Attachment, trauma, emotional regulation in school to make sense of 'nonsensical behaviour' :Teachers safeguarding conference Barton Local Collaborative trust January 2015
Poor attachments, trauma, developmental delay can cause children act in apparently "nonsensical ways" which can make managing classrooms very tricky. Seeing childrens behaviour through the trauma lens throws new light on old issues and helps teachers manage challenging children with more empathy, compassion and effective strategies
Why do adopted children need a different kind of parenting? With the majority of children adopted from the care system coming from an abusive or neglectful background, it is unsurprising that many struggle to overcome the consequences of this difficult start to life. The Wall illustrates how unmet physical and emotional needs early in life affect children’s later development, requiring different parenting techniques and support for adoptive parents.
Are you safe on the road? Understanding trauma with NLP eyesHelen Oakwater
Workshop slides for presentation given by Helen Oakwater to Richmond NLP group, November 2019
These slides take you through understanding that trauma comes in different forms (single incident, complex, developmental). Kids and adults impacted differently
Become aware of Sensory and linguistic triggers and how to avoid them.
Understand that trauma is held within the body, has no words.
Making Sense of Classroom Nonsense: How trauma (maltreatment, chaos, poor at...Helen Oakwater
Presentation to Hertfordshire teachers _ Why do adopted and fostered children struggle?
For some children (especially adopted and fostered) their erratic and challenging behaviour results from their maltreatment or neglect in infancy. These children have difficulties because they experienced severe neglect, repeated abuse, domestic violence or chaos which interrupted and derailed their normal developmental path and brain wiring.
Similar to adult PTSD the legacy of infancy trauma causes them to act in apparently nonsensical ways. Consequently parents and carers feel inadequate and use ineffective parenting and behaviour management strategies.
Josue Guadarrama, MA Presentation at 2016 Science of HOPE
Description
Developed within a coherent theoretical and philosophical framework, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a unique, empirically based psychological intervention that uses acceptance and mindfulness strategies, together with value driven commitment and behavior change strategies, to increase psychological flexibility. ACT uses three broad categories of techniques: mindfulness, including being present in the moment and defusion techniques; acceptance; and commitment to values-based living. Participants in this seminar will learn mindfulness as a way of observing ones experience, in the present moment, without judgment and “defuse,” or distancing oneself from unhelpful thoughts, reactions and sensations. Aside from a didactic approach, there will be video examples, and skill practice. Audience participation is highly encouraged.
"Using attachment theory to understand parent-child conflict in non-adopted boys" looks at three detailed cases of young boys who present with difficulties in social situations and asks if Attachment Theory can offer a useful lens for understanding their difficulties.
Why do adopted children need a different kind of parenting? With the majority of children adopted from the care system coming from an abusive or neglectful background, it is unsurprising that many struggle to overcome the consequences of this difficult start to life. The Wall illustrates how unmet physical and emotional needs early in life affect children’s later development, requiring different parenting techniques and support for adoptive parents.
Are you safe on the road? Understanding trauma with NLP eyesHelen Oakwater
Workshop slides for presentation given by Helen Oakwater to Richmond NLP group, November 2019
These slides take you through understanding that trauma comes in different forms (single incident, complex, developmental). Kids and adults impacted differently
Become aware of Sensory and linguistic triggers and how to avoid them.
Understand that trauma is held within the body, has no words.
Making Sense of Classroom Nonsense: How trauma (maltreatment, chaos, poor at...Helen Oakwater
Presentation to Hertfordshire teachers _ Why do adopted and fostered children struggle?
For some children (especially adopted and fostered) their erratic and challenging behaviour results from their maltreatment or neglect in infancy. These children have difficulties because they experienced severe neglect, repeated abuse, domestic violence or chaos which interrupted and derailed their normal developmental path and brain wiring.
Similar to adult PTSD the legacy of infancy trauma causes them to act in apparently nonsensical ways. Consequently parents and carers feel inadequate and use ineffective parenting and behaviour management strategies.
