUTIONS
FIND SOLUTION IN YOUR SELF
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