Josue Guadarrama, MA Presentation at 2016 Science of HOPE
Description
Developed within a coherent theoretical and philosophical framework, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a unique, empirically based psychological intervention that uses acceptance and mindfulness strategies, together with value driven commitment and behavior change strategies, to increase psychological flexibility. ACT uses three broad categories of techniques: mindfulness, including being present in the moment and defusion techniques; acceptance; and commitment to values-based living. Participants in this seminar will learn mindfulness as a way of observing ones experience, in the present moment, without judgment and “defuse,” or distancing oneself from unhelpful thoughts, reactions and sensations. Aside from a didactic approach, there will be video examples, and skill practice. Audience participation is highly encouraged.
"Using attachment theory to understand parent-child conflict in non-adopted boys" looks at three detailed cases of young boys who present with difficulties in social situations and asks if Attachment Theory can offer a useful lens for understanding their difficulties.
Healing Trauma through Somatic Experiencing and Gestalt Therapy bwitchel
Develop a basic understanding of Somatic Experiencing®, a short-term approach to healing trauma, and the use of Gestalt Therapy in trauma resolution.
Dr. Bob Witchel
Community Care Live (May 2014) Presentation by Richard Cross and Linda Moss
Five Rivers Child Care attended Community Care and gave a talk on Trauma and Attachment informed practice for children in residential and foster care. It was felt to be so helpful that it was repeated in the afternoon and generated many queries from practitioners.
When a child has been abused and neglected they have often suffered physical trauma directly or by witnessing it with others and we now know that this impedes their physiological development and their brain capacity - they suffer emotional and physical developmental delays and have problems with learning.
Foster carers and residential staff at Five Rivers are being trained on an ongoing basis as research informs our practice, to help work with the traumatised child. In addition a child will often have problems with poor attachment, the two making each other worse. Our work helps us identify the types of help a child needs while they are in placement and gives us 'every day' ways of working - even by the non-professional therapist.
This being part of the professional therapeutic team is what helps Five Rivers get results for the children they care for. It is part of what makes our carers commit to above and beyond what many will do.
Five Rivers challenges the local authorities to make commitments to their children's placements to allow sufficient time to work with the children and make a real difference.
Where there are good partnership relationships this has really benefited the children in their residential and fostering placements. We have excellent successes in placements lasting well despite being sorely tested.
Adverse Childhood Experiences become the trauma legacy for many children. Their behaviour indicates the underlying issues ONLY IF we are prepared to notice this.
Healing Trauma through Somatic Experiencing and Gestalt Therapy bwitchel
Develop a basic understanding of Somatic Experiencing®, a short-term approach to healing trauma, and the use of Gestalt Therapy in trauma resolution.
Dr. Bob Witchel
Community Care Live (May 2014) Presentation by Richard Cross and Linda Moss
Five Rivers Child Care attended Community Care and gave a talk on Trauma and Attachment informed practice for children in residential and foster care. It was felt to be so helpful that it was repeated in the afternoon and generated many queries from practitioners.
When a child has been abused and neglected they have often suffered physical trauma directly or by witnessing it with others and we now know that this impedes their physiological development and their brain capacity - they suffer emotional and physical developmental delays and have problems with learning.
Foster carers and residential staff at Five Rivers are being trained on an ongoing basis as research informs our practice, to help work with the traumatised child. In addition a child will often have problems with poor attachment, the two making each other worse. Our work helps us identify the types of help a child needs while they are in placement and gives us 'every day' ways of working - even by the non-professional therapist.
This being part of the professional therapeutic team is what helps Five Rivers get results for the children they care for. It is part of what makes our carers commit to above and beyond what many will do.
Five Rivers challenges the local authorities to make commitments to their children's placements to allow sufficient time to work with the children and make a real difference.
Where there are good partnership relationships this has really benefited the children in their residential and fostering placements. We have excellent successes in placements lasting well despite being sorely tested.
Similar to Attachment, trauma, emotional regulation in school to make sense of 'nonsensical behaviour' :Teachers safeguarding conference Barton Local Collaborative trust January 2015
Adverse Childhood Experiences become the trauma legacy for many children. Their behaviour indicates the underlying issues ONLY IF we are prepared to notice this.
Trauma Triggered Behaviour at Living with Trauma 24/7 conference : Helen Oakw...Helen Oakwater
Living with children who have experienced severe neglect and maltreatment is often confusing because their behaviour is erratic and challenging.
These children have difficulties because their early experience interrupted and derailed their normal development path and brain wiring.
This presentation looks at trauma, the brain, belief formation, sensory triggers, truth telling and the need to future proof.
Direct contact via Facebook has changed the face of 21st century adoption. Motivated by curiosity birth families and adopted teenagers are reconnecting online, with no safeguards which is retraumatising many adopted children. Some walk away from their adoptive parents, some are derailed by the unwelcome intrusion in their lives, others fail exams or live in fear.
In this presentation Helen Oakwater, author of Bubble Wrapped Children, explores the hows, whys, whats and what ifs of unsupervised online contact and explains how future proofing by sharing 100% evidenced historical truth is the protective mechanism needed.
The courts, social services and health professionals must share data with adoptive families so they can understand the possible sensory triggers for a child and then be able to parent them therapeutiucally.
Tamryn Coats discusses the impact of postnatal depression, and explains why South Africa is particularly vulnerable to this disorder.
Similar to Attachment, trauma, emotional regulation in school to make sense of 'nonsensical behaviour' :Teachers safeguarding conference Barton Local Collaborative trust January 2015 (20)
Complexity of Attachment Issues in FASD.pdfHelen Oakwater
Prenatal alcohol exposure can significantly affect a fetus. (FASD)
The intersection of attachment, trauma and FASD creates multilayered complexities for the child and parents.
This presentation is a graphical version of the chapter Helen Oakwater wrote for "Prevention, Recognition and Management of Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders"
Meet TIM, BOB, AAMY & SANDY who represent such children.
Wondering why the adoption process seems so intense?
This webinar will explain the process, the children who wait and what you can do to prepare yourself.
Helen Oakwater, adoptive parent, international trainer and author explains the why and how of the process and will expand your thinking about the epic adventure that is required to be and survive as an adoptive parent to a children who experienced abuse and/or neglect before they were placed for adoption.
NSW Child Protection Conference sept 2017 Helen Oakwater
The beliefs that lurk below the presenting behaviour of a child (especially a hurt or traumatised child) is where real change and understanding occurs. Useful for Social Workers, Teachers, Foster parents, Adopters and beyond.
National Child Welfare Conference Finland Keynote speechHelen Oakwater
Look at me - Dignified childhood conference (in English and Finnish) Need for 100% truth telling with children so their somatic memories match the story they are told using careful accurate language, to avoid confusion. This melts trauma which allows building of positive beliefs.
Its not just the booze. FASD + maltreatment & neglect EUFASD2016 conference L...Helen Oakwater
Prenatal exposure to alcohol causes irreparable brain damage creating "swiss cheese brains" with gaps and impaired functionality. Infant maltreatment and neglect post birth exacerbates the challenges. Using 4 avatars to illustrate typical scenarios Helen Oakwater raises issues, questions and offers some reframing for parents and professionals. Bottom line. DO NOT CONSUME ANY ALCOHOL IF AT RISK OF PREGNANCY otherwise you condemn your child (and yourself) to a tougher life with learning and health issues from birth to death.
multifaceted 'truths' contact presents to children in care Community Care Fos...Helen Oakwater
How to Future Proof fostered (and adopted) children.
Recognising the negative beliefs they formed in a toxic or chaotic environment in infancy and see the need to reframe these events.
Accept contact via Facebook is inevitable and 100% truth telling in age appropriate way is necessary to protect child.
Please note the live presentation includes beliefs and behaviour through time, timelines and several diagrams on flip charts making the entire experience sensory and more engaging for the audience.
Helen always gets outstanding feedback and high ratings for her conference speeches at Community Care Conferences.
Ethnobotany and Ethnopharmacology:
Ethnobotany in herbal drug evaluation,
Impact of Ethnobotany in traditional medicine,
New development in herbals,
Bio-prospecting tools for drug discovery,
Role of Ethnopharmacology in drug evaluation,
Reverse Pharmacology.
Read| The latest issue of The Challenger is here! We are thrilled to announce that our school paper has qualified for the NATIONAL SCHOOLS PRESS CONFERENCE (NSPC) 2024. Thank you for your unwavering support and trust. Dive into the stories that made us stand out!
How to Split Bills in the Odoo 17 POS ModuleCeline George
Bills have a main role in point of sale procedure. It will help to track sales, handling payments and giving receipts to customers. Bill splitting also has an important role in POS. For example, If some friends come together for dinner and if they want to divide the bill then it is possible by POS bill splitting. This slide will show how to split bills in odoo 17 POS.
The French Revolution, which began in 1789, was a period of radical social and political upheaval in France. It marked the decline of absolute monarchies, the rise of secular and democratic republics, and the eventual rise of Napoleon Bonaparte. This revolutionary period is crucial in understanding the transition from feudalism to modernity in Europe.
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How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17Celine George
It is possible to hide or invisible some fields in odoo. Commonly using “invisible” attribute in the field definition to invisible the fields. This slide will show how to make a field invisible in odoo 17.
The Roman Empire A Historical Colossus.pdfkaushalkr1407
The Roman Empire, a vast and enduring power, stands as one of history's most remarkable civilizations, leaving an indelible imprint on the world. It emerged from the Roman Republic, transitioning into an imperial powerhouse under the leadership of Augustus Caesar in 27 BCE. This transformation marked the beginning of an era defined by unprecedented territorial expansion, architectural marvels, and profound cultural influence.
The empire's roots lie in the city of Rome, founded, according to legend, by Romulus in 753 BCE. Over centuries, Rome evolved from a small settlement to a formidable republic, characterized by a complex political system with elected officials and checks on power. However, internal strife, class conflicts, and military ambitions paved the way for the end of the Republic. Julius Caesar’s dictatorship and subsequent assassination in 44 BCE created a power vacuum, leading to a civil war. Octavian, later Augustus, emerged victorious, heralding the Roman Empire’s birth.
Under Augustus, the empire experienced the Pax Romana, a 200-year period of relative peace and stability. Augustus reformed the military, established efficient administrative systems, and initiated grand construction projects. The empire's borders expanded, encompassing territories from Britain to Egypt and from Spain to the Euphrates. Roman legions, renowned for their discipline and engineering prowess, secured and maintained these vast territories, building roads, fortifications, and cities that facilitated control and integration.
The Roman Empire’s society was hierarchical, with a rigid class system. At the top were the patricians, wealthy elites who held significant political power. Below them were the plebeians, free citizens with limited political influence, and the vast numbers of slaves who formed the backbone of the economy. The family unit was central, governed by the paterfamilias, the male head who held absolute authority.
Culturally, the Romans were eclectic, absorbing and adapting elements from the civilizations they encountered, particularly the Greeks. Roman art, literature, and philosophy reflected this synthesis, creating a rich cultural tapestry. Latin, the Roman language, became the lingua franca of the Western world, influencing numerous modern languages.
Roman architecture and engineering achievements were monumental. They perfected the arch, vault, and dome, constructing enduring structures like the Colosseum, Pantheon, and aqueducts. These engineering marvels not only showcased Roman ingenuity but also served practical purposes, from public entertainment to water supply.
Synthetic Fiber Construction in lab .pptxPavel ( NSTU)
Synthetic fiber production is a fascinating and complex field that blends chemistry, engineering, and environmental science. By understanding these aspects, students can gain a comprehensive view of synthetic fiber production, its impact on society and the environment, and the potential for future innovations. Synthetic fibers play a crucial role in modern society, impacting various aspects of daily life, industry, and the environment. ynthetic fibers are integral to modern life, offering a range of benefits from cost-effectiveness and versatility to innovative applications and performance characteristics. While they pose environmental challenges, ongoing research and development aim to create more sustainable and eco-friendly alternatives. Understanding the importance of synthetic fibers helps in appreciating their role in the economy, industry, and daily life, while also emphasizing the need for sustainable practices and innovation.
How to Create Map Views in the Odoo 17 ERPCeline George
The map views are useful for providing a geographical representation of data. They allow users to visualize and analyze the data in a more intuitive manner.
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Attachment, trauma, emotional regulation in school to make sense of 'nonsensical behaviour' :Teachers safeguarding conference Barton Local Collaborative trust January 2015
6. 0-1
Wall as metaphor for children's needs
Need NeedNeed Need NeedNeed
Childs needs during second & third year include:
Attachment Play Security Boundaries
Food Love Friends Encouragement
Sleep Hugs Warmth Shelter Routine
Eye Contact Comfort Attunement
Security Calm Food
Empathy Responsive adults Stimulation
Social skills Trust Toys
Need NeedNeed Need NeedNeed2-3
See Adoption UK website for “The Wall” interactive demonstration
7. SECURE CARE GIVING
’Good enough’ parenting
Winnicott
• Available
• Protective
• Sensitive
• Accepting
• Cooperative
• Flexible
• Consistent
• Predictable
• Open Communication
8. Securely Attached Cycle
Baby experiences
discomfort or a need
Baby protests,
usually by crying
Mother responds
picks baby up, makes eye contact,
talks to and soothes baby
Baby calms
trust develops
Baby plays and
interacts with mother
Baby rests
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9. Attachment
is an affectionate bond
between two individuals that
endures through space and
time and serves
to join them emotionally
John Kendell
10. • VIEW OF SELF
• I’m safe
• I’m loved
• I’m cared for
• I’m valued
• I can trust adults
• I’m special
• I’m okay
• VIEW OF THE WORLD
• It’s a safe place
• People love me
• People care for me
• I am important to them
• There is a place for me
here
• The world is okay
Attachment between child and others
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15. Disturbed Attachment Cycle
Baby experiences
discomfort or a need
Baby protests,
usually by crying
Baby rests
Mother does not responds
to baby’s cry or else
responds inconsistently
Baby protests
even louder
Mother responds with
anger or resentment
or does not respond
Baby gives up, trust does not
develop and RAGE or
APATHY develops instead
Baby plays with self
or becomes apathetic
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16. INSECURE ATTACHMENTS:
CAREGIVER CHARACTERISTICS
•Insensitive
•Under involved
•Inconsistent
•Anxious
•Uncertain
•Rejecting
•Hostile
•Cold
•Conditional
•Intrusive
•Controlling
•Frightening
•Frightened
•Helpless
•Abdicate
responsibility
+
David Howe University of East Anglia, Norwich
Ambivalent Avoidant Disorganised
Histories of non-attachment
17. INSECURE ATTACHMENTS:
CHILDS’ BEHAVIOURAL CHARACTERISTICS
•Hyperactivation of
attachment
•Coercive
•Passive
•Dependent
•Need + Anger
•Defended
•Emotions inhibited
•Compliant
•Self sufficient
•Independent
•Anger + Fear
•Fear/compliance
•Compulsive
caregiving
•Rage + Fear +
Sadness =
controlling
aggressive
David Howe University of East Anglia, Norwich
Ambivalent Avoidant Disorganised
18. SOME “SYMPTOMS” SPECIFIC TO THE TYPE
OF ATTACHMENT DISORDER
ANXIOUS
overly clingy
superficially compliant
“sell their souls” for acceptance
openly destructive if told “no”
AMBIVALENT
openly angry and defiant
destructive – things, people, pets
can’t give and receive affection
unless they want something
dangerous impulsive risk takers
AVOIDANT
isolated & don’t care
feel omnipotent, over
independent
sullen, openly oppositional in a
passive-aggressive way
DISORGANISED
“variety of symptoms- behaviour
is grossly disorganised,
bizarre and has features of
the other 3 at various times
often for no apparent reason”
Taken from “Children Who Shock and Surprise: A Guide to Attachment Disorders” by Elizabeth Randolph
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19. • VIEW OF SELF
• I’m not safe
• I’m not cared for
• I’m scared
• I’m unlovable
• I’m ignored
• I’m not valued
• I’m alone
• I’m bad
• VIEW OF THE WORLD
• It’s a terrifying hostile world
• People hurt you
• Dangerous place
• No one could ever love me
• I am not important
• There is no place for me
• The world is dangerous
• The world is not okay
Poor attachment between child and others
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20. (Adult) Arousal Diagram (Ogden & others)
Self Regulation & Window of Tolerance
20
Window
of
Tolerance
Hyper / over vigilant
Hypo / under vigilant
?? Dissociated??
Feel
&
Think
Feel
Feel?
22. Unmet early needs creates insecure ‘Wall’
thus destabilizing the future
See Adoption UK website for “The Wall” interactive demonstration
Need
0-1 Need NeedNeed Need NeedNeed
Need NeedNeed
Need NeedNeed2-3
Need NeedNeed Need Need4-7
Need
8-12
13-18
18-25
Need
Need
Need Need
Need
Need
Need
Need
Need Need Need
Need Need
Need
Need
Need
Taken from Bubble Wrapped Children
24. What’s an infants
experience with Inadequate,
Poor or Toxic Parenting
and/or
Domestic Abuse
and/or
Chaos
and/or
Trauma?24
25. The inadequate
parents
constantly focussing on their own problems, they turn their
children into “mini adults” who take care of them
The controllers
they use guilt, manipulation, and even over helpfulness to
direct their children’s lives
The alcoholics
*(drug abusers)*
mired in a denial and chaotic mood swings, their addiction
leaves little time or energy for the demands of parenthood.
The verbal
abusers
whether overtly abusive or subtly sarcastic, they demoralise
their children with constant put downs and rob them of their
self confidence.
The physical
abusers
incapable of controlling their own deep seated rage they
often blame their children for their own ungovernable
behaviour
The sexual
abusers
whether flagrantly sexual or covertly seductive, they are the
ultimate betrayers, destroying the very heart of childhood - its
innocence.
Classified by Dr Susan Forward in her book “Toxic Parents” 1989
Toxic Parenting
** In 1989 Dr Forward did not include drug abusers though similar issues would apply now
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Taken from Bubble Wrapped Children
26. Classification What was done to them
Some examples
What it did to them
Their experience
& possible interpretations
Emotional
Abuse
Berated, insulted, compared
unfavourably to others, ignored
I am wrong, bad, worthless.
They want me dead. I should
not be alive, I’m not wanted
Physical
Abuse
Beaten, thrashed, burned, used as
ashtray, hit with chair/stick/hand/belt,
locked in cupboard
The world is a dangerous
place,
I am bad & powerless,
Sexual
Abuse
Violated, Raped, forced to watch or
participate in sexual acts
Destroyed innocence.
I can’t trust anyone
Neglect
Unfed for days, nappies not changed,
no toys, no interaction with adults, left
alone for hours, unwashed, no play,
No self concept. I don’t
matter, life is hopeless, I am
helpless &/or rage filled.
Do I even exist?
Chaotic
environment
Lots of different carers, locations,
broken promises, frequent moves,
squalor
No safe or secure base.
I am terrified.
Trauma
A combination of experiences and
events that felt utterly overwhelming or
life threatening to the child
I am going to die.
Reasons children are permanently removed from their birth families
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Taken from Bubble Wrapped Children
28. overwhelming emotions which they
are unable to integrate
or
a feeling they might die
What is T R A U M A ?
Psychological trauma is generally defined by two conditions
An individual experiences either:
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
(adults)
Developmental Trauma Disorder
(children)
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29. T r a u m a
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• PTSD: adult
• Developmental Trauma Disorder: children
• complex trauma
• Secondary Trauma: Adults
• Brain wiring: look at CTA
• Sensory: see, hear, feel, taste, touch
–Kinaesthetic, Feeling, Internal bodily sensations
–Visual Visual
–Auditory ♫♪♪♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪
–Taste
–Smell
30. Sensory Experience
with Neglect
•Hear - Crashing doors ..
“shut up you stupid f**ing
Bi**h”
•See - darkness
•Taste - sour milk, vomit
•Smell - own faeces &
urine : vomit & sour milk
•Feel - cracked skin of
nappy rash from stomach
to knees,
•Feel - cold feet, gripping
stomach pains from
hunger
33. “The body keeps score”: van der Kolk
∆ Implicit Memory 0-18 months & later
∆ sensory
∆‘ heap’, chaotic, no labels
∆ Explicit memory only after 18+ months
∆ more organised (filing system with labels)
∆ language
∆ Internal video recorder,
∆ Internal working model, representation of the world
∆ Imprinting 0-7y
∆ Modelling 7-14y
∆ Socialisation 14-21y
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36. Triune Brain (Maclean)
3 parts: evolved responding to evolutionary need
36
Base (Reptilian brain) Hindbrain Oldest, FASTEST
Brain Stem, physical survival, breathing, excretion, blood
flow, temperature, other autonomic functions
Emotional (Limbic system)
Hippocampus, amygdala, hypothalamus.
Seat of emotions
Thinking (Neocortex) Newest SLOWEST
cerebral cortex, forebrain
Seat of reason
?
?
?Take a BET: Which part of
their brain are they in?
37. Some Factors to consider in schools
(just a taster for this mornings session)
facilitating individual learning
classrooms & classroom mangement
thinking skills
emotional intelligence
internal working model
sense of self (fragile)
Explore Louise Bombers work for much good
detail, strategies and practical advice
39. Differentiation:
a concept, process or task is adapted in
line with a child's ability, understanding
and developmental stage
• children with trauma become stuck
developmentally (parts of ‘developmental
needs wall’ missed)
• They often don't move from immediate concrete
present into world of symbolic and abstract terms
(function at lower age)
• you will need to ‘differentiate’ emotional, social
and academic tasks that are symbolic or abstract
in nature (fill in developmental gaps)
Fragile sense of self
40. Differentiate by actively
facilitating supportive scaffolding
• engage the child's interest
• simplify the task (bite size chunks)
• solve the problems
– ‘active presence’ anticipate when
support required and intervene to
avoid failure
• model enthusiasm
Fragile sense of self
41. Differentiate (Ref:Bomber)
1. the way we relate to the child
• view their behaviour as communication
2. the language we use
• be explicit, (think Autism strategies)
3. their emotional and social tasks and
targets
• think childs emotional and social location then
position academic task appropriately
Fragile sense of self
42. 42
How do kids learn?
• when emotionally regulated
• when feeling safe
• when curious
• when feeling supported and encouraged
• when experiencing success
• when they understand
• when focused
• in bite size chunks
• when task is achievable and challenging
43. “Executive Skills in Children and Adolescents”
- Dawson and Guare
Planning Ability to create road map to reach goal or complete
task.
Ability to decide what is important and what to focus on
Organisation Ability to arrange or place things according to a system
Time
manage-
ment
Allocation of time, recognition of deadlines, time frames
and limits. Deciding on what is or is not urgent &/or
important
Working
memory
Ability to hold information in mind while performing
complex tasks.
Learn from past experiences. ie utilize past learning or
bring old experiences to current situation. Future pace.
Ability to project learnings and problem-solving
strategies into the future.
Meta-
cognition
See things from the outside. Ability to stand back and
take bird’s eye view of self in current situation. Ability to
observe how you solve problems.
Thinking Skills
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44. “Executive Skills in Children and Adolescents”
Dawson and Guare
Response
Inhibition
Ability to resist impulse to say or do something without
thinking through the consequences.
Capacity to think before you act.
Self
regulation of
Affect
Ability to manage emotions, control behaviour
Task
Initiation
Ability to start task without undue procrastination
Flexibility
Ability to revise and change plans when obstacles, new
information or mistakes occur.
Adapt to changing conditions
Goal
Directed
Persistence
Capacity to follow through and complete task and not
be diverted
Emotional Skills /
Behavioural regulators
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45. Self
awareness
Knowing your emotions. Awareness of own feelings &
ability to use them as a guide to better decision making.
Self
regulation
Managing your own emotions
Able to recover from emotional distress, manage our
emotions, being conscientious and delay gratification
Motivation Develop achievement and goal orientation, so frustrations
and setbacks are put in perspective. Motivating yourself.
Empathy Recognising and understanding other people’s emotions
Awareness of what others are probably thinking or feeling
Social
skills
Managing relationships – managing the emotions of others
Interacting well with people in both close personal
relationships and wider social networks
Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to perceive, control, and
evaluate emotions . It embraces two aspects of intelligence:
∆ Understanding yourself, your goals, intentions, responses and behaviour
∆ Understanding others and their feelings.
Emotional Intelligence : Daniel Goleman: 5 core domains
Consortium for Research on Emotional Intelligence in Organizations EI Framework: www.eiconsortium.org
46. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
Esteem
Needs
Belonging Needs
Safety Needs
Physiological Needs
Deficit Needs
Self
Actualisation
Being Needs
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Applies to children and adults
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How do kids learn/ or not?
• when emotionally regulated hyperaroused
• when feeling safe - hyper-vigilant
• when curious - bored, disengaged
• when feeling supported and encouraged
shamed and criticised
• when experiencing success failure (real,
imagined or anticipated)
• when they understand lost and confused
• when focused distracted, hungry, tired
• in bite size chunks overwhelmed
• when task is achievable and challenging
mistargetted goals
49. Eeerrr
Subordination Conjunctions
A WORD OR PHRASE WHICH CONNECTS AN EVENT
OR ACTION TO A MOMENT IN TIME
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when, since, as, after, before,
until, while, once, as soon as
1.Before you go out to play, put your coat on
2.You can’t go cycling until after lunch.
3.As soon as you've finished your homework you can
get a biscuit
4.As its raining you can watch TV, then turn it off
when Gran arrives.
5.Since you didn't tidy your toys you cant play with
your Xbox after tea
requires mental manipulation
Eeerrr
Eeerrr
Eeerrr
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1.Put your coat on. (show or help)
…. Now you can go out to play.
2.First Lunch. Second cycling.
3.Lets do the homework together.
4.TV until 5.30 (when the big hand
is on the 6).
5.Lets tidy your toys together.
Actions
Events + =
specific
sequence
required
Clear language & modelling
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To understand traumatised children
whether adopted,fostered or in birth
families, you must see beyond their
presenting behaviour.
Get deeply curious
Run the trauma filter
Be flexible and creative
A problem well defined
is a problem half solved
52. Traumatised Children: Their state #1
∆ Attachment disorders
∆ Emotional dysregulation
∆ Hypervigilance
∆ Poor impulse control
∆ Developmental delay
∆ Multiple Sensory Triggers
∆ 7 Fs: Primitive brain
∆ Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fornicate, Flop, Feed, Fart
∆ Thinking skills
∆ Cause & Effect Thinking (Executive Functioning)
∆ Only the ‘now’: reflection, predictions,
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53. ThinkTrauma
What doesn’t work
• Naming and Shaming (they already feel bad about
themselves and think they are toxic)
• Raised voice (echoes abuse)
• Telling them it doesn't matter (eg if they don't have
a photo of themselves as a baby). It does to them.
• Tell them to “act their age” - they are -
functionally not chronologically
• Negative labelling
• Long verbal instructions
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54. REACTIVE ATTACHMENT DISORDER
CHARACTERISTIC ”BEHAVIOUR” SYMPTOMS
• need to be in control of events and other people in their
lives
• crazy lying
• lack of conscience
• food – store, hoard, sweets addiction (?sugar = love?)
• inability to make or maintain eye contact
• oddity in how they form relationships with other people
– disinterested in others
– overly affectionate in indiscriminate manner
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failure to learn reciprocal interactions in early life
Little or no opportunity for ATTUNEMENT
56. What’s the functional age of this child?
How can you help this child emotionally regulate?
Is this trauma triggered behaviour?
Need
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8-12
13-18
18-25
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SENSORY
TRAUMA
TRIGGERS
57. “It takes a village to raise a child,
a town to raise a challenging child
and an entire city to raise a
traumatised child.”
Helen Oakwater
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What do traumatised children need?
58. Bessel Van Der Kolk
Developmental Trauma Disorder
(Proposed in DSM 5) & much more
www.traumacenter.org
Bruce Perry: Free Online training
courses The Amazing Human Brain and
Human Development; Brilliant source for
learning and reference
www.childtraumacademy.com
CTA
6 free online lessons
Bruce Perry: Child trauma academy articles www.ChildTrauma.org
Peter Levine: Somatic Experiencing
Healing Trauma (thin book + CD)
www.traumahealing.com
Babette Rothschild, Pat Ogden, Dan
Seigel trauma & body links
Complex Trauma Task Force white paper www.NCTSnet.org
NLP Trauma Processes, EFT, EMDR,
The Brain from Top to Bottom http://thebrain.mcgill.ca/index.php
“Trauma” Prof Gordon Turnbull (Lockerbie etc)
Trauma: Sources, References & People
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59. SOME BOOKS
∆ First Steps in Parenting the Child who Hurts: Archer
∆ Next Parenting the Child who Hurts: Caroline Archer
∆ A Childs Journey through Placement: Vera Fahlberg
∆ Building the Bonds of Attachment: Hughes
∆ Why Love matters: How affection shapes a baby’s
brain: Sue Gerhardt
∆ What every Parent needs to know: Margot
Sunderland
∆ The boy who was raised as a dog: Bruce Perry
∆ Trauma through a childs eyes: Peter Levine
∆ Attachment Trauma and Resilience: Kate Cairns
∆ Adoption Now (feature magazine) by Adoption UK
∆ Bubble Wrapped Children: Helen Oakwater
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